posted June 23, 2010 05:19 PM         

Anyways, there is this new guy in my life. I am crazy about him and he stirs feelings in me that excite and scare the crap out of me at the sametime. I am so scared of getting my heart broken again. I could use some insight here. It is a long distance relationship, and his actions suggest that he is very committed to making this work. I just would like to hear what the charts say, besides what my own eyes say to me, cause I know I am tainting it.

I am going to post our synastry, composite and our composite progressed...help me out here please, I could use it...

synastry

composite

composite progressed with our progressed charts...

posted June 23, 2010 05:58 PM         

It looks like this is temporary, but DO NOT CHOOSE TO ALLOW IT TO BREAK YOUR HEART! I'll explain why.

I can read composite charts but I choose not to use them as a the most reliable source. In the Synastry Chart you posted, there is a square aspect between his Saturn and your Uranus. This aspect is like an earthquake of instability in a relationship and it's very strong.

It does not mean that you don't care for each other or love each other, it's just that it's a very difficult energy to carry off in a relationship.

Part of the attraction between you both is that your Uranus squares his Venus, this is usually a strong and exciting attraction, but it doesn't last for long. It's a temporary attraction, there's no stability connected to it.

Your Saturn makes no connections to his chart at all. Once again, this doesn't offer stability for the relationship.

There is a lot of sexual attraction in the chart, but sexual attraction doesn't equal a stable relationship. My suggestion is to have fun with him when you have the opportunity to be with him, but the comparison doesn't suggest that he is the one to build a new life with.

Please respond when you've had a chance to read this.

posted June 23, 2010 06:34 PM         

There's no need to look at the progressed charts. There is such a thing as overdoing it, especially when we're trying to find some kind of magical measurement that will salvage the relationship. It's not there and progressions don't cause things to happen.

I mean that in the sense that "Planets do nothing...people do." - Noel Tyl

I mean, if you want to get philosophical and say, "Well, we have free will, don't we?"

Yes, you definitely do. I'm not guaranteeing a break up, I'm just using my strong knowledge of astrology to tell you what I see.

Transiting Uranus will cross his 7th House cusp sometime within the next year. Because of the nature of these astro charts, I can't see the exact degree number of his ASC Axis, so all I can tell you is that when Uranus crossed that line, especially because it's the 7th House, it's highlyt, HIGHLY suggestive of a surprising relationship break up.

So once again, I'm not telling you to throw your relationship into the trash, I'm just letting you know that every relationship has something to teach us and each relationship has a "shelf-life" whether it ends through a break up, divorce or death.

I hope I'm wrong, simply because I don't want you to have heart break either, I wish you much happiness and don't miss out on the happy times with him but...this is the energy in the chart I'm only answering your question.

posted June 23, 2010 06:57 PM         

I guess my question is, since seelah and this man are close together in age, and he seems to be the one who has the Saturn/Uranus square, wouldn't it be that he has that aspect with everyone born in his generation? How would that effect things generally, because I wonder how to read stuff like this if the planets in the natal chart are already unstable, you know what I mean?

posted June 23, 2010 07:12 PM         

I use to go with the argument that people with generational aspects will always attract certain energy with the people in their same age group, like your friend, but what I notice is that they tend to not form relationships with their age group. Like me, I have never been with a man who is my age. The closest in age I've dated has been 5 years older than me. The youngest, right now, is 9 years younger.

They would both probably do better dating someone much younger or much older than themselves if they want stability.

Also, what I notice is that his Saturn-Uranus square affects his 6th House and 7th House. This doesn't mean that he can't have a relationship, it simply means that he has a very different relationship style than what regular society would deem "the ideal". He might actually do much better with long distance relationships that don't "try" to be stable. He might do better with someone who is, say, a flight attendant who isn't in the home for more than 3 days a week, a professional truck driver or someone like that.

posted June 23, 2010 07:15 PM         

You gave some great advice above my last post. You said exactly what I was thinking but I was having a hard time putting the words together.

Seelah,

posted June 23, 2010 07:38 PM         

I thought uranus already transited his 7th house...I could be wrong.

posted June 23, 2010 08:10 PM         

Uranus has not transited his 7th House yet. Currently, transiting Uranus is at 0 degrees Aries, I don't even think Uranus will reach his 7th House cusp before it goes retrograde, that's why I think you will possibly be together for close to a year before that transit happens.

I now see that his natal Saturn conjuncts your ASC. This could be a stabilizing factor in the relationship, so there is some hope for longevity. So I hope that does it for you. Longevity doesn't always mean forever, but if you find that you are handling things well, then by all means, make it work for you.

posted June 24, 2010 09:05 AM         

This man magicked me into his life, that is for sure. About a month after we met, he put it out to the universe "to bring into his life someone he could spend the rest of his life with". Then we got together. He hadn't been dating someone for years before we got together. Idk, just weird. Not saying that I am that "one" but just strange non the less. It was a real karmic clash when he and I got together, in fact...I call him my karmic collesion and I wasn't joking, it isn't a just a pet name for him. Everything has changed since we got together.

The other thing that gets me is that there is a real question on his time of birth, by an hour. his twin says one time and he says another. So, there is a question there and that would affect which house it hits. however, I wouldn't be surprised if the time I put in IS correct though, because about 4 years ago, he went through a huge change in his job occupation and I think uranus totally transited through that time when all that happened, but it also was the time when his fiance at the time left him. So, hard to figure out things on that end.

here are some other interesting tidbits. I have several friends that are pyschics and they informed me that huge change is coming my way, and mostly in regards to my profession. it really shocked me at the time because I was like, changing professions is the LAST thing on my mind right now. But when I think about that uranus transiting aries thing, well, I have an aries midheaven so....that makes perfect sense. They brough up him when that part of the reading came up...and they said he wasn't going anywhere but that was the time when things would actually come together..physically for us (cause live far apart now)...so again, idk.

posted June 24, 2010 01:39 PM         

Hmmm, another Cancer-Cancer relationship. I used to shun this a couple of years ago, but I keep seeing happy people of this match. And after alot of failed associations with other signs (including a long term relationship with a scorpio) and the realization that a famous personality I've been drawn to since I was 10 is a Cancer (who also happens to be married to another cancer), I wonder if this would really hurt to try.

What's it like though? The closest I've come to having a Cancer-Cancer relationship is with my dad (which sucks in a very saturnian way) and a platonic connection I had with my gay co-worker like two years ago (I absolutely ADORE him).