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Topic: What are we to each other and why does he always try to re-connect
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Natsukashii Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 21, 2012 05:21 PM
There is this man that I have felt connected to ever since we met. We were in a relationship but things didnt go to well because of our respective baggage and the trust issues we had with each other. I guess I loved him more, but he has always been the one to reach out. And Just when I am ready to put it all behind me he reaches out via sms or email. There is no way he knows what is happening in my life. If we are not meant to be why does he keep popping back into my life. I dreamt of him recently and a day later I heard from him after 5 months. And so bitter was he towards me then that I thought I would never see him again Whats happening here? What am I supposed to learn from this? I'll be happy to post further info if someone wants to give this a bash. Thank You IP: Logged |
Natsukashii Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 21, 2012 05:39 PM
I thought I would add he is Scorpio with Taurus Moon and Venus in Sag and Mars in scorpioIm aquarius, leo moon, libra mars and venus in aquarius. IP: Logged |
LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 123 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 28, 2012 03:38 AM
You guys have a vibe. Just go with it, scorps usually reach back out to old flames every now and then. I don't know what happened in the relationship, but it seems like unfinished business to me.IP: Logged |
Natsukashii Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 29, 2012 12:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by LetsDance: You guys have a vibe. Just go with it, scorps usually reach back out to old flames every now and then. I don't know what happened in the relationship, but it seems like unfinished business to me.
Unfinished business is exactly how I would descibe it. But why does it never finish? The relationshi was a disaster. Can this be a case of our higher selves wanting resolution? IP: Logged |
LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 123 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 29, 2012 02:26 AM
quote: Whats happening here? What am I supposed to learn from this?
This is such a positive approach you are taking Could it be that the relationship was not meant to be a romantic one? Maybe because it was cut off, whatever caused you two to meet and connect is left unfinished. I don't want you to agonize over this, though. Just be patient (cool-headed) and trust your instincts -- revelation will come. IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 1003 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted April 29, 2012 08:23 PM
Scorpios are good at telepathic communication. So are Aquas & other electricity conducting signs (Air & Water).It doesn't mean anything. In a nutshell: If you've been sending him messages - fantasizing about him & such, he got it them & was/is sending you a response. IP: Logged |
LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 123 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 04, 2012 02:04 AM
It does mean something.IP: Logged |
Natsukashii Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 05, 2012 11:05 AM
AllI do feel like he and I have a telepathic connection...but when I try and focus to get him to contact me it doesnt work. And I wish that my logic wouldnt get in the way...my mind says dont be an idiot, my heart and soul say there is something there I am confused, thats what I am Really grateful for your thoughts... IP: Logged |
Natsukashii Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 05, 2012 11:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by LetsDance: It does mean something.
Thank you LD
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LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 123 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 14, 2012 02:47 AM
You're welcome. You may have been successful in sending him messages telepathically which could have made him feel forced to respond. You know fixed signs don't like to be forced or controlled to do anything, and if you try to push against that will, they will retaliate. You can send positive energy (thinking/saying positive things about him) his way that he will welcome and the next response will be better.
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ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 879 From: Maine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2012 09:02 AM
I share your sun/moon combo, and we have this happen OFTEN in our lives. I don't know why, but it does. Aquarians are known to be able to remain in the lives of MOST if not ALL of their ex lovers and friends because it usually ends quite amicably, or at least we are able to retreat emotionally enough to keep things "cool". The moon part is where it gets tricky. Think of it this way: Leo = Love/Pride. When we feel something for somebody, it is usually very intense and we become loyal to that person, nearly for LIFE unless they really mess us up. But there is an ego aspect with this as well. We have a tendency to cling to something/somebody because we cannot understand how they could not return the same kind of feelings and caring that we gave/give to them. It wounds us, and rather then back down or run away from that (although our suns swear that we can) we will remain there until we get the satisfaction that YES, we are truly appreciated and even loved in return. Even if it doesn't work out, we need to know that it's not because there is something "wrong" with US. It takes a bit for that part to sink in and not be rejected by the ego. I'd say your Mars placement also wants things to end "fairly", meaning that you are not left feeling "less" than him. Your Venuses also played well together, there was a sense of fun and THAT is what you remember and what he most likely remembers as well which causes you two to reconnect. Then your Moons butt heads and things probably get distant again. I'd say that it DOES mean something, but as was said by somebody else, I don't think it's meant to be romantic, perhaps a lesson in pride and accepting that when somebody comes into your life, even with a deep connection, you can either just be friends, or walk away, and not feel rejected but enlightened. I wish you luck, I've definately been there a few times.. Ghani IP: Logged |
Natsukashii Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 19, 2012 01:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by LetsDance: You're welcome. You may have been successful in sending him messages telepathically which could have made him feel forced to respond. You know fixed signs don't like to be forced or controlled to do anything, and if you try to push against that will, they will retaliate. You can send positive energy (thinking/saying positive things about him) his way that he will welcome and the next response will be better.
Thanks LD this makes perfect sense. I am going to do just that... IP: Logged |
Natsukashii Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 19, 2012 01:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by ghanima81: I share your sun/moon combo, and we have this happen OFTEN in our lives. I don't know why, but it does. Aquarians are known to be able to remain in the lives of MOST if not ALL of their ex lovers and friends because it usually ends quite amicably, or at least we are able to retreat emotionally enough to keep things "cool". The moon part is where it gets tricky. Think of it this way: Leo = Love/Pride. When we feel something for somebody, it is usually very intense and we become loyal to that person, nearly for LIFE unless they really mess us up. But there is an ego aspect with this as well. We have a tendency to cling to something/somebody because we cannot understand how they could not return the same kind of feelings and caring that we gave/give to them. It wounds us, and rather then back down or run away from that (although our suns swear that we can) we will remain there until we get the satisfaction that YES, we are truly appreciated and even loved in return. Even if it doesn't work out, we need to know that it's not because there is something "wrong" with US. It takes a bit for that part to sink in and not be rejected by the ego. I'd say your Mars placement also wants things to end "fairly", meaning that you are not left feeling "less" than him. Your Venuses also played well together, there was a sense of fun and THAT is what you remember and what he most likely remembers as well which causes you two to reconnect. Then your Moons butt heads and things probably get distant again. I'd say that it DOES mean something, but as was said by somebody else, I don't think it's meant to be romantic, perhaps a lesson in pride and accepting that when somebody comes into your life, even with a deep connection, you can either just be friends, or walk away, and not feel rejected but enlightened. I wish you luck, I've definately been there a few times.. Ghani
Thanks Ghani....My soul wants him in my life and if I have to be honest we were nothing spectacular as lovers. I wish we could have been. A soulmate doesnt have to be romantic, right? This unfinished business is not serving any of us, but I think I will let it unfold as it wants to or needs to. You expressed my feelings so well, I can see you have been there too...thanks for your help today.... IP: Logged |