posted February 06, 2012 06:06 PM            

So my aqua guy friend (who does same job I do but 2 and half hours away) called me tonight to wish me well on my trip tomorrow. We met on a work trip back in October and kept in touch with texts and calls. The thing is, I feel SUPER happy whenever I hear his voice and chat to him. Like full of light and laughter. BUT not so sure if this is attraction or simply the charm of Saggie and Aqua together, we will meet each other next month through work. I am a little confused as not sure if it is romantic or super friendly...

Is it just the aqua male effect?

posted February 08, 2012 11:30 AM            

This is a different aqua..this one I had discounted, we met through work last october and hit it off straight away. I was not really physically attracted to him. But we have called and texted over the past few months as friends. We are meeting next month, this guy is single (as far as I know), does the same job I do but in a different institution.

Like I say, he makes me super happy, he just texted me and said something along the lines of what i had been thinking too. So "gets" me i think. I am not sure whether it is one of those lovely soulmate connections that has a friendly supportive vibe or whether he and i are just good mates. I think it will be clear when I actually see him. He seems to have LOTS of friends and so far has done nothing shady or seeminly untrustworthy...

The other Aqua guy is defo outta the picture, he was just flirting and wasn't meaning it.

The second suitor in the reading you gave me, hmmm, he told me he is also seeking spiritual help through Kabbalah to deal with his stuff. He is the older one (well 10 years older than me, 38). He certainly doesnt keep me the super happy vibe.

posted February 08, 2012 11:34 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Is this the Aqua guy who was flirting with you and proved to have a gf? Probably not, but I recall that (older?) post by you and thought I'd ask. I think it makes sense to doubt Aquas given that incidence. But friends can also be warm and nice to each other. So, only when he says something you will know for sure if he sees you as something more. For sure, it sounds like you're at least a good friend to him.

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posted February 08, 2012 03:58 PM            

Thanks for the asking about my health. I'm doing much much better. My cough is persisting a bit but overall I'm really back to health.

Keep us posted alright?

posted February 08, 2012 04:13 PM            

Glad you are feeling better Time shall tell, but really I have an imaginative mind, and not quite sure how I will feel when I see him. The happy feeling could still be there but not as a love relationship but stil yay for happy feelings in general and people when you get off the phone from them make you smile then that is worth something.

There is something else playing on my mind right now. A guy who I met in the summer (he was in a relationship and i was heartbroken and dealing with the events of the summer), he and I have a friendship which went through some up's and down's but we sorted them out, and he is back home in his country after finishing his study and ending his relationship. Since he has been back home (couple months or so now), he and I talk almost everyday whether its a quick message on skype and he has taken to calling me for video chats on the weekend, despite the 5 hour time difference (I really don't love the whole webcam thing but it is nice to see him). Anyway, he called me this weekend to tell me he is appying to do an MBA at the institution where I work so basically is coming back. We had talked a while back about how I felt about him. (There had always been a chemistry)and I had avoided it cause am not great at communicating about things that I truly care about.

Why am I telling you this? maybe because I am a little afraid of all of this...even the super happy feelings and even the chemistry with the second guy. I think something is changing...

Sparkling

posted February 08, 2012 06:54 PM            

Go with the flow as it's good to have your options open. Why hurry or become serious fast? Not all of them will be bf-material and you can keep the rest as friends. Time will tell.

posted February 10, 2012 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by ribbons of color:
Good luck, and remember to an Auqa, friendship is sacred, not to burst your bubble, but they have a way of making everyone they view as friend feel special, so test the waters before you jump in with both feet, and keep us updated.

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Hiya
Yep I totally agree, I have both libra mars/venus and I also see friendship as sacred. I think it is enough for now to enjoy having a lovely friend in my life and to let fate takes its course.

posted March 02, 2012 03:22 PM            

I like the last saying....and I agree. I am literally so full of happiness right now...job is going well, i won a hotel weekend in london in a prize draw today (!), just when i needed a place to spend the night in london this month. So serendipty. I am just super happy and no specific reason but was dealing with heavy stuff recently worked out some of it..towards understanding and forgiveness.

So all good and will continue to move forward and not to think too much! I am libra venus and mars so tend to intellectualise or day dream about a guy, idealistic almost. Then impatient leo moon comes into play, add saggie sun and sometimes there is fireworks.

posted March 18, 2012 06:50 PM            

Within 5 mins our american friend asked Mr Aqua how is gf was???!!!! He NEVER once told me in the last 7 months that he was in a relationship. He could see it on my face, as a saggie (and as a human), it was so hard for me to pretend all day that I wasn't confused. At end of evening, he had drunk a few and said he and i needed to talk in turkey. He admitted he hadn't told me aout his gf (gave some excuse...) but also said he has been having problems recently (Which i guess is why he called me more) and he wanted to talk with me alone.

I am totally mad, he deliberately witheld information from me, he told me he is not sure he will remain in his job or city (where his gf has a house) and this is why he did not tell me.

Wow, the good guy suddenly seems different, he looked like he had screwed up. Tried to rationalise it but I just dont get, as a honest saggie, I would rather have known months ago than think something different.