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posted August 04, 2011 09:49 PM            

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I've asked this question at a forum before but I believe people here will actually help me.

I'm a Virgo dating a Capricorn man with 16 years between us. I'm not asking anyone to read our charts unless someone thinks that would be a good idea. I just want to know if anyone thinks we have a chance.

Me:
Sun: Virgo(-Libra cusp)
Moon: Gemini
Mercury: Libra
Venus: Libra
Mars:Cancer
Ascendant: Capricorn

Him:
Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Gemini
Mercury: Capricorn
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Capricorn
Ascendant: Libra

Based on those planets alone, do we have a better chance at a relationship including the age gap, or will I have to work a lot harder to keep him?

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posted August 04, 2011 10:25 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted August 05, 2011 01:44 AM            

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Thank you!

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posted August 05, 2011 01:08 PM            

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Is he the older one?

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posted August 05, 2011 02:23 PM            

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Yes. Right now, he's 34 and I'm 18

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posted August 05, 2011 10:05 PM            

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Hmmm, you've got a lot of Earth and Air energy going on between the two of you, which means on a gut level, you understand each other's need for independence, and both having Mars in Cardinal signs, you are both very loyal/possessive, although you are more open about expressing these feelings...

Honestly, in any relationship, my personal opinion is that there is no such thing as "keeping" your partner; the simple question you might ask is whether you still fascinate each other, and if so, do your emotional natures sync up. To me, without a mental spark, AND an emotional respect and willingness to fulfill each other's emotional needs (whether it be verbally, with acts that matter a great deal to the partner, etc), there can be nothing worth sticking around for, future-wise, let alone trying to "control" or "keep".

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posted August 06, 2011 02:40 PM            

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Thank you! I really appreciate it.

Could you also maybe clear up the Saturn/Saturn opposition for me?

I read that it's a personal thing, that I'd have to clear up issues that happened when I was 14 or something like that? I'm not so sure. Or it is just resolving the issue with our own age jump?

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