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iliketurtles
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posted December 03, 2010 03:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iliketurtles     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
is their name supposed to frequently just spring up randomly in completely random places? Is it really because you are always thinking about them?


This has been happening to me for over a year and a half now. It isn't annoying as it used to be, it's just we can't be together right now (venus conjunct saturn, anyone?).

I don't sit around wondering if he feels the same about me, I have an inkling that I don't have to. It's just that wishful thinking and getting my hopes up would significantly increase my chances of becoming completely deluded lol

Can someone please help me out?
thanks

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Diana
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posted December 04, 2010 03:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does he have a common name?

I don't think it means anything. I think you notice it because he's already on your mind.

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MysticMelody
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posted December 04, 2010 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was in the exact place you are right now a couple years ago and I don't hear his name or messages anymore and I am more detached. I think it really is something inside you leading you somewhere. Unfortunately, it doesn't always lead into his arms... sometimes it just impels you toward his friends or his group or his job or his interests etc. There is something from him that you NEED and the Universe is prompting you to GET it.

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iliketurtles
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posted December 04, 2010 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iliketurtles     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Diana ~

His name is B*...he's the first B* i've ever met (aside from random people who all suddenly had the same name). It's not like John or Sam or anything like that


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I don't think it means anything. I think you notice it because he's already on your mind.

I thought that too. When it first happens to you, it's easy to think "@$@wereir#$# it's a sign form the universe saying that we will be together a^%^ljfywe$%$d%fieo!!".

Then nothing...then, if you can't figure whats going on, you feel like you are going batty, it's kinda scary

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Originally posted by MysticMelody:
I was in the exact place you are right now a couple years ago and I don't hear his name or messages anymore and I am more detached.

I can feel myself detaching from it. I wasn't expecting it to feel good. I supppose its a relief.

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I think it really is something inside you leading you somewhere.

May i ask where it took you because i'm a little confused about this one lol i'm sorry for sounding like a complete noodle


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Unfortunately, it doesn't always lead into his arms... sometimes it just impels you toward his friends or his group or his job or his interests etc.

...me and this other young man each had a little crush on the other (he who is actually my crushes ex-brother in law...) The younger guy works for B*. He was also in relationship as well so forgetting about him was easier. We like each other though and are friends

Oh no, i'm not worried about us (B) ever being together. So long as he's happy, I'm happy and that's fine with me. I have accepted the the situation and distance between us.

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There is something from him that you NEED and the Universe is prompting you to GET it.

You mean what i'm looking for in a partner?
I never really knew until i met him. I didn't know because wasn't interested in being in a realtionship so i never thought about it.

thanks you guys

i'm understanding the Laws of Attraction better now. It can be pretty twisted lol

edit: just changed his name back to B* better that way

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MysticMelody
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posted December 05, 2010 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a crush on Gemini who I basically fell in love with on first site and then found out he was the lead singer in the band I came to see that night. I felt like everything led me to him and I've adored him for years but it seems now he was just leading me to my "soul group" of people because his band is now working with another band I followed before I knew him and our association has bonded this group of people further, in my estimation. I think all signs led to him because he is an important part of my life and soul journey but not necessarily my life partner... if that make sense.

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iliketurtles
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posted December 05, 2010 06:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iliketurtles     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha there is one musician who i just can't shake off and he has also gotten me into (i've never looked up anyone elses recommendations, just his, he's very reliable ) all these other amazing bands. my venus is conjunct his north node. i like creative take on it. it is really interesting.

i am happy with your explanations thats good enough for me

thank you very much

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Mama Mia
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posted December 06, 2010 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm I went through this for a very,very long time and infact every now and then his name and bday jumps out at me..We too have Venus Conjunct Saturn..I chalk it up to his energy still surrounding me and my ability to draw things that I think about to me. I do think that we were heavily connected as well. That Venus Conjunct Saturn is a hard tie to breath even if its broken physically, metaphysically can take a long time to break..

I moved on and met a man that was into me as much as I was into him and that broke the tie. But every now and then this person seems to pop into my head and I might run into him..BUT I don't let it mean anything I stay focused on the happiness that I have.

Hope that sheds some light for you..

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iliketurtles
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posted December 07, 2010 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iliketurtles     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it does thankyou

yeah, we have it in composite too, typical :s

LOL. i thought you wrote ...his name and body jumps out at me.!!

at least i know now that my standards aren't so impossible to attain like i first thought. i don't even thnk they're all that hard to surpass. guys don't have to be "perfect at all because B* definately isn't lol.

I'm positive the all these "reminders" will stop one day too.

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posted December 08, 2010 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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