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Topic: love with 4 and 8's?
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AnnaMarie13 Knowflake Posts: 4 From: wausau, wisconsin, us Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 19, 2010 11:16 PM
So, I was dating an Aries gentlemen with moon in pisces, venus in aries, and a mars in taurus. he was born april 17th. It was fatal attraction at first sight, he got abusive very quickly (i always said i would NEVER put up with that but once again fatal attraction), he was very posessive and within a week he was talking marriage, kids, and I had already meet his parents. He was an alcoholic, suicidal, and had a horrendous childhood. When it comes to the 4 and 8, he's the 17th and my name is 13. the beginning was amazing and we connected well but what I'm curious about is the combination of the two in love and in Linda's Star Signs she stated that sometimes someone with a 4 numerology was sent to save it's lost twin? I'm just trying to figure this all out in my head. I'm a sag with a moon in Aries, Mars in scorpio and a venus in capricorn. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 3733 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2010 03:28 AM
Just off the numerology and onto the astrology for a moment, did your Mars opposte his Mars, by any chance? Also with your placements, did your Sun trine any of his Aries (Sun or Venus), or your Venus square his Venus or your Mars trine his Venus?Pisces is forever a romantic and add the fall madly in love at first sight quality of Venus in Aries along with the whole all or nothing quality of Taurus Mars you've got yourself someone who is going to fall hard and move along really fast. Not much courting needed and straight to the romanticism of happily ever after. Of course, that's without the whole self-destruction of alcoholism, etc, added to the mix. Do you have a history of "saving" or wanting to save men (from themselves) or confusing pity or compassion with love? IP: Logged |
AnnaMarie13 Knowflake Posts: 4 From: wausau, wisconsin, us Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 20, 2010 11:39 AM
The problem is that I can't figure out/don't know when exactly the time is that he was born so i can't place his asc or figure out his whole natal chart.I've usually been attracted to the men that i can't get and jesse was the first man that I was actually interested in that returned the feelings. I kind of attributed the alcoholism and suicidal tendencies with his pisces moon and his violence with his sun aries and mars taurus. IP: Logged |
AnnaMarie13 Knowflake Posts: 4 From: wausau, wisconsin, us Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 20, 2010 11:41 AM
and probably yes to the whole "saving" part =(IP: Logged |
mermaid26 Knowflake Posts: 476 From: just visiting you know Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 20, 2010 01:58 PM
Linda doesn't really say lost twin...she says fallen angels. Many 4's are good angels and many are fallen types (addicts, abusers, etc... I'm an eight and my first boyfriend was a four. It was a mutually abusive and insecure relationship. I was blessed and got out and improved my destiny 1,000 fold. He's still a fallen type from what I hear. The experiences I'm sure between 4's and 8's vary greatly.IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 743 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2010 11:39 PM
This link was near the top in the Linda-Land numerology forum, I thought it might interest you to take a look and maybe you can get some extra information in that forum as well. The title is about 4's and 8's. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum22/HTML/000005.html I'm glad you brought up numerology because I haven't studied it in years and years... of course I was very interested in it when I first found Linda about a decade and a half ago...
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AnnaMarie13 Knowflake Posts: 4 From: wausau, wisconsin, us Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 21, 2010 12:37 AM
Mermaid, yes, linda did state fallen angels I just couldn't exactly remember at the time. From what I've found out from many other 4 and 8's is that usually their most intense relationship, whether physically or mentally has been from another 4 or 8. But thank you very much for the reply.Melody, thank you very much for the link. The numerology in star signs has had me spinnin numbers for everything but it wasn't until a couple of weeks after everything ended did i figure out that my name was a 4 and his birthdate was an 8. which really helped explain alot for me. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Moderator Posts: 3536 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted June 21, 2010 02:12 PM
Hi AnnaMarie;I was born on the 6th, but if you add my complete birthday together, I'm a 4. Two out of the three loves of my life have been 8's. It's definetly a struggle, with some kind of lesson to learn. Seems like the 8's are trying to teach the 4's something. At least that's how it's worked for me. Best Wishes! IP: Logged |