posted August 07, 2011 02:17 PM            

OK, its been tough getting over Mr Aries/Scorp moon but am getting there and have broken all contact. After a period of feeling down, I started socialising more and met a guy through some friends. He is in a relationship but i like having guy friends and he asked for my number to plan some parties and we ended up hanging out on friday. His relationship is in trouble as his girlfriend is cheating on him and we talked about our relationship experiences. I realised he is a very nice guy, sweet, caring. He was adopted so we do not know his exact birthday (its August 6th 1985) but that is not official. To me he seems very much a cancer, sweet, sensitive, caring. He loves his girlfriend very much but it is not working as she is 20 and wants to party and be with oher guys as well as him.

We hung out purerly on a platonic level and i realised how badly my ex boyfriend had treated me and it was comfort that there nice guys out there. Last night was his birthday, he found out his girlfriend (who was away) had been sleeping with 16 other guys during their year long relationship so he was very upset. He told me thinks I am amazing woman and he likes me but everything is messed up. I told him, I thought he was a great guy but he is involved with someone and he needs to sort his relationship out.

I felt guilty, cause emotionally I kind of cheated with him. I appreciate his good qualities when I compare it to how I have been treated in the past.

My libra mars and venus is obsessed with fairness and jutice and I feel that my leo moon kind of took over last night and I liked the fact he said he liked me. I had baked a cake for his birthday too.

I'm sorry this is a long story and not much astrological analysis as do not have his accurate birth date but i guess I felt it was a moral issue.

Was a i bad person for reacting to him? We talked about the fact he is in a messed up siutation and his self esteem is very low and he is just very upset.