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Topic: Not Getting Along with Twinflame
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missem2003
Newflake Posts: 2
From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 07:18 PM
  
What does it mean if you don't seem to agree or get along with your twinflame? There seems to be a lot of EGO on his part as well as game playing. What do you do then? I feel as if I can only take so much. I'm seriously, done! What do you all suggest? Maybe we're not supposed to get along in this lifetime. What is you told him off & he did vice versa & when you tried to repair the fallout he wouldn't respond anymore & said a lot of mean things to you?
EDIT: So, I got him to the point of talking to me, but in the destructive nature that I am, I sabotaged the relationship & told him off. I was testing to see how strong this relationship is. Needless to say, he doesn't want to talk to me at all anymore now. He had slowly started talking to me & now I think I've scared him away. A psychic told me he's my twinflame. I've never met him so I can't say for sure, but by chatting with him & looking at his pictures I feel a special bond & love for him. How to get him back now? IP: Logged |
Sublime
Newflake Posts: 21
From:
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 25, 2012 08:42 PM
Hi Miss,From what I have experienced and read my best advice is to not react to his ego. If you do react then you begin to play into negative aspects that will truly damage the relationship. Let him vent. This is the time to show unconditonal love. Good Luck IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 15247
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 25, 2012 09:44 PM
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Lonake
Moderator Posts: 6599
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 26, 2012 01:16 AM
I found this series on YouTube and he's in a Twin Flame relationship so he posted some thoughts. Sounds like a guy whose taken his time to think about some things, http://www.youtube.com/user/goldraytwinflames He's posted several vids. Not the most animated talker but if you can sit through it, it's interesting to hear what he has to say. I agree with a lot of it. I add this only because he's not goo goo gah gah on the twin flame idea, he presents it with its realities. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Knowflake Posts: 133
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 26, 2012 02:25 AM
Ohhh, that happens. For example, mine is rather blunt. I'd be grossly hypocritical to say I'm not, but, still. Being that he's my cowriter on a series based off of a collaborative project we did years back, it's crucial we're on the same page.And when we're not, he will NOT hesitate to tell me about it. As only a Sun-Moon-Merc-Ura in Sag can. 'Oh, my GOD this is boring,' as he's reading the first ten of the revised pilot. It really wasn't - it was just brooding Scorpionic intensity with a backdrop of serious WTF doom-and-gloom, but his Sag is going, 'where's the action?' He wasn't waiting until page 10 to see the big pay-off. Oh, he plays Aries SO well. Anyway. This has been hard. When he tells me that something's stupid, or something I thought was intense and compelling was 'so boring', I can't help but be hurt. But, I'm an adult about this. I just laugh - usually - and say something about how my last name is not 'Bay' and I apologise if he would prefer lots of explosions. 'We don't really have the budget for that anyway.' So, I ask questions. Categorically, without fail, EVERY time, we end up combining our ideas and the result is something absolutely INCREDIBLE. Our joint effort is just amazing. So, I push through the 'this is stupid' moments, because I know that something much more amazing is on the other side of it. I'm not saying to try and lighten up or be less offended. This just works for me. I'm Libra-Scorpio-Sag, and he's Sag-Cap-Aquarius. Together, we're basically Scorpio. But it's that fusion that's just the most thrilling experience I've ever known. If he broke off to get some space, there must be a reason for it. What's the root of your disharmony? Do you both need a breather? How's your composite in terms of Uranus aspects? Any other major afflictions? Saturn? Hang in there. Enthused and Inspired in Hollyweird, -AMP
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ribbons of color
Newflake Posts: 24
From: philadelphia, PA
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 27, 2012 02:30 PM
Missem2002,sorry to say, but Twin Flames don't play games, that is not the kind of love TF share,maybe time to cut him loose, and move on.IP: Logged |
ribbons of color
Newflake Posts: 24
From: philadelphia, PA
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 27, 2012 02:35 PM
SO SO SORRY for the mis spell missem2003IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 3933
From:
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 28, 2012 06:38 AM
quote:
Originally posted by ribbons of color:
Missem2002,sorry to say, but Twin Flames don't play games, that is not the kind of love TF share,maybe time to cut him loose, and move on.
I agree with ribbons.
More often than not, we think it's special and are quick to brand it TS relationship when it's not. We meet soulmates in this lifetime, many of them in all sorts of different types of relationships including family and friends. So often people confuse the physical attraction with the TS special bond. IP: Logged | |
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