posted September 07, 2010 05:41 PM         

I know, another message asking is it over? But my ex and I are talking and had made peace with each other over the hurt. But during mercury retrograde , there was miscommunication between us which led to me saying "get out of my life" in an email to him. Then it emerged that he had been faithful etc. Anyway, this seems to not be ending. The past is the past but it seems we are intertwined a little. I was told we have been blood family in previous incarnations.

Me: 26.11.1983 Melbourne, Australia
Him: 16.04.1984 Aguascalientes, Mexico

Can anyone enlighten on this period and if we do have a friendly future? I would appreciate is as we have moved on a long way from the time we hurt one another.

posted September 07, 2010 05:59 PM         

He is away in Mexico right now. He wrote to me explaining he knew why I had reacted the way I had and that he wanted me to know what the person had told wasn't true and he did care about me.

I wrote again and said sorry for getting angry (towards the end of our relationship, he had slept with another woman) and so it had hit a nerve. We agreed that all is in the past now and we forgive and understand each other.

I am not asking if we are destined to be together, i am asking more for what the nature of our relationship is. We seem to repel and attract each other, provide support and comfort at key times.

A tarot reading may be useful, especially as I am a little unsure how to move forward.

posted September 08, 2010 11:26 AM         

Card 2, What you most want at this moment
4 of Cups RX: The reversed 4 of Cups is a card about breaking out of a self-imposed rut. You are about to find yourself getting moving again.

Card 3, Your fears
2 of Pentacles: The 2 of Pentacles is a card about balance, often also about partnership. Your concrete responsibilities may make you feel as though you don't have time to feed your spirit. Rethink it. You may not have a lot of time, but even a five minute walk on your own to spend time in contemplation is a better choice than nothing at all. Remember that you must offer nourishment to body, mind, and spirit, in order to truly be in any sort of balance.

Card 4, What is going for you
2 of Wands: If things are feeling "out of balance" for you in general now, know that they are about to get substantially better. The 2 of Wands also often indicates a partnership with one other person. This can be business or personal, or both.

Card 5, What is going against you
7 of Wands: You may still have regular moments of self-doubt, unfortunately, but now is time to feel the fear, and do it anyway. By facing your fears and turning them to your advantage, you grow even stronger, and ready to face the next obstacle in your path.

posted September 09, 2010 03:29 PM         

That reading certainly resonates with how I am feeling and what has been going on in my life. I am feeling more positive :-)

Is it possible for a relationship reading? I saw a pic of my ex today and did not feel the sharp pain that i used to feel. So things are moving on.

Sparkling

posted September 09, 2010 04:41 PM         

I am interested too in the concept of soul group families. My astrologer who I visit every two years or when life is very tough, told me my ex and I were blood family in previous incarnations and whilst we are on different paths this life, we will bring each other love and support. She also said shared life in the future cannot be discounted. Does anyone else have experience of this idea of soul family and meeting in this life?

posted September 24, 2010 06:22 PM         

This relationship, no matter how hard I try keeps coming back to haunt me. My ex bf friend emailed me all this week to say he had an argument fight with my ex bf about me. My ex and I are not talking still (even after i apologised to him for the misunderstanding) and he was upset with his friend for being friends with me. Gosh, I am not involved yet involved because they talking about me. When will this end???

Honestly, I do not know what to do anymore. He was born 16 April 1984 aguascalientes, Mexico and me 26 November 1983 Melbourne Australia. Can anyone have an inisght into what is going on? Because I feel like I have moved on but there is something swirling around this....

posted September 28, 2010 02:55 PM         

He hasn't replied. I didn't expect him to but at least my words are out there...