posted June 29, 2011 08:29 PM            

He quickly began emailing me, and we have stayed in touch ever since. He was still on his travel journey for about a year, and I found out he was paying to sit in internet booths for hours to message with me. So, we have had periods where we were messaging very often and for hours, and more common has been exchanging a few emails a month. I have only dated one person since coming home, and I found myself comparing them and didn't tell the BF about him....it just ignored his emails for that time frame.

We have gotten to the point of mailing books back and forth, and he has made comments about needing to find a home and settle down because travel isn't any fun anymore with out a 'long term companion.' Maybe not intially, but at some point I realized I might have feelings for him. He seems too shy to ever say, and I'm too scared to come off as creepy (bc we only saw each other five days) or run off a friend. I haven't met anyone I felt I had such similar interests and dispositions as. Plus, I have two sons...which he knows...but I think sometimes that would be an issue. And he is two years younger than I.

I've asked if he thinks I would enjoy visiting where he is now, because I take a trip every year. He replied that he knows how much I love history and big cities and culture, so New Zealand might not be the best vacation for me. I've also mentioned he is welcome to visit where I live, and he hasn't taken me up on it.

So I'm not sure what the next move should be. I feel there were alot of coincidences surrounding our meeting, and I've never experienced coincidence before or after that.

I don't know either of our birth times, but I was born 19 July 1979 in Newport News, VA which definitely makes me a Cancer sun, Gemini moon, and Cancer venus. He was born 21 February 1982 in the UK which definitely makes him Pisces sun, Aquarius moon, and Capricorn venus.

posted July 02, 2011 01:21 AM            

Your's is a interesting story. It would have better if you had birth time of each of you its always better for calculations.
Anyways i will look into each of your charts and get back to you with some kind of answer.

posted July 04, 2011 01:15 AM            

Sistergoldenhair.

I have goan through both of your charts (i calculated it keeping time as sunrise).
With correct time we get a better understandings of the characteristic of the persons and also the ruler of houses do change if time is not available and which is a very important facet of Astrology. But still degrees of planets do tell us a lot of things which are more of less same for slow moving planets except moon which moves very fast and changes degrees quickly.

You and your partner have good communication aspects like Mercury Trine Saturn that is a very important aspect in any relationship as without good communicatoin love cannot flower itself.Because of this aspect between you two you have communication still going on harmoniously.
But you dont have any aspect with venus ,mars,neptune which can make you a good couple for the future. The sexual chemistery is missing ,also no sun-moon aspects which shows endurability of the relationship.This relationship cannot last for a long time and you will suffer emotionally more than the piscean guy so my advice will be to talk whats in your mind with him freely and you will get your answer.