Lindaland
  Soul Unions
  Overwrought Virgo - Help, Please

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Overwrought Virgo - Help, Please
mermaiden
Knowflake

Posts: 49
From: India
Registered: Jun 2009

posted September 10, 2010 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mermaiden     Edit/Delete Message
So, yes. I've been keeping this in for a very long time because I didn't know if posting it here would help resolve anything but there's been a very bad breakup in my life which, although I am working on getting over, keeps nagging me at all times.

Please, help. My heart is brok't.

The guy's birth details are - 13 Mar 1990, 0900 hrs, Kolkata, India.
And mine - 7 Sep 1990, 0930 hrs, Bilaspur MP, India.

I'm not the sort of person who falls for people easily but with this person, things just moved along completely by themselves. It was exhilarating and beautiful and a little scary. We have sun, moon and ascendant in opposition - and a lot of other planets too, including venus. Does this account for the attraction?

For the first few months things could not have been more perfect, then there began to be times when he would just explode and ask for space and want to break up. I'd get very very hurt but I tried being sensible about it and moving on - and every time, he'd come back, apologising and things would go back to being sweet.

This happened too frequently and we've finally broken up (over a period of a year, longer than we were in a relationship :|) - but I can't get him out of my head. I'm moving on with my life, and apart from the sometimes loneliness, I do fine.

But, what I'd like to know is, are there any indications in our charts to explain this? Am I better advised to leave for good and never look back - because this is just hurtful and nothing that can ever be resolved? Is there a future, here?

I'm desperate for answers. I can't talk about this with anyone else because I'm a very private person and I don't like admitting to weakness. :'(

Any astrological insight would be very gratefully welcome.

Love and gratitude.

------------------
for whatever we lose (like a you or a me)
it's always ourselves we find in the sea

IP: Logged

MysticMelody
Moderator

Posts: 884
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted September 13, 2010 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message
I'm sorry I'm not that talented at astrological interp for these sorts of issues. When you said that he would explode and ask for space it reminded me of one of my favorite books, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Some people don't like it, just as some don't like/believe in astrology but I found the book extremely valuable in learning about masculine and feminine energy. You might enjoy it as well. It is a very easy read and gives a great deal of insight.
Don't worry, this too shall pass. ♥

IP: Logged

mermaiden
Knowflake

Posts: 49
From: India
Registered: Jun 2009

posted September 15, 2010 08:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mermaiden     Edit/Delete Message
I have indeed read the book and even tried getting the guy to read it. But you can't force these things. I suppose he never really wanted a relationship even when he said he did.

Just feel so very helpless and depressive. Which is very unusual. I'm usually a very practical person.

Would someone please take a look at our synastry, though?

------------------
for whatever we lose (like a you or a me)
it's always ourselves we find in the sea

IP: Logged

mermaiden
Knowflake

Posts: 49
From: India
Registered: Jun 2009

posted September 15, 2010 09:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mermaiden     Edit/Delete Message
@MysticMelody: I've got so riled up over this, I forgot to add a thanks

And it's not just about the guy. I've turned even more reticent than usual and hardly have any friends to turn to either.

Here's a composite chart drawn up at astro.com

This is pretty much my last resort at finding some answers. After this, I'll just have to kick myself and "get over it" somehow.

------------------
for whatever we lose (like a you or a me)
it's always ourselves we find in the sea

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright © 2010

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a