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Topic: I'm having dreams about an old friend I once had deep feelings for
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PrettyPisces
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: Cambria heights,NY
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 16, 2012 06:48 AM
  
I recently came to this board letting you all know about a friend I had deep feelings for some years now. Recently I decided to end our friendship ( I didn't let him know) the last time I heard from him was around my birthday a few months back. Last month his best friend told me he asked about me , then within that week I started receiving "unknown and blocked phone calls" now I'm not going to assume, but few have my #. We no longer live near each other I graduated in May, and I deleted my Facebook (only on INSTRAGRAM and LinkedIn now). I came to this board again because I recently had a dream about him and I actually remember the dream in full detail which rarely happens; to sum that dream up ( he asked me in the dream actual words" Can I speak to you for a second"....in the dream he looked concern, and it seemed like he had a few issues with me. Last night I had another dream AGAIN! But this time it was his only sister talking to me (in real life I never had a sit down convo with her) only thing she has ever said to me was " you look pretty today" , " how is college", and " where did you get such as such from( clothing"....but in this dream I was sitting in her car and she said " I really wish you were with my little brother, I saw him today and he misses you...you guys had this weird thing about you too no matter who you're both dating you always come back to each other, you trust each other".... Dreams have me thinking about a lot idk how I should interpret them, I don't plan on going back to him it was too many up and down moments and I actually started to no longer be happy being his friend.IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 1574
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 16, 2012 08:20 AM
For what it's worth, I was glad to read the end of your post...so many people LIKE the up and down, thrive on the drama. It's refreshing to me when women walk away from that.I was in a similar relationship for years- in love with my "best friend"/ex-boyfriend. I'd dream of him after we parted ways permanently, and it would be so real and happy- like how we were at those "high" moments. Then, predictably, the next day in real life would be troublesome. Almost like nothing in life compared to him...which was part of the problem. It took a long time to recover from all that but I finally did- life goes on! Best wishes to you.  IP: Logged |
PrettyPisces
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: Cambria heights,NY
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 19, 2012 06:05 PM
Thank you Faith for your insight. Im doing well ; sometimes I feel alone, and I want to give in but faith, determination and admiration of myself keep me going . Your statement: " seems like nothing compares to him" holds so much true he is the ONLY guy besides my dad that I feel like I'm not being judge , comforting, and keeps a smile on my face but the washy washy , passive aggressive bull isn't for me...HIS insecurities is NOT MY problemIP: Logged | |
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