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Topic: How to tell if a Taurean man is starting to fall for you
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seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 271
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 14, 2011 06:49 AM
  
Hello all 
Just wondered if anyone has managed to decode the Taurean male yet?  This particular example swears he's "never been in love" and isn't the sort to put kisses at the end of a text or an email. Very formal bull  However there are a few little things that I'm thinking might point to a slight shift in his feelings from cold to luke warm haha!The things that have caused me to wonder are that he seems to regularly break arrangements with his mates to come and spend time with me even though I've told him I would be more than happy to make other plans myself and not monopolise his time - he won't hear of it for some reason. He wants to meet my son although I've politely delayed this because when we first met he told me about the possibility that he might move to Spain to open a bar. I told him maybe we should wait a bit because if they got to know each other and he then left it would be difficult for my son to understand. The other day he made a point of telling me he was moving house but only down the road from where he is now and he opened this part of the conversation by reminding me what I'd said about him meeting my boy. He said "I'm getting a house this time. Think it's about time I grew up." There are other more intangible things that have me wondering too; looks, touches and the way he holds me. All very tender and lovely. Suffice to say even if there are no feelings developing and this is all just a pleasant illusion, I'm a very happy and lucky girl at the moment IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 1231
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Registered: May 2011
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posted September 14, 2011 03:23 PM
oh man i'm a taurus male and even i don't know! i think we go down fast but take really slow to get a move on things. except the ones with venus in aries. the mates are a no brainer tho! IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody
Moderator Posts: 280
From: IL
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted September 14, 2011 08:35 PM
oh, especially the ones with Venus in Aries... that made me pause. Taurus men only trust what they take slow. Give it time. The friendship will grow if it is meant to be more! Or the friendship with more... will grow into even more. IP: Logged |
seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 271
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 15, 2011 05:25 AM
Thanks
Yeah this one's got Venus in Taurus (conjunct my Mars) and he likes to take his time Sand when you say you "go down fast" do you mean you fall for people fast? And the only reason I was surprised about him passing up the evening with his mates was because he's kind of a confirmed bachelor in some ways... likes his freedom and time to himself. But yeah... I see what you mean haha! ;D Mystic those are very wise words, thank you x No Aries in my chart at all but I think I've inherited by Aries dad's impatience haha! "Oh Lord give me the gift of patience... but hurry!" IP: Logged |
JoJo
Knowflake Posts: 240
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 15, 2011 10:52 AM
I'm with a Taurus man and we have been connected at the hip from day one. There is no doubt that he's as into this as I am and it's pretty much been warp speed from the start. We laugh about how it feels like we've been together for years already.I don't know if this makes a difference, but we met last March but didn't start dating until the first of September, so maybe all the typical slowness on his side took part between then? He told me he was attracted to me when we met, but was content to wait it out until we could spend more time together so I would be comfortable enough to go out with him. All I know is that (at least with my guy) once he set his sights on me, he didn't let me get away. When I get scared and try to go sideways on him (typical Pisces), he just pulls me closer and tells me to enjoy the moment and trust in what we have. It feels solid, steady, and safe, and if that's what it's like to be with a Taurus, then it's pretty freaking amazing.... IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 1231
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Registered: May 2011
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posted September 15, 2011 01:08 PM
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Originally posted by seeker3030:
Thanks
Yeah this one's got Venus in Taurus (conjunct my Mars) and he likes to take his time Sand when you say you "go down fast" do you mean you fall for people fast? And the only reason I was surprised about him passing up the evening with his mates was because he's kind of a confirmed bachelor in some ways... likes his freedom and time to himself. But yeah... I see what you mean haha! ;D
yup dats what i meant by go down fast! i'm a venus in taurus too. i do like my alone time but i do drop whatever i'm doing if it's not too important and if i like that someone. IP: Logged |
seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 271
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 16, 2011 10:07 AM
Wow JoJo that sounds wonderful! Well here's hoping! But I'm kind of content to wait and see. There are obstacles (he has an ex who won't seem to accept it's over) but on the whole I can see this man trying his best with me, and that means a lot. Sand you and my Taurus guy sound very similar! Thanks so much for your insight IP: Logged |
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