posted August 22, 2011 11:23 AM
When you want to get the general idea of how a man will pursue you for a relationship, take a look at the Mars sign, the sign in it, as well as any other aspects that may contradict its full force.
First thing I noted was that his Mars is in Cancer.
Water Mars signs are perhaps the most indirect and mysterious in pursuing the object of their affection.
His emotions are strongly tied to his desires and so it may be best that you remain passive and feminine and let him take the first move.
Cancer Mars is extremely sensitive to rejection (or indiffrence)as well as criticism. So, its best that you let him feel confident(mars) and at ease(Cancer) with you.
But don't make yourself too available to his whims, you must retain a certain level of unavailability so that he thinks that you are worthy to pursue( all men, regardless of sign, love the chase).
Mars in Cancer is often very shy and timid in expressing their affection, but they like to feel that they are in charge. So let him do all the pursuing whilst gently encouraging him on. He is likely to grow bolder and less evasive, once he feels that you see him as masculine(in his own right).
You, however, have your venus (the way you attract men) in Aquarius and so you do't follow traditional rules as to whom does the pursuing and when. When you like something, you don't undersatnd the politics that are involved in courtships.
You also have your Mars in Aries and this means that you do appreciate courage, boldness, and "call a spade a spade" from a man. It makes life generally quite easy for someone to just come out and say what they want to say.
However, it is likely that if you push or seem "uncoventional" in your approach to your Cancerian man, he may respond by being evasive and overly shy(even if he really isn't).
Cancer energy is a refelction of what it sorrounds and so when you are unpredicayble and roudy, he'll get confused and suspicious.But if you remain calm and consistant, he'll respond by being supprisingly assertive and decisive.
Let him think that he is in charge, well atleast for now. But be warned that Water Mars and Fire Mars can clash in their approach to things...