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Topic: "dont believe everything I say..."
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hippichick
Moderator Posts: 864
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Registered: May 2009
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posted November 13, 2011 01:00 PM
  
If the other gender says this in a relationship, and always kids, jokes and 99% of the things the person says are followed "JK".....And a sincere "I love you" is delivered on a consistant basis, and his actions are consistant with loving... Why might he say, while being away from his lady for 5 weeks, "I dont want to ever go without you again no matter where I have to live," then starts rambling, a few months later, about moving away, inplying inevitable separation...when called out on his statement his retort??? "Dont believe everything I say..." Since the ever-trusting Pisces tends to believe eyerthing in love....and to be honest and open and never, ever say anything that she doesnt mean...would her opposite a (very heavily influenced Virgo) be opposite, necesarially? Believe nothing, talk out of his a#@, and not take into consideration the other's feelings? Just hunting some opinions... t~~~
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hippichick
Moderator Posts: 864
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posted November 13, 2011 01:12 PM
O, my anaylysis?Talks too much, doesnt think about what he is saying when he says it,,then back peddles by saying "jk", then when confronted with contradicting himself, bakcktracks aagain....and projects all his issues on to the lady and twists things to make it her bad... I really think we need a psych forum! IP: Logged |
seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 294
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted November 13, 2011 04:32 PM
Sounds like fear talking to me - sometimes it manifests in this way (backtracking,) sometimes they simply run or sometimes they go silent on you. I lit a blue candle and asked that mine finds his voice... maybe you could light a yellow one to ask that his courage is restored? If nothing else it helps you focus on what the real problem is. It's not you. <3
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hippichick
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posted November 13, 2011 04:45 PM
Thanks seeker...at my wit's end~I agree fear has everything to do with it, on his part. Yup! Soon as I have some time off work, will lite a candle....geezzz, being with him has made me forget even about candle rituals. IP: Logged |
seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 294
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted November 13, 2011 05:00 PM
No worries - take back some power  <3IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted November 13, 2011 05:53 PM
no wiser womanly words ever spokenIP: Logged |
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