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rajji
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posted January 15, 2011 02:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This concept of soul mates, twin flames and life after death has always intrigued me....
Well i came across a few things which linda had penned in her journals about twin souls and twin flames....it goes like this...
In Relationship Signs, Linda says that if one person´s venus is conjunct with another´s pluto, that indicates Twin Souls or Soul Mates, people who were once the same individual, one half being the male half and the other the female. They have an innate longing for the other and, from lifetime to lifetime, the unite to feel the joy of completion...
Linda also talks about the trine as a sign for Twin Souls... She only says that the conjunction is much more powerful... With the trine (or sextile), the pair of you may choose to wait until another incarnation to reunite even when mutual feelings will be very intense... With the conjunction, postponement is very unlikely. the only specific aspect discussion I've seen is Linda's brief mention of the difference with respect to Venus-Pluto ... where she says that the conjuction is more likely to indicate a Twin S-elf connection while the trine or sextile is likelier to indicate Soul Mates.
Relationship Signs -- perhaps the clearest statement comes from her original Love Signs Profile manuscript (which became the basis for Relationship Signs), where she writes: quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- First and foremost you must share at least one .. or more .. Saturn aspects, whether positive or so called negative. The nature of the aspects don't matter, except that they indicate how far along you both are in enlightenment about your relationship and its karmic foundation. The bond between you is deepened when you also share one or more Neptune aspects ... and even stronger when you share the aspect of Venus sextile or trine Pluto.
Like all Earthlings, you have many Twin Souls from relationships formed throughout time eternal, some of whom will be met in the present life, either unsuspectingly ... or knowingly (the eyes remember) ... and as many as thousands of others you'll encounter in the future, for the purpose of balancing your mutual Karma.
But you have only one Twin Self, who is the exact other half of the You-of-You, from whom you've been separated for lonely, forgotten eons, without whom you feel incomplete. Each man and woman yearn and search for this other half, either consciously or unconsciously. You'll feel very close to a Twin Soul ... but you'll feel part of your own Twin Self. It's a vital difference. Twin Souls may or may not be lovers, but Twin Selves must be.
After going through all this...
i found sum interesting aspects in our synastry chart!

Sun conjunct Mercury orb 0° 4'
Saturn conjunct Venus orb 1° 53 Sun square Uranus orb 0° 32'
Moon trine Venus orb 2° 45'
Mercury square Jupiter orb 2° 2
Saturn sextile Mars orb 0° 45
Venus sextile Venus orb 1° 18'
Neptune square Sun orb 1° 50'
Mercury square Moon orb 4° 7'
Venus trine Mars orb 3° 57'
Jupiter trine Moon orb 4° 20'
Jupiter sextile Mercury orb 3° 10'
Jupiter sextile Jupiter orb 2° 35'
Neptune sextile Venus orb 2° 35'
Pluto conjunct Venus orb 3° 23' Mercury sextile Ascendant orb 2° 32'
Can anybody elucidate this for me??????? I sumhow feel that we are destined to come together eternally.....


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posted January 15, 2011 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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posted January 15, 2011 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your orbs are quite wide =/ trines should be within 2 degrees imo.

Oh and pluto moves VERY slow as it's a generational aspect, so pluto conjunct venus means hardly anything unless it's tight (within 1.5 degrees imo)

cos essentially anyone with a scorp venus will conjunct their peers pluto =/

Oh and twin souls are EXTREMELY EXTREMELY rare. Most ppl meet soulmates, not their actual twin soul.

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posted January 15, 2011 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ariefairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

so there's twin souls and twin selves. that's very interesting .

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posted January 15, 2011 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thankyou Mintgirl123 for your research....well i dont mind meeting one or not...i understand there is a lot of selfless sacrifices to be done for that...u know what...i truely believe in it..and thats what keeps all of us going i guess..seeing is not believing...it has to be felt deep inside..
i consider it probably as my soul mate...not my twin soul though...

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posted January 15, 2011 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Ariefairy!
yes..there are twin flames and soulmates..i
myself chanced upon it just a few days ago.
After studying a few theories on it...i breathless..it was Magical and Heart Wrenching at the same time.
Many of us meet our soul mates..for those of you who wants to meet their ULTIMATE UNION aka TWIN FLAME...here is a small prayer i came across, hope it works out to few of us...

A Prayer for Twin Flames

We can accelerate our progress on the spiritual path if we daily ask our Higher Self, or God Self (the I AM Presence) to establish a spiritual contact at inner levels with our own twin flame:

"In the name of the Christ, I call to the blessed God Presence of each of our twin flames for the sealing of our hearts as one for the victory of our mission to humanity. I invoke the light of the Holy Spirit for the consuming of all negative karma limiting the full expression of our divine identity and the fulfilment of our divine plan."

In this way, even if you live worlds apart, you can unite spiritually on higher planes and help balance your mutual karma. This inner contact intensifies the light we each have and releases the power of our love, enabling us to stand strong in the face of the tests of life, balance our mutual karma and fulfil our divine plan.

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posted January 16, 2011 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ariefairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
nice prayer rajji


what would you say the main differences/ things to take into account in respects to twin souls/twin flames that you found within your research and your feelings on this?

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posted January 18, 2011 01:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rajii, imho, and no disrespect to mintgirl, but this business of only super tight orbs counting is really just a matter of opinion IMHO (no pun intended). There really is no logical reason to make the orbs tight like that other than them being so wide they go into another harmonic. Rajii has a connection with, and is attracted to THIS person, not all the other people in his generation whom he may share this aspect with.

Its been a trend here at LL that over the years that using tighter and tighter orbs is the "in" thing to do. I personally do not agree with this practice.

They say the reasoning behind this practice is that you may share a certain aspect with hundreds of thousands of people and the only way to filter them out is to use tighter orbs. Well, I say to that, one person is only going to meet but so many people in their life. And in that group of people you do meet, you won't have a romantic connection with them all, not all of them will be your type and vice versa. Then of the ones that are your type, how many are going to be mutually attracted to you? And of that group, how many of them will you actually have a mutual connection with?

We are human, not numbers.

Rajii, my advice to you is just forget about the astrology between you and your person. Just be with them and enjoy what you have together. No one here can neither validate nor invalidate what you have with your person for sure.

Again, to mintgirl, my reply is NOT a shot at you nor an attempt to argue with you, or discount anything you said. This is just my two cents.

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posted January 18, 2011 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes i totally agree with u got gemini??? As far as the orbs are concerned....its only a matter of difference of opinion.
where as, when it comes to the point of enjoying the togetherness between two twin flames...thats highly doubtful! ...i hope u understand what i mean...im talking in terms of emotions...physical mental spirutual and all.

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posted January 19, 2011 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blonderiverkat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is not as rare as some people think it is...maybe 50 or 100 years ago, yes...but not in the times we are in. There are many powerful souls who have been coming to earth over the past few decades, to reunite with their 'twins'....they are on a mission, and that is part of the mission...to meet up and form a very powerful team...it will only happen if the two of you are spiritually ready though...it's a very intense relationship, and not just fun and games...it's research and study, meditate and teach, pray and heal...there is always time for some fun and games though...

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posted January 19, 2011 12:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Airyfairy dear... well i dint do any research sort of a thing neither can i tell u anything concerned with Astrology coz im not one..But generally speaking i can tell u quite a few things of interest.Atleast the ones that relate to me...

Signs of a soul mate.

you share some past experience (same home town, childhood school, beliefs)

Sometimes having a perception of the "ideal person" then meeting them years later.(sometimes 20-30 years later)

its certainly NOT when you are looking that you may encounter one...the opposite as a matter of fact.

it tends to happen when (usually) both have just been through a "crises" or something drastic,etc.

Twin flames come together when they have service work to do on the planet.

you know that you've felt like you've been in a certain place, knew someone or had a conversation before that very moment.'Ive known you since ages' kind of a thing.

there is an instant attraction of energies, the energy of the two souls connecting over time, over miles, and sometimes over years.

Heres how sumbody has painstakingly explained indepth about this twin flame connection...hope u understand what it feels like to be in a twin flame connection.

Here there is an instant attraction of energies, the energy of the two souls connecting over time, over miles, and sometimes over years. Very often there is an initial meeting of the twin souls and often one half of the duo is more spiritually awakened and “gets it”. The other may not be quite there, but nevertheless they are deeply touched by the experience.Sometimes they remain in contact like this, and sometimes the two are “deliberately” torn apart and separated over years to go and work on their own lives and commitments and deal with karma in other relationships before finally reuniting decades down the line. But are the twin souls destined to be together?
Synchronicity is at work here to bring the two back together again. How entrancing to find the same magical alchemy still at work, just as it was at the first meeting – a recognition of a deep rooted love so entrenched and so accepted, it could only have been forged in other lifetimes together. And probably that is what love at first sight is, recognition of an ancient love.
Inevitably in twin soul connections we come up against the “dance” the connection and the disconnection between the two that is incredibly frustrating, and cannot be rushed. We are dealing with a process here. Within the connection you often find that one party is very keen to move the relationship on to higher levels, whilst the other doesn’t know what the hell is going on and doesn't want to deal with the relationship, as it touches deep and painful emotions that may have been suppressed. So they try and escape the relationship. The latter of the pairing is often referred to as a “runner”. The intensity of the connection means that each one feels the other's pain and confusion and there is much telepathic interchange. Both are pulled around by the compulsion of the energy,connected by what seems like an electrical cord.Often one of the pair can’t take the heat in the kitchen and runs away and when this happens, the other twin experiences a bereavement, which never heals, until the next reconnection. The "runner" has perhaps experienced a lifetime of destructive love affairs. Unable to accept love when it is proffered (even though they may crave it). They may have trashed it, kicked it around like a football and found subtle ways to push it away because they have somehow felt unworthy, unloveable, claustrophobic or simply have never found the right person. In these circumstances and when used against the other twin, the experience is like a searing pain through the heart. In conventional relationships eventually the wound is healed, but in a twin soul connection, the situation just feels worse and worse
rajji (17-Jan-2011 10:26:29 PM): Gripped in mutual "obsessive" behaviour the energy can be confusing especially when the "dance" is in full swing. It is quite common for the “runner” to profess language bordering on “I love you,” but maybe it comes out as something else, quite veiled, and then for that “runner” to retract and contradict what they have said. They feel foolish and vulnerable. When a “runner” runs, they run. But in time the “runner” finds themselves in a no-brain situation. They are faced with the choice of living in pain from the separation from the twin soul, or returning and facing that deep love, working through their fears (often unfounded) of possible rejection and reaching their own personal Eden.For the other party who has been willing all along to go that extra mile, the spectrum of emotions experienced till then is infinite. Sometimes they just believe that the connection is entirely one-sided, or that they’ve imagined it all along and feel foolish and vulnerable. During the whole process the parties have to remain strong. Twin soul connections never happen at convenient times. There is often the matter of existing and committed relationships, money issues, and a whole million other practical and logical reasons why these two, on the surface shouldn’t get together. There can be great differences in age, or religion or they may live continents apart. Quite often one may be in an emotionally unfeeling, yet long term relationship, whilst the other is in a controlling and abusive one. Both can feel trapped.
if you look back on this process you will inevitably come across situations where the two "nearly" met up again, or they were in the same place at the same time, and didn't meet, or they were working close to each other and didn't meet, nearly buying a house in the same town, and didn't meet, until Destiny has chosen the exact timing for that meeting and bingo, it is done. There can be little doubt that meeting up with the twin soul pulls one or both onto a more spiritual path as they look back and marvel at how they were brought together.

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posted January 19, 2011 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heres more on it....

To change one’s life like this takes enormous courage, but it also takes infinite patience. And if you are in such a pairing, you can experience a twin soul connection both as a gift and a curse!
The lessons of why we unite with our twin soul can be varied, but one reason is to teach each other about accepting love without fear, about healing the pain of love and loss and bringing the two halves of the soul back together again. If you are able to look at the birth charts of both, you will often see synastry involving Pluto, the planet of deep transformation, Saturn the planet of rigidity and control at work. Both are very karmic. In deep love affairs, also look to Chiron in the synastry to see how she is touching Venus in the other chart.
Learning to have patience and not forcing the relationship is part of the twin soul process. If you are trying to force your will onto the other person, chances are you’re not ready to really connect yourself. There should be no blame here - only deep and unconditional love.

PHEW!!that was a clear explanation wasnt it??

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posted January 19, 2011 01:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Steam     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, I'm the wet blanket here. So sorry! The talk is of aspects, twin souls, soul mates but I know nothing of the actual connection you are experiencing or are you experiencing it in reality? Are you with this person and shouldn't being with this person tell you all you need to know? Because aspects cannot affect whether this person finds you attractive or is willing to be in a relationship or has issues blocking them from being open to love etc...

So, what is the reality of your connection and is it corresponding with the twin/soul mate aspects?

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posted January 19, 2011 01:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey..Blonderivercat i wish that was true...im not sure though if it happens rarely or otherwise.
But all i know is that...its a union of extremes that is to say..
it involves both the sides of a coin.
Pain and Pleasure
Attraction and Repulsion
Control and Freedom
pull and push
Boon and Bane
Thats y they say twin flames kill each other!...no wonder!its contrasting which adds beauty to it...and it only gets all the more interesting in the end.

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posted January 19, 2011 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes steam...the description does relate to me in many ways...well as a matter of fact anybody who can correspond their relation to such kind of feelings...i do think there is a twin flame connection to that duo.

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posted January 19, 2011 01:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blonderiverkat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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rajji
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posted January 19, 2011 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Blonderivercat I appreciate your confidence!
Am glad to hear that you are living and loving it.
I was wondering if u do u have the so called pluto,venus, saturn and neptune aspects in your synastry?

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posted January 19, 2011 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blonderiverkat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We have aspects all over the place...but our Plutos cojunct each other in Virgo, as does our Venus, and Neptunes in Scorp...our Suns conjunct within 2 degrees...His Saturn squares my Sun...people say it's a harsh aspect, but it is needed in our synastry i guess because of all of the trines...We went thru IQ's Soulmate filter, and have the needed asteroid aspects, as well as our name asteroids...we have alot of synchronicities throughout our lives as well...btw...do you know what a Yod can mean in synastry? It is not in ours, but somebody else close to us...

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posted January 19, 2011 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With my Scorpio,
Her NN & Jupiter conjunct my Asc exact.

Her Sun squares my Saturn and Mercury exact.
My Sun squares her Saturn exact.
My Sun trines her Pluto.
Her Sun quincunx my Sun and Mercury exact.

Her Moon/Pluto conjunction in Libra conjuncts my Moon/Pluto conjunction in Libra.

My Venus conjuncts her Venus/Neptune conjunction in Sagittarius.
Both of our Moon/Pluto conjunctions sextile our Neptunes and her Venus.

Her Sun trines my Venus.

Her Mercury conjuncts my IC exact.

We have interesting asteroid aspects too.
Her Juno conjuncts my Venus exact.
Her Psyche conjuncts my karma or Valentine exact (I forget which one).

I believe without a doubt this woman is my soulmate, twinflame, twinself, or whatever you wanna label it. And I've felt this way about her decades before I knew anything about astrology.

I love her all my life since the moment I met her when I was 9. I believe we will finally be together when were much older though, like our late 40's or early 50's. Right now, there is this energy between us that wants to get out and intertwine but is boiling under the surface and is not ripe yet. Though we want to be together now, I have this feeling that she and I aren't mature enough to yet handle a bond and connection as powerful as ours. I love her unconditionally too. She has done some detestable things in the past few years but I feel I understand why she did them.

I attribute that to our exact two way double whammy Sun square Saturn.

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posted January 19, 2011 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquacap     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rajji:
Airyfairy dear... well i dint do any research sort of a thing neither can i tell u anything concerned with Astrology coz im not one..But generally speaking i can tell u quite a few things of interest.Atleast the ones that relate to me...

Signs of a soul mate.

you share some past experience (same home town, childhood school, beliefs)

Sometimes having a perception of the "ideal person" then meeting them years later.(sometimes 20-30 years later)

its certainly NOT when you are looking that you may encounter one...the opposite as a matter of fact.

it tends to happen when (usually) both have just been through a "crises" or something drastic,etc.

Twin flames come together when they have service work to do on the planet.

you know that you've felt like you've been in a certain place, knew someone or had a conversation before that very moment.'Ive known you since ages' kind of a thing.

there is an instant attraction of energies, the energy of the two souls connecting over time, over miles, and sometimes over years.

Heres how sumbody has painstakingly explained indepth about this twin flame connection...hope u understand what it feels like to be in a twin flame connection.

Here there is an instant attraction of energies, the energy of the two souls connecting over time, over miles, and sometimes over years. Very often there is an initial meeting of the twin souls and often one half of the duo is more spiritually awakened and “gets it”. The other may not be quite there, but nevertheless they are deeply touched by the experience.Sometimes they remain in contact like this, and sometimes the two are “deliberately” torn apart and separated over years to go and work on their own lives and commitments and deal with karma in other relationships before finally reuniting decades down the line. But are the twin souls destined to be together?
Synchronicity is at work here to bring the two back together again. How entrancing to find the same magical alchemy still at work, just as it was at the first meeting – a recognition of a deep rooted love so entrenched and so accepted, it could only have been forged in other lifetimes together. And probably that is what love at first sight is, recognition of an ancient love.
Inevitably in twin soul connections we come up against the “dance” the connection and the disconnection between the two that is incredibly frustrating, and cannot be rushed. We are dealing with a process here. Within the connection you often find that one party is very keen to move the relationship on to higher levels, whilst the other doesn’t know what the hell is going on and doesn't want to deal with the relationship, as it touches deep and painful emotions that may have been suppressed. So they try and escape the relationship. The latter of the pairing is often referred to as a “runner”. The intensity of the connection means that each one feels the other's pain and confusion and there is much telepathic interchange. Both are pulled around by the compulsion of the energy,connected by what seems like an electrical cord.Often one of the pair can’t take the heat in the kitchen and runs away and when this happens, the other twin experiences a bereavement, which never heals, until the next reconnection. The "runner" has perhaps experienced a lifetime of destructive love affairs. Unable to accept love when it is proffered (even though they may crave it). They may have trashed it, kicked it around like a football and found subtle ways to push it away because they have somehow felt unworthy, unloveable, claustrophobic or simply have never found the right person. In these circumstances and when used against the other twin, the experience is like a searing pain through the heart. In conventional relationships eventually the wound is healed, but in a twin soul connection, the situation just feels worse and worse
rajji (17-Jan-2011 10:26:29 PM): Gripped in mutual "obsessive" behaviour the energy can be confusing especially when the "dance" is in full swing. It is quite common for the “runner” to profess language bordering on “I love you,” but maybe it comes out as something else, quite veiled, and then for that “runner” to retract and contradict what they have said. They feel foolish and vulnerable. When a “runner” runs, they run. But in time the “runner” finds themselves in a no-brain situation. They are faced with the choice of living in pain from the separation from the twin soul, or returning and facing that deep love, working through their fears (often unfounded) of possible rejection and reaching their own personal Eden.For the other party who has been willing all along to go that extra mile, the spectrum of emotions experienced till then is infinite. Sometimes they just believe that the connection is entirely one-sided, or that they’ve imagined it all along and feel foolish and vulnerable. During the whole process the parties have to remain strong. Twin soul connections never happen at convenient times. There is often the matter of existing and committed relationships, money issues, and a whole million other practical and logical reasons why these two, on the surface shouldn’t get together. There can be great differences in age, or religion or they may live continents apart. Quite often one may be in an emotionally unfeeling, yet long term relationship, whilst the other is in a controlling and abusive one. Both can feel trapped.
if you look back on this process you will inevitably come across situations where the two "nearly" met up again, or they were in the same place at the same time, and didn't meet, or they were working close to each other and didn't meet, nearly buying a house in the same town, and didn't meet, until Destiny has chosen the exact timing for that meeting and bingo, it is done. There can be little doubt that meeting up with the twin soul pulls one or both onto a more spiritual path as they look back and marvel at how they were brought together.



now i know what the hell im going through. thanks.

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posted January 19, 2011 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rajji:
Airyfairy dear... well i dint do any research sort of a thing neither can i tell u anything concerned with Astrology coz im not one. But generally speaking i can tell u quite a few things of interest. Atleast the ones that relate to me...
Signs of a soul mate.
you share some past experience (same home town, childhood school, beliefs)

She practically lived with my family for almost 5 years when we were young (1988-1992)

Sometimes having a perception of the "ideal person" then meeting them years later.(sometimes 20-30 years later)
its certainly NOT when you are looking that you may encounter one...the opposite as a matter of fact.

I was 9 years old and girls were the last thing on my mind. I was more interested in when I was getting that new transformer toy lol!

it tends to happen when (usually) both have just been through a "crises" or something drastic, etc.

We just moved to that new house (new to us) after moving from another town where our house was infested by waterbugs and the house next door to us burned down leaving all of our things smelling like smoke and fire.

Twin flames come together when they have service work to do on the planet.
you know that you've felt like you've been in a certain place, knew someone or had a conversation before that very moment. I’ve known you since ages' kind of a thing.
there is an instant attraction of energies, the energy of the two souls connecting over time, over miles, and sometimes over years.

The moment we locked eyes is a moment I’ll never forget and that I still remember to this day like it happened yesterday. My heart skipped a beat and it was like everything else just was put on mute. I just met her but felt a feeling of familiarity at the same time, but I didn’t understand that feeling at that time and young age. I met her when I was 9 going on 10 and she was 8 going on 9.

Heres how sumbody has painstakingly explained in depth about this twin flame connection...hope u understand what it feels like to be in a twin flame connection.

Here there is an instant attraction of energies, the energy of the two souls connecting over time, over miles, and sometimes over years. Very often there is an initial meeting of the twin souls and often one half of the duo is more spiritually awakened and “gets it”.

I “got” the feeling but I was only 9 so I didn’t really know what was going on. All I know is I never felt anything like it before or since.

The other may not be quite there, but nevertheless they are deeply touched by the experience. Sometimes they remain in contact like this, and sometimes the two are “deliberately” torn apart and separated over years to go and work on their own lives and commitments and deal with karma in other relationships before finally reuniting decades down the line. But are the twin souls destined to be together?

Had our feelings been verbalized, I think she may have not been quite there but I do believe that she did have the same feelings. I dunno how to explain it. I just knew it. We never talked about it but we were ALWAYS with each other as kids when we didn’t have to be. We were split apart when her family had to move back to Detroit. That was a really difficult time for me.

Synchronicity is at work here to bring the two back together again.

Her family moved back to our area within months and she was back with our family.

How entrancing to find the same magical alchemy still at work, just as it was at the first meeting – a recognition of a deep rooted love so entrenched and so accepted, it could only have been forged in other lifetimes together. And probably that is what love at first sight is, recognition of an ancient love.

That’s the way it felt for me!

Inevitably in twin soul connections we come up against the “dance” the connection and the disconnection between the two that is incredibly frustrating, and cannot be rushed. We are dealing with a process here.

Eventually, right before high school, she didn’t have to stay with us anymore. For all intents and purposes, she moved on with her life and eventually had a child when she was 19 and I moved on and got with other women. To deal with the pain of her not being around and to justify having feelings for other women (that weren’t even close to being the same as what I felt for Scorpio), I had to convince myself that it was just a boyhood crush and an infatuation. That all worked well, that is until I finally saw her again when I was 20 or so. I saw her in passing on the beach and just said hi. Of course all those feelings came back but I never acknowledged them at that time because I was with my girlfriend at the time and she was with her friends. After that, I hadn’t seen her again for another 3 or 4 years. During that time I got married and was getting ready to have my first kid.

Within the connection you often find that one party is very keen to move the relationship on to higher levels, whilst the other doesn’t know what the hell is going on and doesn't want to deal with the relationship, as it touches deep and painful emotions that may have been suppressed.

I think think I was keen on it and maybe she didn’t know what was going on yet was still deeply touched.

So they try and escape the relationship. The latter of the pairing is often referred to as a “runner”. The intensity of the connection means that each one feels the other's pain and confusion and there is much telepathic interchange. Both are pulled around by the compulsion of the energy,connected by what seems like an electrical cord.Often one of the pair can’t take the heat in the kitchen and runs away and when this happens, the other twin experiences a bereavement, which never heals, until the next reconnection. The "runner" has perhaps experienced a lifetime of destructive love affairs.

Yes, she has had some really bad relationships.

Unable to accept love when it is proffered (even though they may crave it). They may have trashed it, kicked it around like a football and found subtle ways to push it away because they have somehow felt unworthy, unloveable, claustrophobic or simply have never found the right person. In these circumstances and when used against the other twin, the experience is like a searing pain through the heart. In conventional relationships eventually the wound is healed, but in a twin soul connection, the situation just feels worse and worse

That’s how I feel. My situation just feels worse and worse. I want to be with her but cannot at this time.

rajji (17-Jan-2011 10:26:29 PM): Gripped in mutual "obsessive" behaviour the energy can be confusing especially when the "dance" is in full swing. It is quite common for the “runner” to profess language bordering on “I love you,” but maybe it comes out as something else, quite veiled, and then for that “runner” to retract and contradict what they have said. They feel foolish and vulnerable. When a “runner” runs, they run. But in time the “runner” finds themselves in a no-brain situation. They are faced with the choice of living in pain from the separation from the twin soul, or returning and facing that deep love, working through their fears (often unfounded) of possible rejection and reaching their own personal Eden.For the other party who has been willing all along to go that extra mile, the spectrum of emotions experienced till then is infinite. Sometimes they just believe that the connection is entirely one-sided, or that they’ve imagined it all along and feel foolish and vulnerable.

Honestly, I think we have BOTH felt this way. I told her that we should just stop talking to each other because the timing was off and she wanted to stay in touch.

During the whole process the parties have to remain strong. Twin soul connections never happen at convenient times. There is often the matter of existing and committed relationships, money issues, and a whole million other practical and logical reasons why these two, on the surface shouldn’t get together. There can be great differences in age, or religion or they may live continents apart. Quite often one may be in an emotionally unfeeling, yet long term relationship, whilst the other is in a controlling and abusive one. Both can feel trapped.

This is funny because I am in an emotionally unfulfilling relationship and she is in a controlling and physically abusive one. Plus, we are both married to and have kids with these people. And yes, we both feel trapped!

If you look back on this process you will inevitably come across situations where the two "nearly" met up again, or they were in the same place at the same time, and didn't meet, or they were working close to each other and didn't meet, nearly buying a house in the same town, and didn't meet, until Destiny has chosen the exact timing for that meeting and bingo, it is done. There can be little doubt that meeting up with the twin soul pulls one or both onto a more spiritual path as they look back and marvel at how they were brought together.

We talk every now and then. I have this feeling that she wants me to come see her because of our most recent conversation a few weeks ago. I also have this feeling that if we see each other, one thing will lead to the next and we won’t be ready to handle what we’ve started. But at the same time, there is this subconscious pull towards each other that is hard to describe. Its like two magnets on opposite sides of a mountain that are being pulled together through the mountain.


You know, I didn't bother to read this until after I saw it quoted in aquacap's post.
I swear this has described Scorpio and I to the FULLEST!!! Wow!I can't believe how much our story is mirrored here! I inserted my thoughts in bold in the quote.


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Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

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GotGemini....that was awesome...!..My heart goes out for all the couples who yearn for each other soo desperately..who know for sure they are meant to be toghether! but cannot make it happen due to the so called forces of nature....!Just knowing such a person exists or did exist for you, gives us soo much comfort, irrespective of whether we are destined to come together!
i can get over and through any kind of trouble and pain becoz i know you are there for me ...kind of feeling..
And then what about those...who do yearn for their twin flame and dint happen to find them??
One never knows, but the twin will certainly appear. If it is not in this life, then it will be the next life at the latest. So do not despair. The twin will definitely turn up. You have no choice in this matter.
Gotgemini...your experience is almost similar to these movies
Serendipity (2001)
starring John Cusack, Kate Beckinsale And
Innocence (2000)
starring Julia Blake, Charles 'Bud' Tingwell
A must watch if you havent !!!!
And as for the movie which so closely relates to mine is..
'A Walk to Remember'(2002)
Starring Mandy Moore, Shane West, Peter Coyote
and yes i wasnt even interested in it untill he... time and again urged me to see it! i was in tears
And then im looking forward to seeing
Breaking the Waves (1996)
starring Emily Watson and Stellan Skarsgård
The Notebook (2004)
Starring Ryan Gosling, Rachel McAdams, James Garner.
Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon (2000)
Yun-Fat Chow, Michelle Yeoh, Ziyi Zhang
All these are a must see,capturing the beauty of Twin Flames..
Would appreciate everbody for their feedback on it.

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Aquacap...would love to hear yours too..may be u can just brief us about it?
i ask this becoz...right as i heard of it..The combinations of this union are varied..its a whole new set of Permutations and combinations everytime..i dont think there are any exact similarities to each other..and chances are that it may be the same astrologically too..
For few There is very vast age difference...few were married but not ready spirutually...few meet them in their dreams...few Have felt the power of it through a Guardian Angel...for some it was very brief but captivating meeting of the eyes...and for others loss and death due to illness or accident etc..But all these encounters have a common thing..
ITS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE ,ITS FROZEN IN TIME and ITS BEYOND REASON.

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