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From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009

posted June 02, 2012 07:24 PM            

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I've recently ended a relationship (or changed it to 'just friends') with a man who is most definitely a soulmate of mine.

It couldn't have carried on and (in the best tradition of soulmate relationships) it was full of hard lessons, tough truths and spiritual and emotional growth. It was full of deception of one sort or another and I felt myself being used in many ways, so it was definitely the right thing to do for me to stop feeding into it.

However... I miss it and I miss him. I can talk to him - via FB or on the phone but it's just not the same. I feel disconnected and yet that silver chord is still very much evident, tugging at me. I have no idea how he feels. I suspect I'm alone in this really and that's ok. I know it'll fade at some point - things always do. But for now, it's left me feeling more alone and more empty than I've ever felt in my life. I'm sorry if this is a depressing post to read - I'd finish on a gag and a song if I could haha! But I just felt the need to get this off my chest somehow. To note it and acknowledge it, in the hope of lifting its hold over me a little. Well here's hoping! Thanks for letting me vent.

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From: Summerville, SC, USA
Registered: May 2012

posted June 02, 2012 10:01 PM            

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Sending you heaps of healing energy and a hug!!! Smile through the pain. I know it is difficult to smile when one feels so out of sorts but it really is good medicine.

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From: Maine
Registered: Apr 2009

posted June 02, 2012 10:40 PM            

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Have you thought of a cord cutting? It can help with that tugging.. I've just gotten over mine (about 4 months "clean" from my soul mate) and it was almost 3 years of back and forth torture..

Peace will come. I hope quickly!

Ghani

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posted June 03, 2012 05:04 PM            

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I am going through the same thing. Although, the relationship was great. He just scared himself about committing to marriage and now we're in this limbo thing where I guess we are just "friends" now. I'm coming to the realization that it is more painful to still be in touch than having a clean break and move on.

I have tried to do the cord cutting but it doesn't work for me - I can't cut the final cord in my visualizations! I guess that's because I still hold on to hope that he'll come around.

I wonder if this has to do with Venus retrograde right now.

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posted June 06, 2012 02:22 PM            

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Wat does the Venus retrograde mean?

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