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Topic: Long distance relationship with a Scorpio (help!)
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Deenie
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: Between two worlds
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted October 26, 2010 03:20 PM
 
Hi knowflakes! I'm a Cappie girl I've been in a long distance relationship with this Scorpio guy for 5 months now. I have known him much longer online and we are going to meet up early next year. I really like this guy and I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him, but it's been almost a year since I've been in a relationship and my eye is roving a little. I miss the intimacy of a relationship and he says he's ok with me having casual relationships with other people just so long as I don't have sex with them. That I understand and agree to (because I don't want to hurt him and I'm not interested in casual sex anyways) but at the same time I fear the effect that I'm having on another guy I recently met. I like him a lot and we clicked straight away, but I'm worried that I might be giving him the wrong signals (he's also a Scorpio). We've kissed and cuddled, but that's it. I want to be intimate with him but I don't want a full-on relationship with him. I can't bear to hurt either of them, if I can help it.Also I'm having concerns about the long distance relationship itself and whether or not it will last. I love him and he loves me, but we are both in University (I'm in England and he's in Ireland) so I'm kinda having trouble seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, so to speak. Any help is much appreciated. My synastry chart with my bf:
http://i69.photobucket.com/albums/i75/Gaze_In_Wonder/astrology/nadine-and-conor.gif
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LetsDance
Knowflake Posts: 74
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Registered: May 2009
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posted November 02, 2010 01:36 PM
Have you ever met the scorpio you are in an LDR with?IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 160
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 02, 2010 09:27 PM
ehhh... Just bc he says he's ok with it doesn't mean he is. I thought scorpios were all about all or nothing commitment? They say things to test you, test your feelings, test your commitment etc.
Just bc they say to go do A, doesn't mean they really want you to. =/
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mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 160
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 02, 2010 09:29 PM
And if you are only 'pretty sure' you are in love with him, I don't think you are. Love is a sure thing (there isn't any hesitation. You just know) and I don't think you would actually be doing things with other people if you did love that guy.
IMHO. Sorry if I sound harsh, I'm not trying to condemn you or anything.IP: Logged |
Diana
Knowflake Posts: 2195
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Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 01:05 AM
I think you should go with the guy you like IRL. You might not even like the scorpio ldr guy when you meet and then you'll kick yourself for not seeing what would've happened to the guy you like IRL, which is actually more substantial. You should agree to see other people until you two meet, because you may feel nothing when you do.
I highly doubt he isn't having sexual relations.
You should post the synastry with IRL guy.
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