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carl
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posted April 01, 2011 11:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So in another post, someone said I should try a virgo (considering I am a scorpio who wants a relationship that is S-O-L-I-D.) Maybe as a cap ASC I am also methodical and careful in regards to who I fall in love with and give my heart to (aries girl does not get this mindset).

Anyway, looking on my FB I noticed a girl I had met and kind of hit it off with prior to the aries and realized..surprise surprise, she is a Virgo. But now that I think about it, she seemed kind of detached in a way. But I can not put my finger on it. But, as if she was doing the same thing as I was doing, being protective or something. Two steps forward (flirt) and one step back, if that makes sense. But we left kind of in a flash (had to, I was on vacation).

So, as a scorp, what can I find in a virgo? Not asking about her or anyone else, still want things to work with the aries, but just in general. Curious.

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Randall
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posted April 02, 2011 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They are organized.

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PlutoSquared
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posted April 03, 2011 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the nice part (from an Aries' perspective, of course) is the fact that Scorpio really needs to control and influence their partners in ways - it's almost part of your emotional makeup, to need to feel in control of your relationship, to feel safe and at ease.

Virgos will willingly allow their partners, especially Scorpio, to guide them. They seem to be eager to help and assist Scorpio, act as a dependable and solid support system, and not seem to mind so much if Scorpio presses their buttons and pulls their strings.

Virgo is kind of a "at service" sign, and Scorpio really demands and desires someone to be their all-and-all supporter.

That's at the core of it, but there are more complimentary aspects between the two. Virgo being an earth sign can be very soothing, although they have an edge for being critical and overly observant - but, so does Scorpio. The two signs in general have a lot in common, that way, as well.

I would assume you could trust each other's ability to analyze and make decisions.

Virgo's willingness to be at service to Scorpio is probably a complimentary sexual aspect, as well. From what I've gathered, Scorpio's need to be in control also includes their desire to control in the bedroom . Virgos probably happily go along, and are rewarded, because Scorpios are rumored to be very good lovers.

Basically, Virgos in all ways act as the stabilizing force for Scorpio, who needs that kind of influence to cool down their intensity - and to give them the support/service they deeply desire.

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hikoro
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posted April 04, 2011 02:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hikoro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgos are perfect! lol

Virgos and scorpios are very similar, not surprisingly. They used to be one sign, and if you look at the zodiac glyphs, there is definitely some history between the two.

Virgos, like scorpios, want to make sure that the other party reciprocates their feelings. That is the reason that virgo girl was mirroring you.
Usually, this means that the virgo and the scorpio may engage in a mouse-cat game forever until finally, someone jumps in and takes the plunge.

As for myself, I can write a dissertation on the relationship with my virgo.
But to some it up, my virgo grounds me, he is a calming force. On the other hand, I bring out the (hidden) sensitive, imaginative, emotional side within him.

It is a great balance.

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