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Topic: Hello, new here and REALLY need some guidance on twin flames/souls
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Enlightened
Knowflake Posts: 48
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 12, 2012 12:19 PM
  
Hi everyone! I started researching twin souls,soul mates, connections, etc, and it brought me here...I could really use some insight..I feel like I am going mad!I am a female in my thirties, and I have never felt this before..
I believe I have met my "twin flame" but it is all so complicated!
First off, when I first met him, there was an intense "look" between us, I can't explain it, but the intensity was unmistakable. I pushed it aside as nothing, or me being paranoid. He is in his late twenties now,(we are six years apart) but at the time, (this was two and half years ago), he looked so YOUNG to me, and I just dismissed it as "he has a crush on me".
No big deal, right? I keep dating my long term BF...time goes on and I will call him my Twin Flame, keeps the intensity going...The deep stares, the feeling of the eyes always on me, the anxiety he gives me when we DO lock eyes (which I always avoided in the past), it was like he could SEE into my soul, and I his. And it freaked me out.
I see him about three or four times a week, for about an hour at a time through work. We RARELY ever speak...it's almost as if it's too intense? We are both attached to other people as well,(which I sense our situations are similiar right now, we are both "comfortable" but not in love with our other halves) and everyone knows that,(that we are attached to others) so I think we are both scared...
The one time I saw him outside of work totally by chance was at a restaurant party for a mutual friend, when he saw me, his whole face lit up all happy, and it hit my core, so I responded like a scared fool...then we actually had the chance to speak, his girlfriend showed up, and he couldn't lok at me, but all night I caught his eye several times.(Well ,we caught each others)
Anyway, it has now gotten to the point where I think we are both accepting, than running.... The "dance" as they call it right? Anyhow, I am surrendering...I can't help it. The feelings I have towards him are far deeper than anything I have EVER felt, and
I NEED to know if this is mutual...how do I know that???? Please help me....I am seeing him at a meeting tonight..it will be the same. Racing heart, followed by this crazy sense of calm & completion in his presence.... my libido is SOARING and nothing has ever happened between us physically!My attraction to him is getting stronger & stronger. Is it that I am "catching up"? I am a reasonable and logical person, so WHY???? Am I confusing this experience with lust/infatuation???? IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 22983
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 12, 2012 01:31 PM
Welcome!------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Enlightened
Knowflake Posts: 48
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 13, 2012 04:54 PM
I'm really hoping for some insight...I feel so lost right now. It's strange...IP: Logged |
ZezeLoves
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Palm Harbor Florida USA
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 09, 2012 08:13 AM
What are the signs? I was in this exact situation with a guy at work, I was in an unhappy relationship and the feeling of intense attraction for this other guy was unbelievable. I acted on it and it fizz;ed becuase our signs were completely not compatable. Me a libra, him a Torus. Do you think there would be more to it or do you think you both are just in unhappy relationships?IP: Logged |
violet7887
Knowflake Posts: 1053
From: maya
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 09, 2012 09:15 AM
this is my most honest answer to you, only time will tell.I just want to share some things with you also. just remember not to to loose yourself in your feelings. If it is not working out naturally dont force it. Let the love grow inside,this may seem like it is impossible but that is all that really matters anyway. Open up your heart to everything around you. I wish you all the strength and love within for your journey.  ------------------
The love you seek, you will find within. IP: Logged |
Evolved1
Newflake Posts: 19
From: Chicago, IL USA
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 11, 2012 09:29 PM
Many ppl can come on and tell you what they think, what they have been through similar, but in all honestly you are gonna have to let this unfold on its on. Cause what I found out about a situation like this is if its meant for two ppl to connect on some type of level its gonna happen and to resist it will make things worst then not...Don't do anything its going to unfold on its own, what this is all about that is..IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 22983
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 12, 2012 04:26 PM
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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 302
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 13, 2012 09:58 AM
I think only time will tell like someone else pointed out. I know it can be a scary thing to do sometimes due to fear of rejection, but why not just ask him if the feelings are mutual? This way you'd know for sure if you were wasting your time or not.------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged | |
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