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Scorpionic_Web
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posted March 10, 2011 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have found myself terribly drawn to a taurus woman. The first woman I ever wanted was a taurus, and my new attraction makes me feel like a teenager again. It feels new, and intense, and scary; things I thought I was becoming too mature (or callous) to feel.

Maybe it's a case of only seeing what I want to see, but it seems there are Taurus and Scorpio pairings all around me.

Can anyone speak for the long-term success of this match? Or more specifically, the male Scorpio and female Taurus? So much rhetoric about oppositions, particularly that of Taurus and Scorpio, warns of fated disaster.

Lots of Oppositions in our charts:
She is a Taurus with an Aries Moon, I'm a Scorpio with a Libra Moon. Her Sun tightly opposes my Merc, and opposes my Venus and Jupiter. Her Aries Mercury opposes my Libra Moon, Saturn, and Pluto.

Other notes:
Her Gemini Venus doesn't aspect any of my personal planets within orb, which bothers me a lot. We both have Capricorn Mars, in conjunction.

... a lot of Venus/Mars flavored influence, with the huge exception of her Gem Venus being unaspected by my personal planets.

I'm not asking for advice. But to say I'm attracted to her like a magnet would be the understatement of the year. I feel like jumping out of my skin when she is around. As can be expected, neither of us are making a move, I'm already stuck in the Tauro-Scorp mud.

Me:
Scorpio Sun (20 degrees)
Libra Moon (21 deg)
Scorpio Merc (16 deg)
Scorpio Venus (22 deg)
Capricorn Mars (9 deg)
Scorpio Jupiter (20 deg)
Libra Saturn (28 deg)
Sag Uranus (4 deg)
Sag Neptune (25 deg)
Libra Pluto (27 deg)
Leo Asc (9 deg)

Her:
Taurus Sun (15 degrees)
Aries Moon (exact degree unknown)
Aries Merc (26 deg)
Gemini Venus (10 deg)
Capricorn Mars (16 deg)
Pisces Jupiter (16 deg)
Sag Saturn (8 deg)
Sag Uranus (21 deg)
Cap Neptune (5 deg)
Scorp Pluto (5 deg)
Asc Unknown

As can be seen, she's rather Martian (Aries Moon, Merc, Sun trine Mars), somewhat Saturnine (Cap Mars, Venus opp. Saturn and squ. Jupiter), with an appreciation for intelligence and individuality and what I fear may be a possible interest in homosexuality (Gem Venus, Merc trine Uranus).

And as can be seen, I'm a rather venusian Scorpio male, with an appreciation for both Venus/Mars energy in a woman. My Mars is unaspected. My Scorpio Sun/Venus/Jupiter conjunction makes for some very obsessive and painfully lofty desires, which my Moon/Saturn/Pluto conjunction assists in completing my compulsive self-doubt, a masochistic distrust of my own emotions, and an attraction to practical women, often in a position of power.

Oh, well.

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TrueTaurus
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posted March 11, 2011 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpionic_Web, I don't know if I will be much of help, but I just had to comment that the guy I am dating has almost the same exact chart as yours.

He has the EXACT same signs...from your Scorpio Sun to your Ascendant in Leo.

I am a Taurus female with Scorpio Moon, Cancer Rising.

My only concern about you two is that she hardly has any Scorpio energy/water...I think it's her Martian energy that might be more problematic against your Scorpio rather than her being a Taurus. You may understand her (with your air moon and fire asc.), but that understanding may not be reciprocated. Contrary to popular belief, I think the Scorpio/Taurus pair is manageable and rewarding.

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Scorpionic_Web
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posted March 11, 2011 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
TrueTaurus, I'm not really looking for advice but thanks for your input. But you're the only one here who can contribute I guess.

I've studied astrology for many years now, and I pretty much know what I'm getting into when I compare a set of placements.

I guess I was just hoping to hear some positive reinforcement about whether the words "Scorpio, Taurus, and happily ever after" have ever been spoken in the same sentence.

Interesting to hear about the guy you're dating. I guess he was born either on the same day as me, or the day before. Nov 11th or Nov 12th?

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TrueTaurus
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posted March 12, 2011 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I used to be Taurean_Scorpion and I've read your posts before...you know more than I do. Don't be discouraged. Regardless of the opposition I'm very hopeful about Scorpio-Taurus. I really think it can work with effort, just as with any other relationship, but there's no such thing as happily ever after. Her Asc. and house placements would make a big difference, and if she has them in water.

His birthday is on Nov. 13th. He's passionate about playing guitar/music and is really into good coffee & food.
He's a sensitive guy. And us being both pretty plutonian, we're cautious and prideful about revealing our true feelings. With his Venus in Scorpio, he's into aggressive women. We're still at the beginning stage of dating so not much has happened, but feel free to ask any questions.

I think, with Venus in Scorpio and a Venusian Moon, it's inevitable to be attracted to the feminine but aggressive type.

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Scorpionic_Web
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posted March 12, 2011 08:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, Taurean_Scorpion! I remember you, too. I was gone for over a year and a half and all of my registration info was lost, I guess that happened to you too, considering your moniker change.

I love playing guitar and I'm passionate about music too... ever see the 2nd page of my personal "Know Two Are Alike" thread?

I like aggressive women, but it's a fine line between "aggressive" and "controlling". And I imagine a typical Scorpio has these two concepts precisely defined.

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TrueTaurus
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posted March 14, 2011 02:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha, yes, I was gone for a year or something too and came back. Yup, I remember that one photograph of you and your guitars. This dude has a similar collection likes yours.

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Scorpionic_Web
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posted March 19, 2011 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, lately I feel like she may be a lesbian. I'm so attracted to her. She may be the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. This is miserable.

I don't even know her. I'm simply drawn to her with a severe and horrible feeling of longing.

I need to simply ask her out on a date. The time and place have never been convenient.

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TrueTaurus
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posted March 23, 2011 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Justin, right?
I can't believe it. I thought the dude was born in 82, but it's actually 81, so that changes quite a few things. He has his Moon in Gemini, Venus in Capricorn, and Mars in Virgo. Still a Scorpio with Leo Asc. though.

How's it going with the Taurus?

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Scorpionic_Web
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posted March 30, 2011 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Things are still stuck with the Taurus girl. I just need to ask her out. The moment is never right because I never have a minute alone with her at work. I'm still completely captivated by her. She's absolutely beautiful and sexy and so magnetic.

Her voice, her laugh, her presence all drive me crazy. I imagine the typical taurus woman would be ashamed of me for allowing my passions to take such control as to render myself helpless when she is around me.

My only wish is that I have a moment alone with her so I can know once and for all if I even have a chance with her.

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Scorpionic_Web
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posted April 01, 2011 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
TrueTaurus, so I talked to her. I was drinking at work, enjoying a jazz band, and I saw her leaving her office in the rain. I ran out to meet her. I asked if I could walk her to the corner.

I was drunk and didn't plan it this way, but it gave me a certain courage that I didn't have in the past. I explained this to her, since I was obviously intoxicated.

My forwardness seems to make her uncomfortable. She wouldn't make eye-contact while we talked.

I asked her if she would like to get together some time. She said she is very busy with work (which I know is true) but that she is open to the idea. She is very much of a career girl, but of course I fear her hiding behind this as a means to avoid me.

It's clear that she's cautious and seemingly detached and I don't get the impression that she is very interested in me, but I do get a certain sense that with a little patience, and playing my cards right, then I just might be able to make my way into her thoughts.

Next time I see her, I plan to get her number and maybe discuss a possible date.

I feel some relief to have spoken to her, but I don't feel any more aware of her level of interest in me, and I'm still a bundle of nerves.

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Ami Anne
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posted April 02, 2011 04:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you thinking she could be a potential lesbian based on those two placements?
I am not contentious.Text can seem argumentative when it is not .
I was just asking.
I have a Gem Venus and someone used to tease me about this.
I am totally hetero though lol


Please update the situation,here, SW
I am watching and hope to be of some help,if I can

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Scorpionic_Web
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posted April 02, 2011 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami- It's more than just the placements. In this Aquarian Age it seems there are as many gays and lesbians as there are straight folks, so I always have to consider the odds. She surrounds herself with only females at work and although my "gay-dar" has never been very keen, I seemed to pick up a slight vibe of possible homosexuality.

But yeah, in general, strong Mercurial and Uranian placements, aspects, and the Signs attributed to them, always make me wonder about sexual orientation.

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Ami Anne
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posted April 02, 2011 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK I see
I am a Gem Venus but Uranus doesn't mess with me too much

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Ami Anne
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posted April 02, 2011 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK I see
I am a Gem Venus but Uranus doesn't mess with me too much

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starzy54
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posted April 03, 2011 12:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starzy54     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry I can't contribute much with help,I'm still learning.I wish you the best with this

I am curious though,if you don't know her so well,how did you get all her info? Like birth time and date?

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Scorpionic_Web
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posted April 03, 2011 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Starzy, I don't know her birth time, only birhtdate. That's why I don't have an Ascendant or a degree for her Moon (it's somewhere between 2 and 14 degrees of Aries).

Anyway, a mutual coworker of ours is friends with her. He's a closer friend to me than he is to her, he's a true 100% Leo and he's openly gay so he's in a good position to talk to her without her considering any alterior motives.

He thinks it's "cute" that I'm so helplessly hung up on her, so he said he'd help me with my troubles and friended her on Facebook just so I could know her birthdate and relationship status. He's into astrology too, although rather uneducated about it, and was curious to see my reaction and what I would have to say once I knew her birthdate.

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Ami Anne
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posted April 04, 2011 09:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Come back and post updates on this thread ,Scorpionic Web

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TrueTaurus
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posted April 06, 2011 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahhh! Interesting...That's great you got to talk to her. At least you opened the door for yourself so she knows what's up. I think you're fine, just go with the flow and talk to her when you're sober.
That one Scorpio guy and I didn't work out. I noticed he has a problem with being himself. He's very shy/insecure? I'm really not sure what was at the root of it, but he would act completely different in person than online/text/or when drunk. He seemed unable to have the courage to be forward when needed.
Make small talk and chat a little, then take her out for a drink or something. =)

Update us when you can.

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Ami Anne
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posted April 06, 2011 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep
Scorpionic Web
I am checking for word from you

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Scorpionic_Web
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posted April 09, 2011 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a good and solid talk with the Taurus a couple days ago. She made it pretty clear that she isn't interested. Ouch. I'm bummed out.

I was very forward with her, and I'm at least satisfied that she was forward in return, unfortunately, not to my benefit.

It was a firm rejection, and it hurt, but with the anticipation of having waited so long I'm rather relieved that at least it's over with now.

So, I move on.

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TrueTaurus
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posted April 10, 2011 10:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There are many other beautiful Taurean fishes i the sea, glad you're moving on. And it's great she made it clear and not play games.

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