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Topic: Spiritual cord attachment
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kitkat18
Knowflake Posts: 14
From: canada
Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 02, 2010 01:20 AM
 
so...wondering if anyone knows about cord attachments? I have one right now that I am trying to break with someone and it's been a struggle trying to get rid of it. Anyone can help with this?
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GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 3265
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 02, 2010 02:38 AM
Yep, I know about it. I am hating it right now. Someone is yanking mine, because he knows that I have drifted away from him.The more he yanks, the more I think of him, and the more he yanks, see, it's a cycle. There are some back threads in this forum for ways to cut it. I can look them up for you, if you cannot find them.
Just be warned that sometimes, the intense act of cutting, actually summons them worse!! Best of luck to you!  IP: Logged |
kitkat18
Knowflake Posts: 14
From: canada
Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 02, 2010 10:27 AM
Oh makes it worse, really? I have tried the cutting technique for a week and it helped a bit, but it's still there so I'm still trying lol. I did find though, after I had finished the cutting the first time I did a reiki session because of all the emotions and the reiki did help......but back at square one now! Which technique have you used?
Thanks for your reply=) IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 3265
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 02, 2010 06:47 PM
It was a visualization technique, I believe in this very forum, somewhere in the back threads.It made it worse for me, I can't speak for everyone though, I think it's because, using the technique had me thinking of him so intensely, and picturing him, that he felt that, and reacted.
He called or texted me either the same night or the next day.
So, I find with him,
it's best to ignore him. That is the only way I can deal with it. I don't go to his myspace, I don't look at old pics, I just try to forget him. Seems to work best for me, but, like I said everyone is different. His is a Scorpio sun/ cancer asc, so, he feels vibes pretty strong. I have to keep this in mind, and not drift off in thoughts of him, because he'll know it!! IP: Logged |
Diana
Knowflake Posts: 1702
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Registered: May 2009
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posted April 02, 2010 07:11 PM
Ahh, don't you hate that there are certain people, that if you think about, they KNOW it? I find it very cumbersome. It's my head, get out! lolIP: Logged |
cherle
Knowflake Posts: 94
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 02, 2010 08:26 PM
I have this with a mildly famous actor. I'll avoid things he's in, and try to forget about him, because the feeling of some sort of psychic pull on me when I'm seeing him or remembering his acting work is too much. And I don't even like half the stuff he's done! I can ignore him for a while, but then something will happen to remind me he's out there. LOL. He'll pop up in weird places where I wouldn't expect to see him. I don't feel an attraction to him so much as a PULL, like someone's yanking on me to turn around and pay attention to him. It's not normal and it's actually very unnerving. He showed up on a PBS documentary more recently, and I wasn't at all aware he was going to be in it. I wasn't looking at the TV when he came on, but I instantly recognized his voice. And I was like "UGH! I can't get away from this guy!!!" And for days after I was just haunted by the sound of his voice--couldn't get it out of my head. Visualization helps me. Actually it works quite wonderfully, when I am not so unnerved and flustered to remember to do it. It's just it doesn't seem to ward off me "bumping" into him again somehow, either on my TV or in a small part in a film or via a google search for something else or whatever. Then it's like the PULL starts all over again. Physical activity helps me too. Whenever he "pops up" in my life again, it's like something in me is set unbalanced, and I have to restore that balance. I think he must represent something to me unknowingly that I yearn for on a very deep, unconscious level. I have some pretty intense synastry with this actor. A lots of in-orb DWs--we have Venus DWs out the whazou, with Uranus, Neptune AND Pluto--and other wild stuff. One of those DW is a DW Sun novile MC less than degree for both. Noviles are minor aspects that are believed to be unconscious, even psychic and karmic spiritual links, and resonate to the expansive and searching energy of Jupiter and Sagittarius. Maybe that's the unconscious spiritual connection that seems to be sustained/re-energized by his career, which keeps my Sun in contact with him over the distances between us, both geographically and socially? I don't think I could even meet this actor in person, honestly. I think he'd just upset me too much. It's weird, but I don't see it as that much different that with other people's experiences with a "spiritual cord" with people they know in IRL. It's just the big differences are I've never met him, only know of him through the media, and, because of the media, I have a harder time "blocking" him out of my life completely. IP: Logged |
Buzzorific
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: Tx, USA
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 08:29 PM
I was very attached to my ex for years (even a few after I was married to my current husband). It was very hard to break from him, so I OBE-ed him and we had a talk. We broke it off together and ever since, things have been very fruitful! I hear that he's doing very well now too (which is good for him). I avoid his FaceBook page and Myspace pages whenever possible seeing as we have mutual friends. Once in a while I'll glimpse at a picture of him at a party with some of my friends, and now I feel only happiness for him and his new life. Keep your chin up, kitkat, it can be done! @cherle: Wowie! I know the feeling! I wouldn't call it a cord like attachment, but I have a celeb-link (now turning into crush-mode) as well. Kinda annoying. Okay, it's REALLY frustrating. I checked our synastry and we've got a lot of stuff going on as well. Maybe I'll get a hold of him and he'll get me a job? That would be nice. Maybe that's why I'm so drawn to my celeb-guy? Or maybe yours is going to start an organization that you'll work for and do some major good! Maybe that's why you're so drawn to him? You never know.  ------------------
♥♥♥♥♥ All you need is love ♥♥♥♥♥ IP: Logged |
Diana
Knowflake Posts: 1702
From:
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 09:07 PM
What's obe'd?IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 3265
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 12:03 AM
Out of Body Experience.IP: Logged |
bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: u.k
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 10:01 AM
I have always thought how horrendous it must have been for Jennifer Aniston when Brad legged it with Angelina.
I mean, I don't feel strongly about any of them but can you imagine breaking up with someone and having to watch their life going on without you every single day?
That you couldn't go anywhere or talk to anyone without being reminded of it?
Ghastly!
The fact that she didn't cheerfully slit her wrists is a testament to some serious strength of character.
I don't think any amount of cord cutting would help that one!IP: Logged |
cherle
Knowflake Posts: 94
From:
Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 14, 2010 12:13 PM
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I wouldn't call it a cord like attachment
Well, I'm *quite* incredulous about your fantastical OBE story, so I guess we're even. Suffice to say, I would prefer you would not gainsay me, and in return I won't gainsay you. IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
Knowflake Posts: 60
From:
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted April 16, 2010 04:11 AM
Can you describe what it is like?IP: Logged |
DD
Knowflake Posts: 3884
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 17, 2010 07:19 PM
Cherle,I can absolutely understand you. Unnerving indeed. IP: Logged |
lionseye***
Knowflake Posts: 290
From: edmonton, ab. ca
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 18, 2010 04:19 AM
I've read that if you visualize that person sitting on the toilet taking a crap it helps you realize they are only human. Not a god.IP: Logged |
Buzzorific
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: Tx, USA
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted April 20, 2010 08:14 PM
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I've read that if you visualize that person sitting on the toilet taking a crap it helps you realize they are only human. Not a god.
LMFAO!!! That is very funny, and it does help to a degree (at least with me). I used to do that with judges at competitions. Makes it a lot easier to focus on the important things. quote:
Suffice to say, I would prefer you would not gainsay me, and in return I won't gainsay you.
No gainsays here. Sorry If I was not very clear at all on my last post. I wasn't really....sober.... In fact, reading back over what I wrote. I have no freaking clue what I was talking about. I am very sorry if it came off as a-hole-esque. ------------------
♥♥♥♥♥ All you need is love ♥♥♥♥♥ IP: Logged |
kitkat18
Knowflake Posts: 14
From: canada
Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 20, 2010 10:57 PM
@lionseye LOLLL!!! that is SO hilarious, but I could see how that would work!thanks everyone for your responses! it feels good to know I'm not alone and looney personally, i have tried calling on archangel michael and really do feel a difference IP: Logged |
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