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Topic: Me Venus in Scorpio,Him Venus in Aquarius,Doomed?
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starzy54
Knowflake Posts: 44
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Registered: Feb 2010
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posted December 26, 2010 12:54 AM
  
Ok I have a Venus in Scorpio,and I am kinda possessive in my intimate affairs,I also tend to get jealous and dominating.My Fiance on the other hand has a Venus in Aquarius and has strange influxes of attachment and than detachment.I know he needs his space,but i do get very fed up when he doesn't pay attention to me.So i create drama where there should be none,to feel some vitality again in the relationship.I also want to separate from him at the drop of a hat for silly reasons.I see a problem here,and worry he can't keep up the stamina i need.Can two Venus's like this survive?
My Mars is in Pisces and His Mars is in Scorpio.Anybody have experiences in this department?IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 4971
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 26, 2010 03:30 PM
Well, I wouldn't discount the whole relationship because your venus' don't 'match up', and the fact that your mars are both in water is good. Although your actions may be confusing to him...However since you realize what you are doing (regarding the venus issue) that is half the battle. Maybe you could try a little harder to see things from his point of view, for the sake of harmony.  IP: Logged |
starzy54
Knowflake Posts: 44
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Registered: Feb 2010
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posted December 26, 2010 04:50 PM
Very Good point,I am trying to be more detached but in a loving way.still paying attention to him but not gushing over his every word.I started on this new path when he called me out for not being myself anymore,sweet and pleasant as he said.Made me think I need to be more trusting and not so quick to pour my heart out and complain as soon as he drifts a bit.thank you! IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 22, 2011 11:46 AM
I wouldn't necessarily look to his venus sign as being the "detached" position.You say that you have Mars in Pisces whilst his is in Scorpio.I think the "hot" /"cold" dynamics of his projected personality could come from this.(pity you didn't mention your sun signs but anyways). Scorpio has a tendency of being extremely willfull and passionate towards something that affects them and indifferent and almost disinterested in things that don't. Your "wanting to know where you stand" is not, in my opinion, the nature of your venus placement, but it could either be your sun and/or moon position. Is it in a water sign or atleast in a mutable modality? I could be way wrong but I think that it is the Sun and Moon that are interchangeably interacting with each other in a relationship. IP: Logged |
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