posted September 10, 2011 01:00 PM            

There's an Aries guy in my community I am interested in getting to know better. We have spent time together with other friends and get on well. I have asked him to go walking with me tomorrow afternoon and he has agreed.

How should I let him know I am interested in him? (Or should I not let him know?) I understand Aries men like to pursue, so I don't want to make any dramatic moves, just a little hint to let him know I'd like to get to know him better and then the next move is up to him!

I am pisces, gemini mars, moon and saturn, chiron in aries and capricorn ascendant. He is aries, born 1/4 but I don't know any other birth details.

Thanks in advance,

posted September 13, 2011 08:59 AM            

Take your time and let him take the initiative.

posted September 13, 2011 11:27 PM            

I have aries in the 5th house and it trines my venus and mars in Leo. Needless to say romantically I like to just go for what I want period, I feel comfortable approaching a guy I like and kissing him and been direct bc on top of it I have sag rising. Based on experience you let the guy make the first move.

Making the first move did work for me once with a scorpio guy who is the man that I felt for the most intensely in my life, completely surrendered to him and him to me. I saw him at a club, thought to myself I want to have something serious with him and then when I saw him again felt drawn to him like a magnet and so I walked towards him and started making out with him for hours, he then asked me for my phone number and called me.

I guess the exception to the rule is if is love at first sight girl making the first move can work but for other cases it normally doesn't work.

posted September 14, 2011 02:42 AM            

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Originally posted by bunnies:
I would just go walking with him and leave it at that.
That in itself is a declaration of interest. No words are needed.
I don't believe in pursuing men. It's not the natural order. It may work initially if you blurt out that you like him but in the long run you will have proved no challenge for him and let's be honest an Aries man's middle name is Challenge!

Take your time and let him take the initiative.

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posted September 14, 2011 03:20 AM            

Thanks for that - I did post a response yesterday but can't see where it went?

Anyhow, we had a lush afternoon Sunday. We walked a long way and he really opened up and told me a lot about himself (some of which I was surprised at as it was kinda heavy and intimate). Then he ivited me to stay for the meal his housemate was cooking and after we chatted, listened to music and he played the guitar and sang (very hot!!).

I didn't say or do anything about stating my intention and I feel quite comfortable with that. I have a history of rushing into relationships (especially the physical aspect) and taking the lead so it felt nice and natural to just see what happens next. And even if nothing does happen then I think we will be good friends.

Thanks for your advice,

With love,