posted December 15, 2010 04:30 PM            

I have tried all the prim and proper girly things a Virgo man may desire...but, still

He is hesitant of this Pisces lady..

posted December 15, 2010 08:10 PM            

damn....I am not comfortable asking him for his exact birthtime, etc.

I only knew his birthdate and by doing the math, his year and from what I discovered, a wholelottavirgo!

Will try to find out more. We are nurses and he night shift and me day and I do not get the vibe that he wanted to give me more info when I asked him his bday

Thanks for the input!!!

posted December 16, 2010 09:19 AM            

These are hard men to get to know usually. Nervous, cautious and usually kinda closed initially.

Try getting into his head on an intellectual level. Talk about work, or a good book you read, or a movie you saw. Get him thinking. Ask him for his help with something. All the virgo men I have met always enjoy feeling needed and being helpful. But don't try and go too personal too quickly, or you will find that you will most likely get a closed door.

Where are his other personal planets?

posted December 16, 2010 09:53 AM            

thanks, good advice!

he is all of these things, like i said, i am not comfortable asking his birthtime, only got the jist of his other personal planets by doing the math. but i think he is highly virgoan.

funny, he pursued me at first. we come from the same area of the country, the midwest, so i mentioned to him that we should "hang out" some time. did not ask him out, just mentioned hanging out.

so he texts me late one eve, while he was working, coming on pretty heavy, but i could not get together with him that week, put him off till next, since he has been standoffish.

still cute, flirty, but just seems to be having problems "going there." and it is not me..all of his work buddies try to get him to go out as i am not the only one who has shown interest, but he remains alone.

i think he is depressed, he misses home and was floored when i texted him a pic of the snow... (from my recent visit to the midwest) now he makes statements to me like "take me to indiana with you..." cause i told him i am moving home sooner or later.

just dont know what to make of this guy, but he sure is a sweetie!

thanks gypsee!

thanks all!

posted December 16, 2010 10:00 AM            

and i am far from overt with him. i back way off, waiting for him to take the lead...

posted December 16, 2010 03:01 PM            

(btw chi was lovely last week, we made it out with the tail wind of the front to blow us back to sa rather quickly!!)

ok, so what do you all think of this?

he has no family here, transplanted from ohio not too long ago and like i said, he does not go anywhere.

i thought about inviting him over for christmas, not the whole family thing, but maybe a cookie and hot coco on christmas eve or whenever he is off. my house is all decked out and really, rather than hitting on the guy, i would love to extend a warm holiday offering to him.

but like i said, can't read this guy..he is tough...(funny i just mis-typed "touch") maybe i should investigate my own typeos!

posted December 17, 2010 01:51 AM            

Keep trying with subtlety.

Slow and steady wins the race.

posted December 18, 2010 09:13 AM            

dont know about this one, tho. i would like to say throw me a bone once in a while or why have bothered leading me on those times.

crap or get off the pot, or maybe that is just my venus aries speaking

i remember once on oprah a guest said "women like to be desired..." true, true!!

posted December 20, 2010 09:40 PM            

he is just too sweet to walk away from that easy.

he has told me twice he is shy, he is working all week cause he does not want to sit home alone, told him i had intended to invite him over...again, told me he is shy and would have refused.

however, i did ask him to help me with my truck sometime as it is 4wd and i got it stuck in 4wd once..he gladly accepted.

he had a hard time with the death of a patient this morning, then a horrible morning afterward, so i (as charge) worked it so he could be on call and catch up on some sleep.

thanks again.

posted December 21, 2010 03:20 AM            

Gosh, i feel your pain. I had an experience with a virgo that was not very pleasent. Push/pull push/pull etc... it was painful to go through but through my understanding, it was something he needed to do every now and then. Pull away to analyize. Virgo's are such mental creatures! They are so practical (e=being an earth sgin) and they way they communicate (well my virgo anyway) was, at times, impossibale to decifer.

posted December 22, 2010 12:18 PM            

This is one of the most intensly "energetic" encounters with a man, ever.

Isolaede, I have decided to just ask him out, probably if/when we "hook up" for him to help me with my truck. Set the pace maybe just what I have to do, and really what I have been doing, but slowly and sweetly..with a few subtle sexy flirtations thrown in. I like what you have to say about imaginations..I WILL explore his cause I have one hell of one!

posted December 31, 2010 04:22 PM            

seems the "virgin" of the zodiac is the master of seduction of this pisces lady...

posted December 31, 2010 09:26 PM            

I noticed you said:

"he makes statements to me like "take me to indiana with you..." cause i told him i am moving home sooner or later."

I supoose he says take me to indiana because he's attached to the place BUT if you mentioned you'd go away, and especially if you didn't give a date, there is a possibility that he wonders if it is worth engaging in something. I mean that could be a possibility, regardless of the sun sign.

I think you decision you describe above to isolaede is a good idea.

posted January 01, 2011 12:18 PM            

and the best to you as well in this new year!!!

you appeal so wholly to my aqua side...sigh...

i just dont know what to do about this man!

we flirted, well it went beyond flirting for nearly 24 hrs yesterday, via text and a few phone calls... he went to work, we continued way past midnight, he asked me via txt "do you want to come over and sleep the day away with me?" i replied my god, i could not say no to that.

then this morning...nothing.....

texted him a couple of times, called once, left a happy little message, "well,....3rd time is the charm..cept for me (lol)" then sweetly wished him a good day.

i am going to give him the benefit of the doubt this time, he was tired yesterday, did not sleep much before he went to work...

he makes it appear that he wants me, with his words, actions, etc. then....nothing...

we even discussed how we are both flirty and friendly at work, but neither of us are overtly hitting, nor interested in anybody else than eachother. ???

wtf?

sigh...

well, my lessons in the realm of aqua taught me to let go (let god,,,,)

blessings all!!!!

posted January 01, 2011 10:59 PM            

LOL, yes they surely can be slow and analyze things to death.
One of my ex's is a Virgo and we talk almost daily on FB.
He makes a much better friend than he did a bf, unfortunately, or fortunately, however one wishes to look at that!

I admit to pursuing him shamelessly, although I do believe his leo moon adored it.
But, he just moved so SLOW about the whole thing that by the time he decided that we could pursue a relationship (or RE-pursue one, cause we had one in the late 80's) it was a whole YEAR later and I already moved on.

But, there were no hard feelings involved and we enjoy our friendship.

I agree with the poster who suggested to engage his imagination.
Mine enjoyed playing word games, as in actual video games like word dojo and scrabble.
He always had to be stimulated in conversation or he would get bored and leave wherever we were at the time.

I was pretty prepared because my mom and two brothers are virgos, so I knew what I was getting into.

posted January 02, 2011 08:52 AM            

Thanks for the input!

Balls in his court, I have problems with getting very, and I do mean, very sexual via text, inviting me over then chickening out, running. And not even answering my inquiries to his well being, I was genuinely concerned when he would not respond as I thought we had made plans to get together.

I dont have a problem with the slow thing, but the dishonesty (with himself) I do.

We shall see, since I have to see him at work from time to time, I need a plan, but probably will wing it, since it's on him for acting so stupid.

But I am messing with his head on FB, for the time being.

blessings

posted January 05, 2011 12:58 AM            

deep breath...

posted January 15, 2011 05:56 PM            

So from your experience do you think there is any one way to hook a Virgo guy?