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posted July 09, 2011 07:31 AM            

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Hello,
I used to post here years ago, and suddenly had an urge to again. I find myself in a very tricky love triangle involving a Scorpio male and his girlfriend. The girlfriend does not know about the relationship between him and I. I like her a lot, and she is a decade younger than me, but I am very intensely drawn and connected to the Scorpio. I am open to a three-way, non-monogamous relationship but the other girl is not. I am afraid of getting my heart broken, in the end. Here's our synastry chart. Any ideas on how I should approach this situation and how he is likely to behave in the future? Thanks.

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posted July 09, 2011 02:03 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted July 15, 2011 09:10 AM            

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House overlay- eighth house Venus on the Ascendant, Venus and Sun on Ascendant- Moon in the fifth, Moon on the MC-and Moon on the DC lots of heat and important relationship angles on this overlay. Mars conjunct Sun, Moon trine Mars, Pluto sextile Ascendant (It seems-without degrees, only by sign)

I cannot comment on entering into a relationship- but I see the draw.

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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted July 15, 2011 11:20 AM            

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Hi Rainbowvien

I have a strong intuition you should NOT.I think great pain will come your way if you do.

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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posted July 18, 2011 11:30 AM            

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Yikes. Well I got involved. He has ended the relationship with the other girl but there are new complications. For one, I think there is a possibility that he is gay! Long story that I won't get into.. Even though he is now *single*.. or rather we are "together", I sense that the relationship will not work in any conventional way. He tells me he has very intense feeling for me but I am not sure if he is sexually aroused by my body, if that makes any sense. In other words- I think he is physically drawn to women who look like little girls and men (and I am neither..). It is all very strange and new for me. The other thing is.. he has the same birthday as my deceased boyfriend (who died very young, at the age of 22). Karmic connections? Something like that. Pixelpixie- I remember you! I used to post as "whiterabbit", years ago. I recall that you're a lovely Scorpio lady, and a musician. If this is the same person?

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posted July 19, 2011 06:29 PM            

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Yes, I remember you, Whiterabbit! Hello!
Thanks for remembering me!

I did used to sing in a band, now I mostly just sing in the shower, hahaha. I quit when pregnant with my last child, who is now 4. Thank you for remembering me in fond tones.

Oh, I don't like the idea that he doesn't appreciate a woman's body, among other things, when there are SO MANY in the world who absolutely worship it... but the good news is - Eyes open. When your eyes are open, you do the navigating.

Best of luck, lovely one. Please keep us updated!

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posted July 26, 2011 12:43 PM            

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Bump!

We need more whiterabbits!

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posted July 27, 2011 05:21 PM            

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haha. that makes me glow. I was only 17 when I first posted here. Feels good to get back into the astro-world and the warm vibes of lindaland.
So, I'm full-time "dating" this Scorpio fella now, and we shall see how it goes. They always find me. or I find them.. under a rock. trying to scurry away but I find my way past that hard exterior and it's always worth the effort

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