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sassaqua
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posted June 21, 2011 04:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sassaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi all,

I would like to explore, and possibly get some thoughts from senior members on this please.

How does the person with the natal aspect feel the synastry aspect that is the same.

What I mean for example is:
my ex has a T-square; his mars is square his moon. My mars (and jupiter), conjuncts his mars, therefor squaring his moon also (and opposing his Saturn, the other bit of the t-square, yikes). Seeing as he already has this configuration, can he cope better with my mars coming along and squaring his moon? Or does me coming along just stir up something he is otherwise trying to keep under wrapps.

I can empathise to some degee as my venus is square Uranus, his venus is (also) conjunct mine, so it also squares uranus. I think I can deal with it because I have it already though.

Maybe the level of awareness the person has about their nature - especially through astrology - makes a difference to how we can handle these things. I know that this is obviously true.

I am left wondering after our break up how he will cope with anyone with this t-square - and another t-square too involving his venus - as another close relationship is always going to trigger these tense dynamics he has.


I am wondering (/hoping) too that maybe he will feel drawn back to me, as I do trigger it, like maybe he will have an unconscious desire to "work it through". My saturn is trine his moon, it provides good stability if he does wish to work it through

Hope he comes back

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sassaqua
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posted June 23, 2011 02:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sassaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any ideas anyone? Someone?

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Got Gemini??
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posted June 26, 2011 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a very interesting subject to me! I actually never thought of it from this angle

With a certain Scorpio female (whom I'm getting over), together we both have Moon conjunct Pluto in Libra (creating a double, double whammy). In her natal chart, she has Venus conjunct Neptune. In our synastry my Venus is conjunt her Venus/Neptune conjunction.

Since we were never in a relationship, I don't know how the Venus/Neptune played out for her but it be interesting to know if she felt the same way I did about her Moon/Pluto.

Oh yeah I forgot, we both have Neptune sextile our Moon/Pluto nataly. She actually has Moon/Pluto sextile Venus/Neptune. All aspects mentioned are under 3 degrees.

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Alma Sun
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posted June 27, 2011 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alma Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I was wondering about that too.. I mean, if they don't have that aspect natally and it gets activated in synastry, does that mean they're so foreign to it they don't even recognize what they're feeling? Or are they the objective ones because they don't have it in their natals? Also curious about the person who has it natally, do they handle the energy better or worse? I'm talking Moon/Pluto aspects or Venus/Uranus ones, but any goes.

I think I've read somewhere that if the natal aspects are repeated in synastry, the person with the natal aspects has something to learn about themselves.. (maybe I've read it somewhere here lol)

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sassaqua
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posted July 04, 2011 04:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sassaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe if you have the aspect yourself, it operates on pretty much an unconscious level. When someone comes along conjuncting an aspect the other has natally, it brings the aspect to consciousness only.

Meaning, the person who has a configuration that is triggered by anothers planets, is no more equipt to deal with the aspect than someone who doesn't have the configuration, because the dynamic of the aspect in question is unconscious. The other person's planets triggering it, bringing it into awareness, the energy being then as new and foreign as someone who didn't have it.

Any takers?

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