posted May 29, 2010 08:24 PM            

So my main question actually is, what is your experience with anyone with both Sun and Moon in Cancer? I'll take experience with just Sun or Moon too

So far he's incredibly gentlemanly in a traditional way, actually gallant is a good word to describe him, I haven't seen a moody side (!) at all, sometimes shy, very artistic (talented), funny, quite interested in my whereabouts but with Cancer I'm guessing that means he cares since possessiveness to them is a good thing? He's actually incredibly skinny so to me that doesn't fit the Cancer body type, and he actually walks sort of like a bug (?) *but* the Cancer eyes are very much in effect here, so he's got that down.

posted June 03, 2010 03:19 PM            

As for experiences, I've also only had those with one or the other, never both at the same time. With Male Suns, it's mixed reviews. I find that its better when there's is not conjunct mine in the 7th, because when that happens there's always open hostility. When there Suns are in the 6th conjunct my Mercury, my Juno, my Chiron, or my Valentine....the connection is amazing. There's almost a complete understanding I don't get with many other signs.

posted June 04, 2010 08:45 AM            

He had mommy issues, all Cancer men do to some extent or another, and while he said he loved his mom very much, I think he really hated her and projected his (hidden) hate for his mom onto me.

He clings to the past and can not let anything go, including me, another negative expression of the Cancer energy.

Cancer sun and moon is alot of water and I get the feel of this individual drowing you, unless he has some other stablizing energies.

luck and blessings!!

posted June 04, 2010 08:49 AM            

ridiculously so, suffocating and smothering.

i got a bad feel when you mentioned his wanting to know your whereabouts...i had to talk on the phone with mine all the way to work and all the way home and IF i did not answer my phone i was (in his crazy mind) cheating on him, which i never did, but to this day, and this was years ago, he thinks i did.

posted June 05, 2010 02:39 AM            

Ahh, I don't really know what conclusion to draw from all of this.
A twin is one thing,
a man with cancer sun and moon is another,
but then add em up..

posted June 05, 2010 07:14 PM            

The Cancer moon might be part of what makes him incredibly funny. When he's on fire, he can get a whole room laughing.

I'm pretty sure it's what makes him very nurturing. He's such a good father to our son that whenever the little guy gets a cut, he runs to Daddy first. Daddy knows how to make everything better. Daddy is like another Mommy.

He was the one in his family who took care of the mother with breast cancer and the uncle who was old and sick. He made sure to call them, visit them, buy them food, clothing, whatever they needed. And still feels sadness about how they both died. It haunts him.

He thinks of everyone else first.

There, that's the good stuff.

The not-so-good, depending on your perspective (and remember, I'm a Scorpio woman):

He is more domesticated than I am, so I can never buy anything for the house without his approval or at least a major debate. Not a vase, not a set of dinnerware, not a toilet brush. No kidding. We've been in our new apartment for almost a year, and still nothing up on the walls. It's because it's such a process to get us to agree on paintings or prints, I usually become disgusted and just end up wishing my husband was one of those guys who let the woman buy what she wants because he couldn't care less.

He knows exactly what we have in the fridge and the cabinets. When we go to the supermarket, he knows how many cans of carrots we have left, how many bottles of gravy, etc. I know I should feel thankful, but it makes me feel sometimes like he should be focused on watching football on TV and drinking beer. I know, a stereotype that should be banished, but I can't help myself.

He tries to manipulate everyone around him emotionally by clutching his chest frequently to demonstrate that he has chest pain and he tells everyone frequently he thinks he's having a heart attack. I was told by his daughter (from his prior marriage) that this behavior goes back to his 20's and has never changed. I don't know if this is from the Cancer moon or some other aspect of his chart, but there's a lot of "poor me" type of behavior coming from him. This does not bode well for people who live with you.

posted June 10, 2010 10:01 AM            

Definitely both protective. Can get jealous but tend to deal with it fairly well. (being on the *confidante* side of things I know they get jealous but it's prob just their insecurity and it's not a big deal enough for them to cause a fight.. they will just brood).
Once that shell wall has been put up (if you hurt them) it will take a LOT for them to lift that. My mum is the sort of person, except for with us , who will put up the walls of 'eh I don't care anymore'. She obviously cared enough at one point to do the I don't care thing. My friend is like this too. But they do worry a lot about their significant others and immediate family. They are good at giving you your space though if you need it. They also need their space to an extent (but not so much that it looks like you don't care. Only when they ask for it!). Definitely love gushy emotions and declarations of love.
Mum has a Gemini merc. Friend has Merc in Leo.

posted September 02, 2010 11:21 PM            

All I know is that he is very caring, enjoys staying home, and likes to cuddle. That's just the surface stuff. Getting past that he is understanding, funny, dedicated, open-minded, has a huge heart (that he wears on his sleeve), and and sort of has that fatherly instinct (not in that creepy way, more so able to take care of things like a father).

That's something I've always noticed about cancers or people with a cancer sun or moon, they have a parental need to nurture their significant other after a certain point. This usually happens once they start to trust you. Then they will bend over backwards for you, become very understanding, and adapt to your needs.

If they don't trust you at all... they will argue with you all the time, always accuse of something in a jealous tone, and depending on their venus/mars/rising sign placements & house, they may or may not cheat. That last part is more likely to happen if their significant other has already cheated on them and they usually view it as a way to justify the actions of the person who cheated on them.

posted September 04, 2010 01:23 PM            

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If they don't trust you at all... they will argue with you all the time,

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posted October 11, 2015 05:34 AM            

I do love socializing, but I also love curling up in my little burrow. And working!

posted October 12, 2015 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Master_Zeromus:
I knew about one swedish girl born in 11/7-1980 and she was so funny, so feminine. She wanted to hug Me and have a future family with Me. Maybe it was for the better that it didn't evolve any further since 2 Cancerians under the same roof would be just too much of competition. Anyways I hope that this fantastic girl has a good life these days.

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posted October 12, 2015 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by dash17:
I'm a writer

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Ahhhhhhh. My condolences.