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unikestyle
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posted January 22, 2012 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for unikestyle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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unikestyle
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posted January 22, 2012 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for unikestyle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also, My Neptune and Uranus are in Capricorn in the 7th house as well, and his Neptune and Uranus are in Capricorn in the 9th house... I'll put up a picture if this helps. (Only because I still feel drawn to him, but it makes no sense - nothing happened!)

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Mystic Melody
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posted January 25, 2012 12:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer is square to both Libra and Aries, which are your sun and moon so he kept giving it a try and then wanted to just have sex if nothing else worked. A lot of young people think having sex is the way to a relationship too, so I think you know something deep down when you talk about his immaturity. A Cancer male will come off soft and emotional even to women he isn't too interested in since it is his nature and then become easily offended (especially by Libra and Aries energy/actions/communications) and then retreat. Your honesty felt like it was going to draw him in but he didn't want to be drawn in, so he avoided. I think some Cancer guys want so much to be a "guys guy" that they try to play with a girl's emotions but then aren't really capable so then go back to being nice. He isn't the one for you and you know it, but it's just energy clashing, no fault of yours or your actions. My advice would be to let this one go to make room in your life for someone else to appear?

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unikestyle
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posted January 25, 2012 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for unikestyle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much for your response! So just to make it clear, how was my honesty initially drawing him in? Did it make him retreat? And now I'm largely interested in this for astrological purposes (not to state the very obvious )! Another quick question: how important are personal planets in someone else's first house? Thanks for your time!

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makesthebest
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posted February 04, 2012 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for makesthebest     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I honestly believe that when people get more mature and come into themselves, you can more properly predict their behavior through their sign. Young guys ( I don't care if they are cancer's are not) will do some REALLY IMMATURE CRAP to "get" a girl. It sounds as though initially he may have just wanted to hook up, particularly if he knew you were leaving and he beat down your doors and or stalked you the times that you were'nt really responsive. After all no matter what his age and intentions he IS a cancer. The "oh man, she's mad at me" thing may have kicked in for him.

I know its hard to tell someone to move on from something that is haunting them, but you're so young. TRUST ME, you will have bigger fish to fry. Word of advice, i dont care how inexperienced you are. If you don't feel totally comfortable DON'T do it! To many orgasm-less girls do stuff just to please their boyfriend or the boy that they like and end up with nothing but low self-esteem. you did the right thing kiddo.

And that girl he ended up with has got one hell of a flake on her hands.


BTW- HOW can u tell when he looks at ure facebook. Do I need to reign in my stalking tendecies?? lol

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makesthebest
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posted February 04, 2012 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for makesthebest     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry, I just reread this...dude..that kid was a class A Jerk.

ANOTHER word of advice. Boys are SUPPOSED to get boners. Don't apologize if they do and don't feel obligated to do anything about it unless ure ready. It was his priviledge to kiss you.

you tell him its moving to fast and he ends it? ( that's his ego right there) THEN he tries to get you to do more than you already did?? Boy's an ass.

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