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posted April 14, 2011 09:53 PM            

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I feel so emtoionally drained....... my boyfirend (scorp) and I(libra) got into a fight and it was one of those fights that utterly exhaust me, emotionally, spiritually and mentally.

I've never cried so much after a fight...just feel so blah

why do you guys do when this happens to make yourself feel better? nothing is working and to top it off i got exams this wknd.

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posted April 14, 2011 10:01 PM            

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Drink lots of water to make sure you are hydrated, take a painkiller to ward off any headaches. You need rest and sleep to recover from this, but can you get to sleep when you're wound up from a fight? If not, get some old crockery and go to the bottom of the garden and throw it, Greek-style! If that doesn't take out your frustration enough to make you sleepy, thump a pillow a few times or if you reeeeeeally need an outlet, loosen the cap on a tube of toothpaste, put it on the floor then jump on it...it oozes out everywhere and is very satisfying.

By the time you've done all these childish, tiring things, you should be ready for some sleep.

Everything seems better when you're revitalised.

Hope you feel better soon.

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posted April 14, 2011 10:24 PM            

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It's so funny you say "greek" style, because that actually is my ethnicity so I guess i'll do it right!

Thanks so much for your advice! x

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posted April 15, 2011 12:08 AM            

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Awe that was Very nice advice from RMchex

Scorpio's have this crazy wild passion inside them.It is too much for a Libra.You are not used to this I know.Try to relax and recover,do your exams and try to sort out the issue with the Scorpio when things are more calm.

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posted April 15, 2011 03:58 AM            

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I completely understand! My scorpio moon ex drove me crazy as I am a gentle libra mars and venus. I think time out for a few days and pamper yourself will help.

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posted April 15, 2011 07:36 AM            

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Thanks guys! appreciate your help

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posted April 15, 2011 09:36 AM            

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My feeling is that you and he are the yin and the yang.
Each needs the other. Try to learn what YOU are made of and what you can let go(Ego).
You would not be with him if he did not fit a part of you

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Life is lived in the sand box.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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posted April 15, 2011 01:35 PM            

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Hi ami

Yes we are def ying and yang for sure!!
Mars and venus.....
whats funny is I have just as much scorpio in my chart than he does!

How would one let go of ego?

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posted April 22, 2011 10:23 AM            

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Ok, my scorpio moon (aries sun) ex is driving me mad....he is sooooo moody.He is in Japan and its nearing the end of long 5 week trip for him. He wishes I was there and we had a good conversation, next time we talk he is so moody and grumpy.

Am I being too sensitive with leo moon wanting a good conversation. If he said he is feeling low, immediately I would be all loving and caring but when he is grumpy I just want to flounce off!

oh dear...

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posted April 25, 2011 11:48 PM            

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Yah...since I am detached from the situation and can be objective..I must apologize on behalf of all scorps cause I know we can drive you crazy and be so draining! I know, firsthand.

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posted April 26, 2011 11:19 AM            

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My opinion is that regardless of an water moon/asc., or whatever, it's really no excuse to not act like an adult. It's part of growing up and managing their energy in a positive way.

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