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leogem
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posted January 18, 2011 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for leogem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So what does a double whammy of

His Aries Sun sextiles my Leo Mars (0 degree orb)

My Leo Sun Trines his Gemini Mars (0 degree orb)

entail?

My Sun also conjuncts his ASC (0 degree orb)
His Pluto and True Node Trine my moon (0 degree orb)

From the moment I set eyes on this person, I feel the need to stay away from him out of sheer shyness (this from a Leo sun/Gemini moon/Leo Mars/Leo Merc/ Gemini Venus) - the word "shy" is not in my vocab. until now.

Any insight will be much appreciated

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Got Gemini??
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posted January 18, 2011 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this double whammy in a two way exact conjunction. My sun conjunct her Mars exact and her sun conjunct my Mars exact. PURE UNADULTERATED, IMMEDIATE SEXUAL ATTRACTION

The sexual energy was so thick you could cut it with a knife. We both wanted to rip each others clothes off instantly. Its a VERY primal aspect!

There are other sides of this aspect like the possibility to be really competitive with each other, sometimes even argumentative with each other too. The sextile probably tones it down just a little.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

And yes, I'm a guy!

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leogem
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posted January 19, 2011 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for leogem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
The sexual energy was so thick you could cut it with a knife. We both wanted to rip each others clothes off instantly. Its a VERY primal aspect!


Thanks Got Gemini?? For sharing.

LOL sounds like a great thing to have in a relationship the flowing sun/mars aspect. The only problem here is - I can't even bring myself to look him in the eye or shake his hands for now. Too much fear and shyness on my part - inexplicable! So, it may be awhile before we get anywhere near primal :P

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annaf
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posted January 19, 2011 09:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you feel like posting your synastry, would be interesting whether there are any other astrologocial explanations for your response. Maybe something about the house overlay or strong synastry connections? The mars aspects to me dont sound as if they could trigger such a shyness, unless it#s maybe moon-mars.

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leogem
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posted January 20, 2011 05:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for leogem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by annaf:
If you feel like posting your synastry, would be interesting whether there are any other astrologocial explanations for your response.

Hi Anna, thanks for the response. Here's the synastry chart. I am outside.

Could it be the Saturn contacts or the fact that he has loads of planets in my 12th house? He just sets my antennae abuzz when he is around, yet, I just get all flustered and petrified to even say hello. Very, very unlike my normal breezy self.

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annaf
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posted January 20, 2011 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

I think it could be a combination of a number of things. Unfortunately, I can't see the degrees on the planets, so I'm not sure whether his mars and venus in gemini are too far away from your saturn to conjunct it. But your moon definitely seems to be conjunct his saturn. So there seems to be some saturn action going on in both direction. Saturn can bind two people together, but from my experience it can also inhibt or intimidate people in the first instance so much that they cant even get a relationship of the ground. I've had mutual saturn connections (venus-saturn oppos.) with someone I was very strongly attracted to and the attraction felt quite karmic. But at the same time I could never ever relax in his presence, I was sooo intimidated by him. Also, two of this personal planets (moon and mars) fell in my 12th house. I think 12th house connections can feel really special, but they can also make you feel quite vulnerable to the other person. So as this guy puts two personal planets mars and venus and in addition saturn in your 12th house, you might feel extra vulnerable in his presence. Also three of your personal planets fall in his first house, so you maybe very aware of HIS presence, it's quite in your face for you. So you are acutely aware of him (1st house), but at the same time you feel super sensitive around him due to the saturn and 12th house mix.

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leogem
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posted January 30, 2011 09:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for leogem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by annaf:
Hi,

So as this guy puts two personal planets mars and venus and in addition saturn in your 12th house, you might feel extra vulnerable in his presence. Also three of your personal planets fall in his first house, so you maybe very aware of HIS presence, it's quite in your face for you. .


Hi Anna,

Thank you for your interpretation. It is indeed very interesting and I did not want to respond until I have had the oppportunity to be at another function with him again, which was last night.

Yes, I am acutely aware of his presence. The moment I walked into the arena, I knew he was around and saw him talking to another person. I decided then to circulate and noted that his positioning of body changed according to the direction I was in.

To rule out any co-incidence, I then decided to walk across the length of the room to the other end. Just to see if he would turn totally so as to keep me within his line of sight. He did that, slowly, but he did it.

After the main event, I moved to the dining area. My friends immediately came to speak to me. I then noticed him walking down the stairs, past my friends and I, and he went outside - it's dark there, and light where I was standing inside. He then turned to the left, stood against the glass wall - from the corner of my eye, I saw him stand there looking towards my direction. By this time I was surrounded by quite a few acquaintances. I decided to look at him directly. He was peering in through the door staring at me. When he saw me looking directly at him he was startled.

A minute later he came inside and walked quickly across the room and he was gone. He left!

So, I am thinking that while I am acutely aware of him and he is definitely very interesting and enigmatic to me... perhaps my planets being in his first house, and the sun conjuncting his ASC has quite an "in your face" quality where he is concerned too.

Still not sure if I can start a conversation with him though. My heart just goes pitter-patter whenever he is near. So, hopefully he will "man-up" and speak to me soon.

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Lioness
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posted January 30, 2011 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your Synastry is similar to mine and Pisces.

He put his Sun,Mars,Merc in my 12th. His Saturn is on my Dsc. His moon conjunts my Neptune..

Basically I watched him for 5 years (lol.. ok Its a slow process) He also said he watched me. I knew something about him. I just didnt know what, and really couldn't put my finger on it. A friend told me you should hook up with him, you guys would look so cute together.. I said WHAT!!! no no no no.. NOT HIM.. anyone but him..
Deep down inside, I knew there was a connection, I knew it would be different from anything else... I wasnt ready for that..
One day I walked up to him, and we started talking.. We immediately connected, we stood there for 3 hours talking.. We told each other things, you just dont tell people, when you first start talking...

Anyways, after that we were all over each other..
I was in an emotional spiral, I was really confused.. Everytime we talked the next day I was freaking out internally. I had no clue why.. I would even start my period the next day after we were in contact with each other... I had 6 periods in 2 months.. It really effected me deeply and to the core of my entire being...
I had to figure out what I was feeling, and I also had to figure out what the heck was going on... The first 6 months was hell for me inside.. BUt yet I was so intrigued, and couldnt step away...
Now over a year later.. Im STILL trying to pull away.. Im having a very hard time with it.. We are just friends now, but I cant do this anymore....

Here read this article.. This is the closet article I have found about 12th house synastry.. http://theinnerwheel.com/2009/09/16/synastry-studies-the-twelfth-house-and-the-double-inconjunct/#comment-1201

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