posted September 01, 2011 11:48 PM
Magi call this the "impossible dream aspect". Here's a quote from their website:
" Venus-Chiron Clash. A sign of possible Heartbreak. Relationship happiness is seemingly not meant to be.
This is perhaps the most unique Clash and is not like any other Clash. Most Clashes are not signs of attraction although with some Clashes, there can be attraction that fades. But in the case of the Venus-Chiron Clash, it actually is a sign of lifelong attraction and at the same time it is also a sign of incompatibility. Two persons who form this Clash are normally attracted to each other but unlikely to get married. For this reason, we have given this Clash the special name of "Impossible Dream Clash."
It is important to keep in mind that there are no 100 percent rules when it comes to human behavior. Some couples forming the Impossible Dream Clash will get married. As a result of our monumental and extensive research, we have found that when two persons form the Impossible Dream Clash and still get married, it is usually because one or both persons were born with a Turbulent Chiron Aspect. We know all this sounds complicated, and it is. That is why we included this information in our interpretation upgrade to our software."...and then blah blah buy our software.
And aw, man. I hate saying this, but apparently it's the Chiron person that loves the other one and therefore is vulnerable. Magi people say that the Cinderellas and RSLs give mutual love, but in everything else, it's the chiron person that always gets hurt.
Venus/Chiron clash probably makes you want to be together as it is, and in my opinion, you should be together if you feel like this could be a happy relationship. Meaning this one aspect probably won't make you feel so miserable that the relationship is impossible to handle. If there are positive aspects between your charts, I don't see why it couldn't work and you two couldn't be happy if you care for each other, at least as long as it lasts.
But then maybe I'm not the best person to listen to, since I'm making 11 or something Saturn clashes with someone, many of which magi say should make me run for my life, and yet I'm still starting that relationship. Probably it's the 4 cinderella linkages and a chiron-juno, but according to magi that still won't make it work. Eh. I just feel that one thing won't necessarily ruin a relationship. Good luck to you two!