posted February 07, 2012 10:13 PM            

I'm new here *waves*

My question is, and maybe this has been answered before (if it has,please direct me to the right thread)is there any way to know if you have karma with someone even if you haven't really even exchanged words with them before.

The reason I ask is because for the past 4-5 months or so, I have been really drawn to this individual whom I don't know and by all practical purposes isn't that friendly of a person. Even his guys friends say " he's fun to hang out with,but he's such a douche."

We have mutual friends and have "hung out" a few times,but each time he sits directly across from me,ignores me,plays with his cell phone,but is really nice to other people,including other women. But, with me, whenever he is looking at me, he's always got a look of, well I don't know how to describe it other then unfriendly and uninviting.All this and yet I'm still drawn to this person.I usually readily avoid people like this,but with this person I find myself looking for them and trying to put myself into a situation that I know they will be around.Pretty out of character for me.90% of the time, I would say " screw it" and move on.

Like I said,it's a bit strange that the possibility of karma exists between us is even on my mind,since we haven't really spoken a single word to each other, but our paths have crossed enough for me to notice this behavior of his and energy,and after I thought about it , it got me wondering if it's possible that there is karma between us and that we have known each other before.

Anyone know how to tell if you have karma with someone? Thank you!

posted February 07, 2012 11:16 PM            

Well I've been told that if you meet someone who instantly dislikes/hates you with a passion -for no good reason- especially, it's usually because you've hurt them in a past life possibly. It doesn't sound like he hates you though..

I dunno.. maybe you can put up your synastry charts for someone to read at Personal Readings.

posted February 08, 2012 02:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Alma Sun:
SearBear cutest name ever hahah.

Well I've been told that if you meet someone who instantly dislikes/hates you with a passion -for no good reason- especially, it's usually because you've hurt them in a past life possibly. It doesn't sound like he hates you though..

I dunno.. maybe you can put up your synastry charts for someone to read at Personal Readings.

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Thanks for the warm welcome, Alma Sun

I don't have any of his information so I wouldn't be able to get a synastry reading.

It's not that I think this person hates me, it just his behavior in conjunction with a few things I have been experiencing that makes me wonder if karma is present. I also had an initial gut reaction the first time I was around him,singling that he wasn't the nicest of people and that I didn't feel comfortable around him.

For example:

Ever since I saw him I have had this desire out of no where to dress and listen to music from an earlier decade (as well as hearing old and some new sad songs play sometime for days in my head).

I can't seem to manage to get them out of my mind either,and each time I'm around him I get emotional for what one would think would be no good reason-I'm drawn to him, yet want to run away at the same time (strong emotions out of nowhere)I have been feeling depressed and distracted lately too.

Another strange thing is,that I feel I would be devastated and regretful if I didn't make friends with this person before they move in a few months!

Could this be a soul I have known in previous lifetimes and if so, how do I know what the lesson here is what karma needs to be settled in order to make peace with this soul? Thanks!

posted May 15, 2012 03:33 AM            

ok so presuming you
1.don't look like Sloth from the Goonies and
2. you haven't taken advantage of or offended him in any way
his giving you the stink eye seems a bit strange. you've indicated that you're drawn to him. he may have noticed you hanging around too which might actually be annoying for him. you don't stare at him do you? cos on top of hanging around thats going to incite some pretty gnarly glares from someone who you don't know.
theres quite a number of males that i really can't stand (and imo put themselves into that position). the likelihood of "karma" grosses me out. don't even waste time considering the possibility of anything karmic there! i don't give a **** about them in this life and couldn't give a **** what they were or did the last time around either!

his unfriendliness is likley just that. don't presume it's cause he fancies you and just doesn't know how to show it. and perhaps the people who know him are right and he is actually a big fat A-Hole who shouldn't be approached without a fifty foot barge pole.

sorry if i sound a bit blunt but you're positioning of yourself near his space/bubble might be weirding him out a little!