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Topic: Second Chance with Cancer Man??
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swtbttrfly23
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posted August 16, 2010 05:39 PM
  
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Lioness
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posted August 17, 2010 09:08 PM
Hi and welcome to LL... I am and Leo (ok duhh) LOL) and I have "kinda" the same situation with a Pisces.. We were doing the same things and we did get together, for a few months... They we just ended it.. It was very intense, to the point that it was scary for both of us.. So we just said yeah "lets me friends" (me, rolling eyes) We are still friends and see each other all the time, but on a confusing platonic level. We do flirt and we call each other babe, or baby or what ever else comes to mind.. I have tried many times to break the tie, bc It just added more confusion to me.. Yeah no luck there! I know I add confusing to him,bc I keeping going back and fourth to him... I run, but I came back... I feel a deep connection with him, more so than any other man in my entire life, including my ex husband of over 10 years. He is always on my mind.. Even if Im not thinking about him, he's there in my head.. His eyes just make me melt... Anyways sorry about you... LOL For me the only advice I can give is to take it one day at a time.. If its meant to be it will be.. I do believe the universe has a grand plan.. If its meant to be, it will be, at the time thats accurate.
(Ive known my Pisces guy for 6 years b4, we became like this) If you get an urge to contact him, do it!! Go with your first instinct.. One day at a time... Is my only advice to you! That's what I'm doing... IP: Logged |
swtbttrfly23
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posted August 18, 2010 12:42 AM
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Lioness
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posted August 18, 2010 09:19 PM
Try looking him up on face book.. And be like Hey!!! How are you???IP: Logged |
swtbttrfly23
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posted August 23, 2010 08:29 PM
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geminimimic
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2010 12:01 PM
if i was in your situation, i would be dying to send email/call/text over and over... simply because being in love or drawn to someone like a cancer is EXCITING! but in my own experiences (and through lots of research), i have come to realize that they don't deal with neediness. they reserve the right to be needy but stubbornly refuse to put up with it from a possible love interest. now, don't get me wrong, you must be AVAILABLE at all times for them, lol, but you just aren't allowed to act like you were there waiting in the wings. cancers would just prefer to think you read their minds and showed up at the perfect moment, despite the phone call and reservations. hah. but anyway, i would NOT stalk him on facebook, or at all. if you can someone get his email address or find him easily on facebook, then send a quick message. luckily, cancers and pisces both love to revisit the past and believe in fate. this should work in your favor. unless he's too scarred by what happened the first time around. and there's no way to be certain. be sure to include your phone number and a casual open invitation to text/call. he may not reply to your message but if he's willing to venture back out of his shell for you, he'll call. he may text first to reestablish the connection and once he feels comfortable he will call. it may take weeks or months before he gets back with you. DO NOT KEEP CONTACTING HIM! he will be turned off and will anxiously push you away and ignore you further. don't find his number from someone and randomly text him. don't send messages to all of his emails. don't call or message him at his work. not saying you would do any of this but my best friend is a pisces and would openly admit to at least thinking about doing all of that. lol!patience is the key to a cancer for sure. IP: Logged |
NecroSanium
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Louisiana, USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 20, 2011 03:30 PM
DX I know what you mean! I dated a Cancer man who was my best friend for five years! Here's my story I hope it makes you feel a little better DX I'm a Scorpio, by the way.I dated my best friend of five years after having a huge crush on him for an entire year. He was amazing ~ Until he avoided me for two entire months, that is... I tried every possible way to get a hold of him; well guess what. He ignored me. So I see him because of school as the semester begins. He doesn't talk to me and I see him talking to a girl! He wasn't dating this girl, but two days later after I still try communicating with him, he breaks up with me because 'we don't hang out with the same people'. We've had the same group of best friends for years. The year before, I'd dated his best friend [who is also my best friend] for about two weeks... I hardly knew him. It was a complete failure. This year, I dated that boy again for about two months. He was... Odd. Sure, he's talk to me. However, everything I said was replied to by the word 'ok', no matter what the importance. I broke up with him after I couldn't take it anymore. Now, don't get me wrong, he's a good person. But I couldn't stand the fact that he'd pay no attention to the things I say. He liked me a lot, though. I feel bad for hurting him, but we're still friends. NOW, the original guy [The first one I talked about] has another girlfriend! EVERYONE hates his girlfriend, including his best friends and I. We try and tell him all we can but it doesn't work. I get told he and I should still be together. I know. But he wants the OTHER girl. That girl is now jealous of me DX
HOWEVER, YES. A second chance with a Cancer man is VERY possible, and I HAVE done it. In fact, he's the one who asked me for a second chance! One thing is not to push it on him and to be your self, long story short. Best of luck.
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