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Topic: Help, Please
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Harpsong
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 14, 2010 07:50 PM
 
I am having a colossal problem, and not making much headway at all on my own.I'm having an issue with an attraction, more than an attraction to a person that has lasted over 20 years. I feel closer to this person than anyone I have met, I can actually feel this person. When we were together, it was like we knew what the other was feeling. Times have changed, I think he's found another relationship, but I'm having a lot of trouble moving on. I can't get past this feeling that we're connected somehow. I've attempted a cord cutting more than once, it's literally like a physical abdominal pain when I try.I've read some about Twin Souls, Twin Flames, etc., but I'm not sure what to look for in our charts. Am I imagining this closeness because of our sun/asc match (Cancer)?
I don't know how to bring up our charts here, but would be happy to share info with interested parties. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 3949
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 14, 2010 08:01 PM
You can make your charts at www.astro.com The website will give you choices of what charts you can have. You must have the following data: Date of birth
Time of birth
Place of birth for maximum accuracy. Once you've made the charts you then need to copy them to your computer, as in save them, then you chose an image hosting site, such as photobucket or imageshack, and copy the charts there. Once you've done that, come back here, reopen your thread, and copy the URL from your charts pix here. Good Luck! IP: Logged |
Harpsong
Knowflake Posts: 3
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 14, 2010 08:42 PM
Yeah... that didn't work out too well, but thanks for trying to help :-)IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 3949
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 14, 2010 09:10 PM
OK, if you are comfortable telling your info online, I can put it up for you..IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted September 14, 2010 11:05 PM
You can love someone even if they're not there and even if they don't love you back. It's just harder. Love doesn't always mean getting to experience someone loving you... but it often leads to it if you keep loving.
Easier said than done?
Sometimes.
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Harpsong
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 15, 2010 04:36 PM
It's OK,I'm starting to think that person represents more of a karmic lesson than anything else. I can't afford to waste time pouring emotions into a situation that's not going anywhere. It's complicated more by my idea that this person has someone else anyway, I'm not looking for any trouble, if they're meant to be together, I need to move on. I'm on to the search for my actual soulmate now. It's kind of exciting, because I've never actually concentrated on drawing this person to myself before. IP: Logged |
Peri
Knowflake Posts: 1484
From: 49N35 34E34
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2010 07:37 PM
Harpsong, it's been 20 years and you still think of him, are you sure he does not feel the same? You need to take courage and contact him and be honest with him. It's would be better if you were going to accept both yes and no. If he says 'no, I have moved on' it will become a lot easier for you to move on too and concentrate on finding your true soulmate, if he says: 'yes, I feel the same', go for it. I know it will be a very difficult thing for you to do but I did the same so I know what I am talking about. I contacted someone I hadn't spoken to for 7 years and I found out he felt the same all these years, he still loves me 
this person is not yours so you have nothing to lose now but there is a chance you will gain everything you have been dreaming about all these 20 years. IP: Logged | |
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