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posted October 19, 2010 11:22 AM         

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Marriage.For some reason this word scares me.I feel as if there is going to be some problem with regards to my marriage, i don't know why.Sort of a paranoia i think.I do want to marry. But for love.Only, i don't think i'll ever find my love though.
Can anybody help me regarding this by looking at my chart?thanks in advance.

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posted October 20, 2010 09:46 AM         

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Hi You didn't post your chart... but my thoughts weren't chart related anyway.

When I was getting married the first time... at an early age... I felt a screaming inside me. A "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!" and I ignored it and went through with it. After all, it had to wait to start screaming until AFTER my parents had made preparations and paid for things??? Um, no. That BIG voice had to go. But maybe that huge voice began as a small little voice and I just hadn't been listening.
You should listen.
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posted October 20, 2010 06:16 PM         

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I can totally understand what you are saying and relate to it.Sometimes our mind just screams against us. But unfortunately most of the times we never listen.And then we suffer the consequences.But sometimes, fate takes over.
There was this guy i met and got close with, who i wish i never meet again.During those initial times, when we met first, a voice kept telling me.."stay away".I was always cautious, as i did listen to this voice.Then again, fate intervened and brought us together.He happened to be in the same place at the same time.Also he was a friend of my best friend and i couldn't avoid him.So we became good friends.I always value friendship above everything else and trust my friends.But later i came to know, he was just not worth it.Had i given a bit more importance to this voice, i would have suffered much less.

Oh here's my chart..There is this concept of arranged marriage in my family, which is the reason why i'm scared..

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posted October 25, 2010 03:51 AM         

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Not that I can read the chart but the link appears to be broken.

As for the marriage question. I vote not to!

I am HORRIFIED of getting married and I have no idea why. Everything about it scares me, from the "all eyes on the bride" wedding to the being contractually tied to someone for the rest of my life. It's just too much pressure for me.

I don't know if that will change some day. Maybe if the right guy asks, or that pesky clock starts ticking (I know my poor mother is hoping that changes) but until then, the less legal papers, the better

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