posted February 07, 2011 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by motyogo:
Hi All! I've been looking for a place to introduce myself before asking to tap your collective wisdom, but I didn't find any sub-forums with 'meet and greet' threads. So I hope it's not impolite to jump in here.

I am curious how you would interpret the behaviour of a man I know given his planetary placements. I feel I need to figure it out before I can move on

He is an Aquarius sun with Gemini rising. Venus in Pisces, Moon in Cancer, Mars in Virgo.
House IV is in Leo, House V in Virgo, and House VII in Sagittarius.

The gist of the story is that this man is a friend whom I have not known for long; we had a very long dinner at a restaurant; we obviously enjoyed each other's company and engaged in some harmless flirting: safe from my pow because he is married and in my mind it was clear that nobody was going to cross any boundaries. Also, he struck me as a person who generally respects society's rules, in other contexts for sure. When we were about to part, out of the blue, he gave me a French kiss :bigeyes:

When I got over the initial surprise, I reminded him that he was married in the gentlest way I could, and then walked away. Since then, we met one more time in person, when he non-verbally made it clear that he continued to be attracted, but verbally and physically he was very proper (ie no French kissing attempted this time ).

Since I can't avoid seeing him due to our areas of work, and I do like him a very great deal as a person, I'd love to know what you think might have been/might be going on with him based on his planetary dispositions. Is he just a womaniser (I don't know him well enough to tell, but he is otherwise very respectful and does not at all strike one as a cad)? Did he think I'd offer him easy s*x, that would not "count" for some reason vis-a-vis his commitment to his wife? Or is it possible or likely that he really fell for me?

Thank you very much in advance! I can't seem to be able to pre-view this post, so I hope I wasn't too rambling.
(Btw I am an Aries Sun with Virgo rising, Venus and Mars also in Aries, Moon in Cancer and a Venus opposite Pluto sneaked in there that complicates my life more than a little. And no I have no intention to break up a marriage, I'd just like to know what's going on.)

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Moty, I've quoted your original post. You need to read it again.

It doesn't look like anyone has gotten off topic but you.

This man's kiss meant ALOT to YOU, and you want to know what it meant to HIM. You're already thinking you will break up his marriage, for crissakes, over one little kiss! If you told him "in the gentlest way" you could that "he's married ... and then walked away", then I don't know about anybody else, but it appears that you think that kiss rocked his world and he will eventually he would leave his wife for you! Stop, Please, replying like this is some artsy-spiritual-asexual-newAge encounter. Dang, own it for what it is to you.

posted February 09, 2011 03:41 PM            

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that means a beneficial influence on toning down some of that Aries brashness, right?

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Well, I ADORE Aries brashness (Leo Sun here) ....I'm way less of a fan of Piscean/Neptunian watery, loose boundaries about marriage, their own or others. I mean, romantic and dreamy is great...lying and cheating, nooo.

posted February 21, 2011 05:50 AM            

Actually I would likely blame his Rising in Gemini...he would have a very large inclination towards being the type to have multiple relationships.

I will be honest though...why does it matter to figure him out. I kinda think you're wasting your time. I'm not gonna jump on you for kissing a married man (I'm a Cancer Sun/Asc and Mars in the 1st so I can be a bit too blunt lol)...but seriously how freaking close did he get to you to actually kiss you. And why on earth did you let him that close? He is an Aqua and from what I have seen they can cheat...not out of romance...but boredom (lol like most men when married). Or seeing what is out there...and they tend not to leave the primary relationship. Hell most married men regardless of the sign rarely leave their wives unless they have to (ie got caught). I think the best thing for you do to is chuck this up to a lack of boundaries and have some good hard realism and just stay away from this man. Clearly this kiss meant more to you than you're letting on (your posting about it on a random website for one...so its pretty obvious even if you aren't willing to be upfront about it meaning something to you).

Btw do you happen to have any Earth in your chart, or good aspects to Saturn? This guy is more down to earth than you think (his Mars in Virgo)...so despite having his Venus in Pisces and planets contacting Neptune...at his core he is pretty down to earth and I'm am willing to bet the farm that he WILL NOT leave his wife as he is very attached to her (Cancer Moon). And just happened to be sexually attracted to you.

Take it from someone who knows Cancer Moon and Pisces Venus men (I know plenty as I am a Cancer Sun), while they can be nice and very sweet...they are men. And if you let them (actually any man for that matter) make a move they will even if they are committed.