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posted July 04, 2012 03:47 PM            

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And I learned that today.

I'm the Taurus and he was the Aries and for some reason we NEVER got along. I am far to stubborn, and he is far to childish for me considering he was 31 years old.

So what does a Taurus do for his next relationship? How does one become less stubborn and go with the flow of loving someone rather than manipulating the love into what he wants?

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posted July 04, 2012 09:04 PM            

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Find someone whose values and outlook in life are similar to yours. Someone who doesn't need to be manipulated in order to fit your criteria for a good relationship. Someone whose flaws you fully accept. Someone who can give you fulfillment: body, mind, heart and spirit.

It's not really because he's an Aries and you a Taurus, you probably just didn't fit all along. Don't worry, just be positive that you will encounter that someone who can be perfect for you. (who knows, he may be an Aries too, but someone more fitting) Life has its own way of giving us what we need, just be open to everything it has to offer and be wise enough to know what would be good for you in the end.

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posted July 04, 2012 09:14 PM            

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We've been texting back and forth all day and he was talking about fighting for us and such, which I really hope happens.

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posted July 05, 2012 10:16 AM            

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Asc/Sun/Moon/Mercury/Venus/Mars placements of both of you say a lot more.

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posted July 05, 2012 01:48 PM            

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I'm new to all of this, but I did do the natal chart compatibility and all it came up with was negative aspects about how we have vastly different ideas and when we talk about them, it usually irritates the other.

We make plans that never follow through because one of us is too stubborn to let the other have the lead; that goes for anything.

Somehow we have a positive family life together though.

Not that I think this is how it is... I look at that stuff as more of an insight on how people react and how to change the negative things. I.e. being less stubborn when ideas and plans come my way, and giving up the lead more.

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posted July 06, 2012 03:19 AM            

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Earthbowl you should post links to the synastry and composite charts in this thread

I remember looking at your synastry and you don't have all negative aspects at all but of course there are challenges and it all is very complicated looking at it in terms of astrology... But I know you in real life and you know my opinions lol so it would be interesting to see other people's thoughts on your synastry together...

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posted July 06, 2012 04:11 PM            

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