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Topic: Aquarius Sun Man, Moon In Cancer Please Help !!
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Radar10
Newflake Posts: 5
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Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 28, 2012 03:03 AM
  
I just want to first thank everyone for taking the time to read this. I need some serious advice !
Im a sun in cancer female ( I have me and his full birth chart at the bottom), and Im 23 years old, the guy that I like is a 22 year old sun in Aquarius. Me and my friend ( the Aquarius guy ) Hussein have been friends for almost a year now. About 4 months ago me and my ex boyfriend broke up and it was a really hard breakup, and my friend Hussein was there for me through the whole thing when I felt like I had no one to talk to. I've always kinda liked him and I knew he felt the same way but we both just never pursued each other & kept things as friends besides casual flirting once in awhile but we were never super close. When me and my ex broke up we started hanging out more just because in general I had more free time and wanted to hang out with my friends to get my mind off of it, & within that time we became really close and we discovered we are very much alike. He's never a girlfriend and he's pretty private with his feelings, and sometimes he's really moody, so at times I felt like with all the time we were spending together that he really liked me to the point where feelings were getting serious but then other times I couldn't tell cause he would act cold and aloof at times. So finally with all the mixed signals I asked him how he honestly felt about me. And he admitted that he's always liked me and that even loves me and that he will remember me forever no matter what becomes of us. He's muslim so he has to hide the fact that he's talking to from his mother but all his friends know about us and it's very clear that we both have feelings for each other.Im in a tough place now because I honestly am falling in love with him, because he's one of the best guys I know and we have so much in common more then anybody I know in my life I could really see myself with him. About a week ago I told him that I don't think we could talk much anymore because Im really falling for him and if he can't have a gf because of his religion right now then we need to just spend sometime apart from each other and not talk as much anymore so we could get back to being just friends. He then after that said okay but he started to shed a tear because he said he was hurt but he understands. We didn't talk for a few days, then the weekend came and I saw him at a friends party and he pulled me aside and started shedding some tears saying that he misses me and he's upset and he hides his feelings and he's not good at expressing them. So that night we kinda spent it together and had a great time because I missed him too. But then I saw him today which is just a few days later and his whole additude was different and we got into an arugement and I just pulled off and left. Im pretty sure I wont talk to him at all today. Im just so upset because I don't know what to do. His chart is
Sun-Aquarius
Moon-Cancer
Mercury-Capricorn
Venus-Capricorn
Mars-Capricorn
Jupiter-Cancer
Saturn-Capricorn
Uranus-Capricorn
Neptune-Capricorn
Pluto-Scorpio
Lilith-Scorpio
Asc node-Aquarius
Mines is
Sun-Cancer
Moon-Pisces
Mercury-Leo
Venus-Leo
Mars-Leo
Jupiter-Gemini
Saturn-Capricorn
Uranus-Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto-Scorpio
Lilith-Libra
Asc node-Aquarius
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Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 68
From: Toronto, Canada
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 25, 2012 12:32 PM
Cultural incompatibility is a very difficult thing to grapple with. I am concerned that you're only setting yourself up for eventual heartbreak. With all of his Cappy placements, he is unlikely to want to buck tradition for love. I understand the pull of his moon might be overwhelming you but I urge you to try and detach yourself (difficult for you being such a watery person, I know) and take a step back. If it's meant to be, it will be, but unfortunately from where I am standing, the prospects look grim  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 25, 2012 02:09 PM
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