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Topic: Attraction-Mismaction
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the.lamb.ram
Newflake Posts: 5
From: memphis, TN USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 29, 2011 08:40 AM
  
Hello, I am an Aries woman, divorced twice, widowed once,(I didn't kill him for the record) I am 45 with 3 children, 10,(girl) 11,(girl)and 14 (son). I have no problem attracting suitors but for some reason they don't match me. My most recent budding friendship (he approached me at work last week after watching me for about 6 months)is a Taurus man. I can already tell we don't match. My attraction to him is purely physical but we can't even have a flowing conversation. If he didn't work with me I would probably have rock his world and abandon him. But because I'd have to see him at work this isn't feasible. I will restrain myself. lol My last long standing (8 months) friendship (hook-up type) was with a Capricorn. I ended that one (though he doesn't get that yet) due to pure boredom. Before that an Aquarius I was really in love with broke my heart. My question is: How do I meet and attract THE man RIGHT for ME for a long-term relationship? Or should I just stop trying and continue to woo, seduce and abandon? Who is right for me and how will I know? I am really tired of conquest and ready to settle into a mutually satisfying relationship with someone. How will I know? The following is my birthchart. Ascendant
Sun - Aries - Gemini
Moon - Cancer - Cancer
Mercury - Aries - Cancer
Venus - Aries - Leo
Mars - Virgo - Virgo
Jupiter - Taurus - Libra
Saturn - Pisces - Sagitarrius
Uranus - Virgo - Capricorn
Neptune - Scorpio - Capricorn
Pluto - Virgo - Aquarius
lil - Capricorn - Pisces
asc node - Gemini - Aries All reasonable comments are welcomed! IP: Logged |
Lucia23
Knowflake Posts: 1914
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 29, 2011 12:58 PM
I love Arieses!What are your big passions? Many Aries need a lot of adrenaline-rush activities--skydiving, rock climbing, various things that involve high heights or intense competition--to have enough excitement. They are fiery people. They need to be heroic. With a house full of kids and a steady job, you might not have the time you need to go off on quests out of greek myth...but you will meet men who are a good long-term fit for you when you're doing something that allows you to really express your true self. That means, unless your job is really thrilling you, NOT the nice steady earth sign guys from work. Write a list of what is most important to you in life. And a list of what's most EXCITING to you in life. And then go do those important and exciting things. The right man for you will be exciting, and have pure, heroic values. It might be as simple as trying new activities--some of which you could do with kids in tow--rock-climbing lessons, taking up a martial art, playing the guitar and singing at a local club on Saturday nights, doing a co-ed sport (even something silly--ultimate frisbee.) I don't know what you do for work, but a sense or suspicion I get is that your job isn't as exciting as you are. You are going to want a guy who really challenges and impresses you...so go do something challenging and impressive, that ignites and burns off lots of physical energy. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
Knowflake Posts: 1914
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 29, 2011 01:09 PM
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How will I know?
With your chart? You will know because you will feel passionately in love and full of lust and also really like, respect, and admire the guy...you'll want to spend LOTS of time with him. You will feel a little awestruck by how great he is. Anything less than that and it's not a good long-term match-up. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 5127
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 29, 2011 01:29 PM
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the.lamb.ram
Newflake Posts: 5
From: memphis, TN USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 29, 2011 02:08 PM
Thank you Lucia23...It's nice to know SOMEONE love Arieses! Well they all do until they get to the other side of me. lolActually I just made a career change, I was stuck doing clerical/secretarial work for 25 years to bring home the bacon but I recently became a fork-lift driver. It surprised the hell out of my co-workers who have only seen the girly Marilyn Monroe side of me till now. They were pleasantly surprised at how well this work fits me. I am a girly-guy-girl as you may know. Your answer does strike a note in me. I have been agressively being mommy since I've had children and I don't get out much. But I have been dreaming of trying new things( not like skydiving due to my age ) but like horse back riding, motorcyle racing, etc...But I never considered I would meet someone during those new adventures. That strikes a note of adventuresome curiosity with me. I'm gonna try it and keep you posted. Thanks for your comment IP: Logged |
the.lamb.ram
Newflake Posts: 5
From: memphis, TN USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 29, 2011 03:01 PM
Lucia...Lucia... Addendum...do you think it would be okay if I um...er...ya know? YOU KNOW! He's earthy and stuff...would it be okay if I just tasted a little of the soup? I'd be fine afterwards and never miss a beat. Would he? It's been a loooong time since I've eaten. Tell me now. Don't hold back. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
Knowflake Posts: 1914
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 30, 2011 12:24 AM
Sure, you can hit that. You're going to anyway, why not? Might be fun. Also, maybe it won't play out the way you think.Now that you've switched jobs, the men you'll meet on the job will probably be a way better fit than when you were doing clerical work...but the motorcycle racing is ideal! Do it! IP: Logged |
the.lamb.ram
Newflake Posts: 5
From: memphis, TN USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 30, 2011 07:49 AM
Well Lucia, you do know the rams don't you? lol I have thought about it and decided against it. As much I a love a little hit and run action, I love my family, my job, and the security it provides to support my independence. I generally don't get my money and honey from the same place because I don't want to jeapardize mine or my kids livestyle. This job pays me very well with great benefits.So, as tempting as it is I'm not gonna taste the soup. The flavor is probably as bland as plain chicken stock anyway. lol The stars indicate that it's not worth taking that type of risk. Besides from what I've read, those earthy types don't take too kindly to being jilted and you know that is what I'd do and never stop being friendly and smiling at the guy. As much as I relish drama, I don't want ANY at work. So...naaah Anyway, I'm taking my kids to the motorcyle show downtown this week. Maybe the huntress will find prey there. Thanks for all your input. You really put me on the right track. You are great! Tell me more about you. IP: Logged |
the.lamb.ram
Newflake Posts: 5
From: memphis, TN USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 30, 2011 08:03 AM
OH yes, Lucia, I am gonna start working on that list. Communicating with you has helped me to slow down and put things into perspective. Are you an astrologer?IP: Logged |
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