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Topic: Need serious advice on my cancer friend ignoring me
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LostinmyMind
Newflake Posts: 7
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 17, 2011 09:25 AM
  
I'm new here and need some insight of why my cancer guy friend is ignoring me. I'm gonna try to make this as short as possible. We've been friends for 8 years and for the past 4 months we've been hanging out more and more and talking everyday thru txt, phone calls, or seeing each other about once or twice a week (we live 2 hrs away). There's always been something between us but timing was never right....I had a bf for 10 yrs and him on and off with different girls. But me being a virgo and him cancer...we have the classic push/pull thing going on and have been feeling each other out and hinting here or there. Well the other day he told me his ex txted him and he laughed about it, I asked if he was going to answer her, he said he might, so I said good luck with that, then he said he was going to a buddies house....me feeling rejected said have fun with the buddy and ex....he said she wasn't going to be there...blah blah blah...I said I didn't care either way and that I don't care what you do....so since then he hasn't talked to me...Ive apologized 3 times (which is hard for me to do) and still nothing. Hes never ignored me before....ever Not sure if hes back with the ex and doesn't want to tell me or found someone new or really mad at me. I've been over analyzing it for a weeks now (and my brain seriously hurts...lol) and just need some insight.IP: Logged |
coconutcancermoon
Knowflake Posts: 483
From: A Place of Pure Love
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 17, 2011 10:44 AM
You apologized three times so all you can do now is wait for him to contact you. I have a good friend with a Virgo rising and sometimes it feels a little suffocating. I was out with my son yesterday and he called me 12 times worried about why he didn't talk to me all day :/ Not saying that this is you (I'm just saying) Give us time and space, eventually we come around  IP: Logged |
LostinmyMind
Newflake Posts: 7
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 17, 2011 11:01 AM
Thank you coconutcancermoon for replying.No I'm definitely not one to bug someone, all three apologies were weeks apart. He was the one that made all the contact and came to visit me....I'm very cautious when it comes to any new relationship (I have the standard virgo walls lol) But with us being friends and wouldnt think he'd do this kinda thing since he never has before. IP: Logged |
coconutcancermoon
Knowflake Posts: 483
From: A Place of Pure Love
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 17, 2011 02:46 PM
Hmm . . . now I wonder what his chart looks like . . .IP: Logged |
LostinmyMind
Newflake Posts: 7
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 17, 2011 03:27 PM
Im not sure exactly....Im new to all this and all I know is his birth date and Im not sure which city he was born or the time. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 5397
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2011 04:16 PM
Welcome!  ------------------
"Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne IP: Logged |
LostinmyMind
Newflake Posts: 7
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 17, 2011 04:18 PM
Thank you Randall IP: Logged |
LostinmyMind
Newflake Posts: 7
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 19, 2011 09:31 AM
So if anyone cares to know....I have an update on the disappearing crab lol
He txted me tonight and said hes not mad at me and then began to ask me 100 questions lol
He asked whats new with me....I replied alot of things, them he asked like what tell me everything, then asked if I have a man yet etc...lol
Cancer guys are def funny characters. I just pretended like nothing was wrong...didn't ask him any questions...
Just went with the flow of things and he said he'll txt me tomorrow...so we'll see what happens but it nice to have him back and after reading everything I possibly can on cancer men (in true virgo style lol) ill know to watch my words very carefully! Thank you for all the help!IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody
Knowflake Posts: 63
From: IL
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 19, 2011 10:30 AM
Exactly. Saying you don't "care" is crushing to a Cancer. IP: Logged |
LostinmyMind
Newflake Posts: 7
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 19, 2011 10:58 AM
Apparently so....hopefully I can keep those words under control for now on lolIP: Logged |
makesthebest
Newflake Posts: 5
From: new york
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted February 05, 2011 11:12 PM
wow! 2 days after you posts, he finally comes around. Funny how life is like that. Yeah Cancers are a funny bunch. Its weird how they all just seem to KNOW everything will turn out alright- Even tho they have dropped off hte face of the earth and....drives me damned crazy.IP: Logged |
coconutcancermoon
Knowflake Posts: 483
From: A Place of Pure Love
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 06, 2011 12:14 PM
I get that way too. Sometimes when things are said in a certain way or certain things are said we will retreat into our shell indefinitely and all you can really do is wait.IP: Logged |
LostinmyMind
Newflake Posts: 7
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted February 06, 2011 01:40 PM
Everything is good again....it was a big misunderstanding and we're back to talking like before....yayyy lol. Thanks for all the advice!!IP: Logged |
remixel-pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 106
From:
Registered: May 2010
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posted February 06, 2011 07:25 PM
yay!IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit
Moderator Posts: 15
From: A Place of Pure Love <3
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted February 07, 2011 11:29 AM
Wonderful!IP: Logged |
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