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Lioness
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posted March 25, 2010 10:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message
ok long story short. I have worked with this guy for 5 years. He's not my "type" but anyways I always kinda watched him from afar and I had urges just to touch him... Well right after me and my husband split, I talked to him in length and I havent been the same since. I was finally able to get a composite chart with me and him and WOW.... OMG.. Well needless to say we hooked up right away... LOL only now its kinda hummm mixed up.. IDK what to do... Well here are the aspects from a composite chart.

his moon in my 8th
moon conj pluto
venus oppo jupiter
venus oppo pluto
venus trine neptune
asc trine moon
mc conj uranus
mc quincunx venus
North node in the 10th
true node conj mars
true node opps sun
true node opps mercury
black moon lilith in the 9th
true lilith conj jupiter
true lilith oppo chiron
true lilit semisextile true node
eros in the 1st
ceres conj neptune
ceres trine neptune
vesta conj chiron
sappho conj neptune
psyche conj true node
psyche conj mars
eros square mc
eros trine jupiter
eros trine pluto
eros sextile neptune

venus chiron vesta in 3rd house
This in only a few that really stand out.. Not to mention all the other stuff...

In a synastry chart
my venus, saturn is in his 7th house
his
sun,mercury,mars are in my 12th
etc etc...

Please tell me what you see here...

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oneruledbymars
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posted March 26, 2010 10:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for oneruledbymars     Edit/Delete Message
Lioness:
its definetly a soul mate relationship. I'm curious, did you check your Vertex placements, its a profound clue as well.

Checkout:
Valentine, Kaali, Angel, Isis, Osiris, Horus, DNA, Spirit, Karma, Destinn

That will give some clues as well.
What's important now is to detach.

Does that make sense?
In a Soulmate relationship, initially we must protect ourselves Energetically so that it doesn't pull from us and transform the Plutonian way and with all that Pluto unless you transcend by using the Neptunian Energy in the connection you will go through a transformation but one of you will hit rock bottom in the process, just depends on who is more blinded by there emotional life to see the connection for what it really is..a wake up call.
If are able to detach though you can learn the lesson faster with less downtown time....if he is the one then time and detachment will help you get to know him for who he is and it keeps us from projecting because it takes the Ego out.
Soulmate relationships are exhilirating and they can put us on the fast track with Karma, but they can be traps as well.

Hope this helps.

In the meantime if its going good, enjoy it.
I'm curious what's mixed up about it?

He feels like he might be a runner that's why I ask that?

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Lioness
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posted March 26, 2010 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message
Im new to astrogloy so I dont know about the vertex or how to look into it. Actually he brought me to astrogoly bc he put me a spirtual path to "find" myself. SO Im just learning.

Whats mixed up about it?? LOl.. Everything he's a Pisces with a Scorpio moon. Should I say more??? LOL

IDK its really weird. Our relationship is a complete and total secret. BC of work Im a manger and he's not... No one knows and we have our own little world together. But that also puts a strain on this...
We have gotten so intense that it became inapproiate and one day we said hey we should stop and both of us were like OK.. COOL... That was in Jan.. Only now were in March and we are not "hooking up" any more. but we cant let go either.. The pull is strong... and I know he feels it he's even expressed to me, how he desires me and just wants to touch me.. But he pushes that away and runs.. But comes back... and runs and comes back... He says he wants to be just friends, but then tells me he desires me soo badly.... IDK I just dont know how to handle or what to do.... Im at a complete loss... But Im obbessed with it also.. LOL Neptune/Pluto aspect...

One aspect even said if we look into each others eyes we will see a mirror in ourselfs... (sorry forgot which one.)

You said its important to detach... What do you mean??? HOW???

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oneruledbymars
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From: South Carolina
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posted April 20, 2010 09:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for oneruledbymars     Edit/Delete Message
Sorry to be just not getting back to you Lioness...
If you go on Astro.com you have an option to show the Vertex when you do a chart. The Vertex is very helpful in my opinion when it comes to pinpointing fated events. That were bound to happen which helps us accept the situation and deal with it... because on some level you know you are enduring something bigger than you...Keeps us from being the Victim as much.
So he put you on the "path" huh, thats usually the purpose of soulmate relationship.

Emotional detachmentin the sense that I speak of...is more along the lines of mental assertiveness.
I does not mean you cannot connect with your emotions, but just the opposite. You connect to them so well that you do not act off of them, you rise above them. To a logical place to think, where emotions cannot take control. So that your decision is 50 emotion and 50 logic.
In order to realize that you must understand your emotions in relation to your chakra system and how that works.
But for a simple explanation.
To detach you must learn not to engage the emotions of others, or a least you have the ability to choose when to do so...
For instance in this situation the person is pushing away from you and running....but comes back and runs and comes back and....so on and so forth.
Basically he has you on a rollercoaster ride, and your emotions are starting to feel drained and so your thought pattern is turning negative...you think your obsessed and at a complete loss, no?

So then you must take your emotions out of it, the moment things go negative. You must protect your energy. But in order to do that, you must understand that all is energy...that you are energy...and that when you are caught in situations like this.. you are allowing your energy to be syphoned by the negative frequencies you are tuning into.

You must deal with him the way a parent would a child begging to eat dessert before dinner. He must eat his food so that he has healthy nutrients in his body and his desert last...he doesnt know this so he keeps begging...yet his parent will tune him out...not because they dont care or arent empathetic..but because they are approaching the situation with Wisdom gained from knowledge...you must approach this relationship the same way.

Ask yourself...rationally...would you treat someone you were in love with the way he is treating you?
The leaving and the coming back....the just be friends but still sexually attracted?
Would you do that to someone or would you just be with them?

Also is that how you treat yourself...do you only love yourself sometimes...and not all the time...would you deliberately do something to yourself that you know is not loving?
I guess what Im asking is on a scale 0-100 how much do you love yourself?

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