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LetsDance
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posted July 20, 2010 05:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't find my thread "My Scorpio Boyfriend". I posted to it a few days ago, but now it is gone. Has it been moved?

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teasel
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posted July 20, 2010 06:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you see the thread with the time in the subject line? That might be it.

The forum has had some issues over the past few days, and there are times when threads disappear that way - usually, it's been down to someone hitting "enter" when they had last clicked on an icon above (I think that was the case, anyhow).

I doubt that it was deliberately moved or deleted.

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Yin
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posted July 20, 2010 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LetsDance, I was very much into what you were saying about Scorpios. Please continue.
I added to your thread that sometimes Scorpios can be brutally honest. Much like Saggies only Saggies always look up to the stars with hope in the end where Scorpios just deliver it point blank and let you work in the hope yourself.

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posted July 25, 2010 06:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It looks like there was a glitch and you cannot post in there anymore - here's the link though: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/003254-2.html

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MysticMelody
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posted July 25, 2010 09:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just letting you know I didn't move or edit your thread...

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LetsDance
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posted December 18, 2010 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks all for your replies. I tried the link Peri added, but it says page not found.

Yin, thanks for your post. Yes, my scorpio is very blunt, mostly when he is angry.

I'm finding that my scorpio will not apologize when he has hurt my feelings UNLESS there is NO WAY he can wiggle out of it. Seriously. If there is a way, he will act like it never happened...

It's like since he appears to let bygones be bygones (as IF I'm the one at fault), then I should too and just move on. It's like he's saying: "apologize for what? You ****** me off too, because you should have come to me in a more congenial way with your gripe, not with an attitude or 'tone' ".

I read on AstroDienst about scorpio men and their pride. Whoa, talk about somebody FULL OF THEMSELVES.

Now in my experience, yes, he will get emotional and get loud and change the subject to bring up something I DID in the past, but never really stick to the subject at hand. When he does this, it gets me off track because I get ****** that he is bringing up something that has been reconciled and made amends for. Therefore, I start to defend myself and here comes the arguement! All because he won't admit he is wrong... oy, this doesn't make sense to me and I feel very disrespected, like my POV or my ideas on something dont really matter.


Any one experience this?

maybe I should start a new thread...

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LetsDance
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posted December 18, 2010 07:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
****** = P.i.s.s.e.d.

I guess this forum is censored now lol

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MysticMelody
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posted December 19, 2010 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
call it My Scorpio Boyfriend Part Two

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Dreamy_AriesGirl
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posted December 19, 2010 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreamy_AriesGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"I'm finding that my scorpio will not apologize when he has hurt my feelings UNLESS there is NO WAY he can wiggle out of it. Seriously. If there is a way, he will act like it never happened..."

Yep, I know this very well, they will only admit being wrong or weak in a certain situation if there's really no other way to get out of the mess. But anyway, i think its very important to let him know when you're not happy with his behaviour. It not neccesseraly means that every time you should fight with him until he says sorry, but you should surely tell him your opinion. In my experience, he will get the "message" even if he would never admit it to you.

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LetsDance
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posted December 19, 2010 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol, yea MM I could call it that but he is my husband now! I liked to chronicle my life with him starting at the beginning....

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LetsDance
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posted December 19, 2010 05:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dreamy_Aries, you are right, I'm learning that more and more. Just let him know. But sometimes I really want him to admit his wrong and offer an apology. What the hell is so hard about that for him to do? I mean, REALLY....

NOBODY's ego should be THAT big.

Plus, he has a way of even when I put it out there that he has offended me or did something I don't like, he will somehow twist it into becoming an argument so that "I" become the one that is wrong when it is really him and he could simply just acknowledge the THING and not just look at me with this look of his. I can't describe it... it's somewhere between like he's saying with his eyes: "O.Kaaaayy......i hear you.... hmmm, is that a cobweb on the ceiling?" and "are you still talking about that?"

Argh, it can kind of make one feel ridiculous for saying anything!

Is that the result he is aiming for? hmmm...

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LetsDance
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posted December 19, 2010 05:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
deleted - duplicate post

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Dreamy_AriesGirl
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posted December 19, 2010 07:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreamy_AriesGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Argh, it can kind of make one feel ridiculous for saying anything! "

Yeah, I guess this is exactly what they want to achieve, hoping that next time you would simply avoid the whole situation... But thats not right this way, of course. If its about an important issue, i try to fight with mine (with not much success btw,) but just to show him that its really matters to me. But the truth is the more you force them, the less likely that you will succeed, they are just like that... But if you simply tell them your opinion without suggesting what they should or should not do, its much more effective cause they wont feel ashamed or something.

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LetsDance
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posted December 22, 2010 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I choose to get off the merry-go-round. Any suggestions anyone?

Not end my marriage, but just handle situations better...

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