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Topic: Widowed Libra/ Married Aquarius
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LibraDiva
Newflake Posts: 17
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posted January 03, 2011 06:44 PM
  
Any thoughts/advice?Me:
Sun Libra
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Libra
Venus Virgo
Mars Cancer
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra Him:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Pisces
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Pisces
Mars Capricorn
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 5142
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 08:19 PM
Welcome!  IP: Logged |
LibraDiva
Newflake Posts: 17
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posted January 03, 2011 10:25 PM
Thanks Randall!IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 200
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted January 04, 2011 10:53 PM
You guys have moon square moon (by sign since I don't know your degrees)
and merc square merc (=/)both are really bad aspects. So the way think and the way you show emotions will clash like mad =/
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LibraDiva
Newflake Posts: 17
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posted January 19, 2011 06:44 PM
Yes I have learned he doesnt respond well to my somewhat clingy "I need you" attitude...He is so durn nonchalant- I cant take the pressure! lol IP: Logged |
LetsDance
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posted January 20, 2011 02:32 AM
a sag moon has a clingy "I need you" attitude?IP: Logged |
LibraDiva
Newflake Posts: 17
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posted January 20, 2011 09:48 AM
I do... especially when I want "attention" and dont feel like I am getting it... then I get frustrated and simply walk away.Maybe its the Asc Cancer I am tired of trying to deal with Mr. Aqua- so I am almost at that point now. IP: Logged |
LibraDiva
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posted January 20, 2011 09:49 AM
My placements have me all over the place sometimes- lol. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 22, 2011 12:02 PM
Hmmm, you say that you have a needy "clingy" attitude. I would look to your Mars position in Cancer as definitive of that.The interesting thing I see is the Mars-Mars opposition between you and him. He has his in aloof, non chalant Capricorn whilst yours is in Caring, sensitive Cancer. The opposition here can create an intense attraction but also unfulfilled needs. You project a caring,gentle persona whilst his is more business-like and conventional. The more "clingy" you project , the more aloof he responds. This "on"/"off" connection is further complicated by his sensitive Pisces moon being disguized by its opposition, venus in Virgo, in his chart: He may have real issues giving into his more feeling nature, so unless you are really patient, don't hold your breath. Interestingly, you have very similar placements to my chart: Moon in Cancer, Sun in Sagittarius and Mars in Libra. And if you are like me, you probably have an idealistic, romantic streak that rarely looks at things as how they are , but rather how they can be. IP: Logged |
coconutcancermoon
Moderator Posts: 390
From: A Place of Pure Love
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 22, 2011 12:06 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by LibraDiva:
Any thoughts/advice?Yes, leave married men alone  IP: Logged |
LibraDiva
Newflake Posts: 17
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posted January 25, 2011 01:30 AM
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Originally posted by coconutcancermoon:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by LibraDiva:
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Any thoughts/advice?Yes, leave married men alone [/B]
LOL My marriage was an open one... I dont share the same ideals as most. Sorry IP: Logged |
LibraDiva
Newflake Posts: 17
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posted January 25, 2011 01:35 AM
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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
...Interestingly, you have very similar placements to my chart: Moon in Cancer, Sun in Sagittarius and Mars in Libra. And if you are like me, you probably have an idealistic, romantic streak that rarely looks at things as how they are , but rather how they can be.
WOW! So you are crazy too?! (Just Kidding)Lol Most people have a really hard time understanding me- which leads me to be more of a solo roller. IP: Logged |
LibraDiva
Newflake Posts: 17
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posted January 25, 2011 01:40 AM
As for Mr. Aqua and I... we are taking things slower now (at my request). The whole "nonchalantness" drives me insane. The more I pull away, the more available he is... then the more I want him the less available. Gimmie a break. I do love our friendship, though. There is a really sweet Virgo that has caught my attention right now. Maybe I will step outside of my box and see whats out there.IP: Logged |
Steam
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: US
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 27, 2011 01:00 AM
Is his marriage open too? From what I know of open marriages, it usually is just about sex, not getting too emotionally involved. As an Aqua, he's good at keeping you at arm's length if he wants nothing more. The games begin when you pull back his ego takes charge. IP: Logged |
LibraDiva
Newflake Posts: 17
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posted January 30, 2011 05:05 PM
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Originally posted by Steam:
Is his marriage open too? From what I know of open marriages, it usually is just about sex, not getting too emotionally involved. As an Aqua, he's good at keeping you at arm's length if he wants nothing more. The games begin when you pull back his ego takes charge.
Oh definitely not. She's the breadwinner- and probably think she has bought his loyalty. Little does she know... I have alot of "fun" with him, but I pulled back and now I am handling it just as nonchalant as he is. He keeps sending out mixed signals, and I really dont want to destroy the great friendship we have. He is unhappy in his marriage (she is "boring" and not exciting in the sheets), but she takes care of ALL of the bills, etc. So... I am definitely not trying to fill her shoes at all- lol. But I will definitely handle all that she is neglecting. I think by having an open marriage, it seemed less pressured. Before the marriage I had no problems with his extracurricular activities, but when we became husband and wife- he really stuck to that and honored it. There were no more late nights with the fellas for him. He really changed and became settled. As a married man he was home everynight, cuddled up and visibly "So In Love". I think for my husband it was more of being able to have the option without consequences than it was to actually do it. IP: Logged |
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