posted October 29, 2012 07:54 AM            

Completely 100% devoted despite any other relationship I might have.

posted October 29, 2012 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by basya23:
we should talk about this...

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Originally posted by LionFish:
Ugh, YES!

Completely 100% devoted despite any other relationship I might have.

I'm actually engaged to someone else and it can be REALLY awkward being around my Twin...

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I know exactly what you mean.

posted November 15, 2012 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Spellmaster257:
I know exactly what you mean.

I also noticed that ever since that day, I have eyes for no one else. I might find another man attractive, but my interest fades as quickly as it came - though it is never much to begin with. I can't take the thought of a serious relationship with someone else SERIOUSLY at all.....*sigh* no one comes close to a real comparison .... really puts a cramp on things.

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YES! When my twin and my fiance are in the same room I feel like a moon stuck in a limbo-orbit between two planets. My fiance is a soul mate, and definitely a Karmic partner, so he shines brightly in his own accord, and my Twin is..well, my Twin and not a soul on this earth could cast a brighter light than him in my world.
There was one night, we were all sitting around my brother's living room and I was sitting next to my Twin, across from my Fiance. When I got up to leave, they both asked me "where ya goin?" and I answered my Twin, not my Fiance, because I didn't even hear him over the sweet music of my Twin's voice. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

I love my Fiance! I do! And as long as I'm not around my Twin, or haven't been around my Twin, it's easy to act like it and remember it. But when he's been involved I end up comparing how I feel about him to how I feel about anybody else, and nobody else can compare.. It's not fair sometimes

posted November 15, 2012 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
YES! When my twin and my fiance are in the same room I feel like a moon stuck in a limbo-orbit between two planets. My fiance is a soul mate, and definitely a Karmic partner, so he shines brightly in his own accord, and my Twin is..well, my Twin and not a soul on this earth could cast a brighter light than him in my world.
There was one night, we were all sitting around my brother's living room and I was sitting next to my Twin, across from my Fiance. When I got up to leave, they both asked me "where ya goin?" and I answered my Twin, not my Fiance, because I didn't even hear him over the sweet music of my Twin's voice. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

I love my Fiance! I do! And as long as I'm not around my Twin, or haven't been around my Twin, it's easy to act like it and remember it. But when he's been involved I end up comparing how I feel about him to how I feel about anybody else, and nobody else can compare.. It's not fair sometimes

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Lionfish I can relate. I've been married for about 10 years now and since TF is close to my family (my family considers her family), my wife knows her. My wife and TF both have the same sounding first syllable of their first name, wife is "Sh" and TF is "Ch" but hers is pronounced like sh. I often have to stop myself from calling my wife TF's name.

Also, I know this may sound crazy, but whenever I show my wife affection, I feel like I'm cheating on TF!

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posted November 16, 2012 01:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Lionfish I can relate. I've been married for about 10 years now and since TF is close to my family (my family considers her family), my wife knows her. My wife and TF both have the same sounding first syllable of their first name, wife is "Sh" and TF is "Ch" but hers is pronounced like sh. I often have to stop myself from calling my wife TF's name.

Also, I know this may sound crazy, but whenever I show my wife affection, I feel like I'm cheating on TF!

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It doesn't sound crazy at all actually. You can't help who you're bound to and loyal to at a soul level. Just be careful not to alienate your wife when your Twin is around BECAUSE you feel like you're cheating. I've felt this EXACT same way. I know I'm not doing anything wrong showing my fiance affection, but I'm mortified (like I got caught!) if my Twin sees it. I want to go after him telling him "that kiss didn't mean anything! I love you! I'm sorry" and then I come back to my senses...

I can imagine what it's like having your TF as a close family friend, mine is good friends with my brother. If ever he's down on his luck, he stays with my brother. I've walked in my brother's front door in the morning to find my Twin sleeping on his couch: can we say start to a perfect day?

posted November 16, 2012 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
....the sweet music of my Twin's voice.

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:3 aww..

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Originally posted by LionFish:
...I know I'm not doing anything wrong showing my fiance affection, but I'm mortified (like I got caught!) if my Twin sees it. I want to go after him telling him "that kiss didn't mean anything! I love you! I'm sorry" and then I come back to my senses...

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I laughed so hard reading that and can totally imagine how that can be _-_

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Originally posted by LionFish:
I can imagine what it's like having your TF as a close family friend, mine is good friends with my brother.....I've walked in my brother's front door in the morning to find my Twin sleeping on his couch: can we say start to a perfect day?

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Originally posted by LionFish:
It's definitely not an easy situation to deal with. Time doesn't lessen it, distance only makes you miss them more, and then when you DO see them it's like the floodgates of heaven broke open and you can see the light of day again... (yeah, I've had that happen a few times between my twin and I.) I guess just grin and bear it is the only answer here... at least we're lucky enough to have found our TFs!

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posted December 18, 2012 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
this might seem weird, but if you've truly found your twin why would you get married to somebody who isn't your twin? don't you want to be happily ever after? mind cheatttinggggggg

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posted April 13, 2013 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
YES! When my twin and my fiance are in the same room I feel like a moon stuck in a limbo-orbit between two planets. My fiance is a soul mate, and definitely a Karmic partner, so he shines brightly in his own accord, and my Twin is..well, my Twin and not a soul on this earth could cast a brighter light than him in my world.
There was one night, we were all sitting around my brother's living room and I was sitting next to my Twin, across from my Fiance. When I got up to leave, they both asked me "where ya goin?" and I answered my Twin, not my Fiance, because I didn't even hear him over the sweet music of my Twin's voice. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

I love my Fiance! I do! And as long as I'm not around my Twin, or haven't been around my Twin, it's easy to act like it and remember it. But when he's been involved I end up comparing how I feel about him to how I feel about anybody else, and nobody else can compare.. It's not fair sometimes

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That. That EXACTLY what you just said. Good God, I haven't seen something that looked like it could've been something I said. Wow.

I deeply sympathise - erm, empathise - LF. It's nothing I'd ever wish on my worst enemy, that feeling.

posted April 13, 2013 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
It doesn't sound crazy at all actually. You can't help who you're bound to and loyal to at a soul level. Just be careful not to alienate your wife when your Twin is around BECAUSE you feel like you're cheating. I've felt this EXACT same way. I know I'm not doing anything wrong showing my fiance affection, but I'm mortified (like I got caught!) if my Twin sees it. I want to go after him telling him "that kiss didn't mean anything! I love you! I'm sorry" and then I come back to my senses...

I can imagine what it's like having your TF as a close family friend, mine is good friends with my brother. If ever he's down on his luck, he stays with my brother. I've walked in my brother's front door in the morning to find my Twin sleeping on his couch: can we say start to a perfect day?

It's definitely not an easy situation to deal with. Time doesn't lessen it, distance only makes you miss them more, and then when you DO see them it's like the floodgates of heaven broke open and you can see the light of day again... (yeah, I've had that happen a few times between my twin and I.) I guess just grin and bear it is the only answer here... at least we're lucky enough to have found our TFs!

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Some of my friends post these 'I love my husband' things on FB. Not that I'd jump on that bandwagon anyway, but since they're both on FB, (and I distinctly noticed that his commenting and Liking went down to practically zero after my engagement) I'm so careful not to mention my husband much on FB. I know. I know. It's bizarre. (Fortunately, my husband doesn't even notice.) But I know that HE does.

And so I'm always ... aware. I think there are practical reasons for this, but at the same time, it's a bit odd. I already shudder at the knowledge he's probably lying when he says he hasn't seen the film work that I did with my husband before we married. And the irony is that he's my co-star in the upcoming series. WE play opposite each other.

Yeah. I know. It hardly 'makes up' for the fact I married someone else. Now matter HOW little choice he gave me, or HOW complicated it all is.

Any rate, I can relate.