posted January 15, 2010 07:31 AM         

Welcome to LL.

It'll be good to see the charts. For stop-start influences, I'd be looking at Uranus. But it will help to see what influences she has in her chart, as well as the two of you together with the synastry.

posted January 15, 2010 07:39 AM         

Just kidding. LOL. I'm excited to see the charts.

posted January 15, 2010 01:07 PM         

I agree - don't push. She is probably concerned that you'll fall madly in love with her, and unless she warns you she's not ready for that, she'll end up hurting you. On the other hand, if she thinks you haven't fallen in love with her, she will be intrigued as to why, and will be drawn closer!

Don't play games, be straight, but don't push her.

posted January 15, 2010 04:12 PM         

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keep a methodical persistence going

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Ok - where's the earth, fire and Scorpio in your chart? Spill!

What you said sounds a lot like, either:

Taurus Mars
Scorpio Mars
Capricorn Mars

posted January 15, 2010 05:41 PM         

Scorpios can't really do anything half-ass, so it really depends on what she wants from you right now...and that could be FWB.

So listen to what she tells you about the "relationship" status, ok?

If you want more than she wants to give, you could become frustrated and feel a little rejected.

To avoid that, I would suggest you just relax and enjoy what she is geniunely giving to you. Her attention to you is pure and singular and as much as she is willing to give. Open your mind and appreciate what is given, not what you expect, and you may get more than you dreamed.

posted January 17, 2010 02:02 AM         

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posted January 19, 2010 10:24 PM         

Here's mine:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v319/OldVoice/astrochart.gif

posted January 20, 2010 12:22 AM         

I think you're more serious than she is.. and much less likely to overreact or become aggressive in a discussion or an argument.. You're a very mature person with the Pisces Sun + Capricorn Moon and very down to earth (Virgo Asc). Probably more reliable than the average Pisces. I mention that because being a mutable water sign - The Fish can get quiet slippery lol

I think you see this girl as a TOTAL firecracker.. I can understand why you'd like that about her.. since you could use a bit more fire in your own chart. You're also pretty fascinated sexually.. because generally you seem very easy going.. and she adds spice - a LOT of spice.. sexually lol She has one of the most sexual combos around with her Scorpio Sun & Venus and Aries Moon.

Overall - I think you could be good for each other.. with the occasional flare-up.. But considering your Scorpio-Pisces connections - any problems you have are likely to end in passionate make-up sex.

The only thing that concerns me (the absolute and ONLY thing - because it looks great overall) is her Retrograde Venus. This can be a tricky placement. It's not easy for her to love and be expressive about it. A lot of things are turned inward. I often find that the romantic partners of a Venus Retro person find it difficult to understand them and sometimes interpret their detached behaviour as "rejection". The Venus R. person can be morbidly afraid of romance. This may be because they're never entirely sure that the other person truly likes them. There's this quirky insecurity there. What makes this side to her even stranger - is that overall she comes across as a very confident Femme Fatale Type.

But - OK - You're a triple Pisces so you know this: We all come with our good points and our bad points.. Nobody is a perfect package.. and while this Retro Venus stuff won't be the easiest thing to "work through" with her.. I really think you're perfect for the job. You have a Venus/Mars trine in Pisces and Cancer so you're basically happy sexually. You feel comfortable in your own body - you like sex.. you don't have huge problems in this area.. and you don't have problems expressing affection&love through sex.

Due to your easy-going watery nature that is well-matched to her own Scorpionic waters.. I think she'll open up in time. I think she feels safe with you. She is not very relationship oriented.. but she probably won't be as scared to take the plunge.. with you - as she may be with other people.

I agree with everyone who said to take it slowly for now. She isn't someone you want to seem controlling with.. She'd prefer to stir the relationship in her direction. Being highly mutable I don't think you'll mind going with her flow. Basically be YOURSELF.. Don't be someone else.

Don't suddenly morph into a man who must have an official relationship RIGHT NOW.. because this isn't normally you. Right?
But maybe you're very in love with her so this was your reaction to meeting her ^
Take a step back.. and just be *you*
She'd prefer the laid-back you.. because she likes to feel in control.

posted January 20, 2010 12:40 AM         

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I was talking to a Cancerian friend on facebook about her; he said "Be careful. She's either in it for fun..

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Hmm I don't really see this.. The Aries Moon could be a bit immature.. but the rest of her chart is fairly level-headed. I don't think she's in it for "fun" only.

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or she's going to become very attached to you."

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Attached? No. Possessive? Definitely. Once you're hers - you're hers. Scorpio doesn't see grey areas and don't expect an open relationship. Honestly though, would this bother you?