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Topic: Twinflame called me a stalker!
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missem2003
Newflake Posts: 15
From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 01, 2012 10:10 PM
  
So, my twinflame found me online or did I find him? Anyways, I never told him it was truly me & I could feel that he was drawn to me. He ended up sending me pictures of his tattoo's which is something I had asked him for & he was shirtless when he took his pictures. When I finally told him it was me, he was furious & put me on blast on the site and called me a "stalker" & told me that he didn't want to be my friend & that I creeped him out, annoyed him, & all sorts of lovely things.I since then, left the site & asked the administrator to delete my account. I sent him an email the next day apologizing & told him that I wasn't cyberstalking him. From 2 months of consecutively chatting with him before this, I learned where he lives, works, & practices on Tuesdays. I told him that I could've got to any of these places to meet him, so why stalk him online? I told him that blasting me on the site was so wrong. He had considered calling the cops, because I wasn't giving him his space. What to do now? This guy is incredibly difficult. So much for a twinflame union. Maybe it's not meant to be in this lifetime. IP: Logged |
cathy
Knowflake Posts: 162
From: canada
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 02, 2012 03:03 AM
 It does'nt sound to me as though he's your twin flame.Try to forget about him.IP: Logged |
birdy
Knowflake Posts: 193
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 02, 2012 03:13 AM
He does not sound like a twinflame/soulmate/whatever, and even if he was, he sounds very unevolved spiritually and emotionally. IP: Logged |
missem2003
Newflake Posts: 15
From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 02, 2012 07:54 AM
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Originally posted by birdy:
He does not sound like a twinflame/soulmate/whatever, and even if he was, he sounds very unevolved spiritually and emotionally.
Yes... very unevolved. He has so many issues. Where to begin? Lack of self-esteem, temper issue...IP: Logged |
Alma Sun
Moderator Posts: 1190
From: The East Coast
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 02, 2012 12:19 PM
If I were in his position.. I would be p1ssed off too. It doesn't matter how drawn to you he was; you didn't tell him the truth and he, rightfully so, feels violated.
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What to do now?
Leave him be.
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missem2003
Newflake Posts: 15
From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 02, 2012 03:20 PM
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Originally posted by Alma Sun:
If I were in his position.. I would be p1ssed off too. It doesn't matter how drawn to you he was; you didn't tell him the truth and he, rightfully so, feels violated.
Leave him be.
He never asked, I never told. When he did get interested and he asked I told him the truth. He just got embarrased because he thought he'd hook up with me & I wound up being the person he least suspected. The more I think of his situation the more I see how much drama he is & how many issues he needs to fix about himself.
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Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 4346
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 02, 2012 07:39 PM
I have to agree this doesnt sound very twin flame to me either. Sorry if that sounds blunt..
Twin flames are more always around each other and have something going on,even if its a friendship.. There would be a lasting mutual affection for each other. It wouldnt be one sided. This could be a soul mate though.. One that you/him has something to teach each other.. From what you posted, you may have to learn how to let this one guy go, and learn from your mistakes.. I think you should let this guy go completely ,dont contact him in any way..
If for some reason its meant to be then it will fall into place at some other time.. Fate/universe always has its way... Good Luck though..  IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
Knowflake Posts: 616
From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 03, 2012 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
If for some reason its meant to be then it will fall into place at some other time.. Fate/universe always has its way...
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T
Knowflake Posts: 4789
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 04, 2012 03:47 AM
People come in for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.It sounds like this one might be a "reason". Hope you heal and find someone mature and loving soon. IP: Logged |
SaggiMC
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 13, 2012 06:10 AM
sounds like someone is being obsessional here. Life is about moderation in all things.Honesty is the best policy.Why did you think he was a twin flame? ------------------
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missem2003
Newflake Posts: 15
From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 13, 2012 06:42 PM
I think he's a twinflame, because a psychic told me that he is. We are very similar, but very Ying Yang. A year ago, I saw his pictures and was instantly drawn to him. I felt an overwhelming sense of love for him. I'm not sure why. I brushed it off and tried to forget about him. Eventually, I did.Then, a year later there was a spark. I went online & talked to a psychic friend who told me that he is is my twinflame. I didn't believe it at first, but I noticed that we're similar. We both have curly dark hair, our thumbs are similar, our hands curve in the same way, we both like the same things, we have the same temperament & we're scared of similar things. Even though, we're similar we have some differences. 'Till this day I can't stop thinking about him & I feel love for him. I don't know why. I care about him a lot. I worry about him. I try to forget him & live my life. I am married & I feel that he's similar to my husband (I heard that if you find your twinflame & your married your current spouse is supposed to prepare you for your twinflame, they will be similar is some ways). They're both built the same, same height, & hate olives. I love my husband, but deep down I care very much for my "twinflame." My twinflame is very unevolved. He lacks maturity & life experiences. I found him in a time in his life where he had been so hurt he wanted nothing to do with love. I wanted to help him & counsel him. I'm not a therapist, but I'm just a caring person like this. The problem with me is that I can go to extremes. I don't know where my boundaries are. I didn't mean to stalk him. I apologized to him. I have come to terms with my life. Though, I care about this man that I've never met I feel that I am with my soulmate (my husband) and need to nurture our marriage. I feel that my twinflame's purpose is not to be with me in this lifetime, instead to show me how much love I already have with my husband. When you meet twinflames, at time it's to open you up spiritually or to teach you a lesson (if the time isn't right for you two to come together). IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 2137
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 13, 2012 07:27 PM
Twin flames only meet when both are VERY spiritually evolved and at the same level vibrationally speaking. They have also gone through alot of things in their life in order to meet. Also I'd say less than 0.5% of people meet their twin flames. Just cos a psychic says he is doesn't make it true lol. And most romantic soulmates are going to get that reaction out of you. Soulmates are often very similar and ying yang to us. The guy seems immature and you guys probably have a karmic connection instead, so he came into your life to teach you things.Also if he WAS even a soulmate, I really doubt he'd be calling you a stalker. Lol. IP: Logged |
missem2003
Newflake Posts: 15
From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 13, 2012 07:54 PM
mintgirl123: The same could be said of people who don't have a psychic connection... Just because you tell me that he isn't my twinflame doesn't mean that he's NOT. LOL! I've done a lot of research on Twinflames & they can meet at any time. Yet, they don't come together until they are both spiritually aware. So, we haven't met just chatted online (we went to the same schools growing up) he has things to sort through & baggage to release. I will let him be. He can call me anything, isn't he human after all? Perhaps, in this lifetime we are not to meet. It seems to me, that he still has things to learn & past Karma to sort out. I will let him be & let GOD bring him to me when the time is right (If we need to be). SaggiMC: I was honest when he asked.
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mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 2137
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 14, 2012 07:58 PM
But the thing is he doesn't seem spiritually aware at all. He seems really immature. Twin flames don't meet until they're emotionally able to handle it. This guy seems like he needs to grow up alittle first.But hey, if it makes you feel better to think of him that way. It's all good. And what I meant was he wouldn't call you a stalker if this was more two sided and he felt what you felt. Seems like this thing is one sided to me. *shrugs* IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 2137
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 14, 2012 08:02 PM
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Originally posted by missem2003:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by birdy:
[b]He does not sound like a twinflame/soulmate/whatever, and even if he was, he sounds very unevolved spiritually and emotionally.
Yes... very unevolved. He has so many issues. Where to begin? Lack of self-esteem, temper issue...[/B][/QUOTE] If you read the articles on twin flames it always says people come together when BOTH are very evolved. And are close to being whole and 'ascending.' You even admitted that he's unevolved. Now how would you be twin flames then? IP: Logged |
missem2003
Newflake Posts: 15
From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 12:21 AM
He's a jerk. I already know that, but he can still be my twinflame. He just needs to evolve more, that doesn't take away from the fact that he's still my twinflame. Twinflames are at the soul level. Whatever he's doing at the human level has nothing to do with the fact that at the soul level we are or could be twinflames. IP: Logged |
missem2003
Newflake Posts: 15
From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 12:31 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
But the thing is he doesn't seem spiritually aware at all. He seems really immature. Twin flames don't meet until they're emotionally able to handle it. This guy seems like he needs to grow up alittle first.But hey, if it makes you feel better to think of him that way. It's all good. And what I meant was he wouldn't call you a stalker if this was more two sided and he felt what you felt. Seems like this thing is one sided to me. *shrugs*
It doesn't make me feel better that he called me that. Though, I feel I kinda deserved it since I overstepped a lot of boundaries with him. I didn't give him respect or his space. So, I understand his point-of-view. I feel like this space that I've been given has let me understand that I have other things to work on & take care of in my own life. He does seem immature. What can you do? Not all twinflames are mature or evolved. He still lives at home and he's 34 years old. Totally, not what I would like in a man, but according to the articles I've read. You have to look beyond looks, money, etc. & really connect at the soul level with your twinflame in order for it to work. IP: Logged |
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