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Topic: alrt gals, tell me how to win them back !!
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start6030
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 26, 2012 04:14 PM
  
..i wrote him too many emails, texted , called, made sure he never feels like i didnt care....even after he told me he is goign away... everyone says such things push people farther....websites say, DONT CALL, DONT TEXT, DONT BEG..QUESTION >
we hv so many wise nd experienced members here...aww, it feels a family...so tell me , how do u think should one approach a guy (if u can be specific, PISCEAN with gemini asc), so as not TO push him further away...so that a hope remains of him cmng back or atleast starting communication at some point.. IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 3770
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 26, 2012 04:21 PM
You don't approach. I can't say anything more constructive, because he doesn't sound very nice to me. Sorry. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 15095
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 26, 2012 06:09 PM
Moving to Soul Unions.IP: Logged |
MC2012
Knowflake Posts: 441
From: Calgary
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 26, 2012 07:28 PM
Forget about him you're wasting your time. Find someone new. If you want to move out of your country at least find a good guy who you know is going to be there. Do not be so desperate. Just being real. If you are up in the middle of the night crying for him while he's got on with his new life, you should change that and cry for yourself and then stand up and be a strong woman and forget him. IP: Logged |
MC2012
Knowflake Posts: 441
From: Calgary
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 26, 2012 07:36 PM
And in all honesty I wouldn't even claim him as "hubby"
There is no husband. It's over. When you can accept that then you can be real to yourself. IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 27, 2012 04:03 AM
quote:
Originally posted by MC2012:
And in all honesty I wouldn't even claim him as "hubby"
There is no husband. It's over. When you can accept that then you can be real to yourself.
MC> 
u r right ... i hv to somehow accept it...
but probably , i dnt need another guy atleast fr now...there is sm1 who has been waiting fr me...bt this love is a strange thing...nd it still makes me cry for my ex only.. as about moving to another country , this marriage didnt mean for that ...i was already abroad before i met him..jst nt in the country where he is... so , yes , am going back now....i just wish i could be with him in his country..that had brought back a hope.... bt u r right... i should now stop crying.. its hard... bt the only good thing ...i'll either stay here , or go back to States... p.s. > u sound so much like my mum..hehhe..she's strong...nd she tells me its a life's lesson for me to learn to be strong ...thx IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 27, 2012 04:09 AM
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Originally posted by teasel:
You don't approach. I can't say anything more constructive, because he doesn't sound very nice to me. Sorry.
aww Teasel THX for the reply IP: Logged |
MC2012
Knowflake Posts: 441
From: Calgary
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 27, 2012 01:06 PM
I'm so glad to hear you're starting to get better day by day start xoxo IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 27, 2012 03:25 PM
aww...it felt so good MC smtimes i feel am lucky to be surrounded by so many of u nd family who supports me nd cares... while he has got no one ! except for a greedy friend nd a mean sister.... he's quitting his job , coz he's ashamed to tell them the truth..changing his house...his sister would soon be busy, nd so would be his friend... am gonna think it this way now > HE LOST ME....I gained SO MUCH LOVE
p.s. > ah no , cant be so selfish with him...bt if i want to be strong , i 'll have to be , anyws !! am gonna plan my studies again....hopefully , am gonna start my school soon...pray pray pray for me 
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MC2012
Knowflake Posts: 441
From: Calgary
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 27, 2012 07:04 PM
Yes start someone better is meant for you, stay strong and keep up with your studies. The best revenge is success! You go girl! IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 28, 2012 01:32 PM
the best revenge is success...wow... am gonna share it with dad tomorrow...lolz, am papa's girl..hehhe... nd he keeps boosting me up the same way Yes, i think it might jst hav been a lesson of life for me , to teach me many things, especially start trusting myself... one more thing , i alws felt i was a pessimist.... bt amzingly , even though i feared a lot, panicked, nd all the negative stuff kept coming into my mind , am going so positive !!...aww..thnks to everyone around me IP: Logged |
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