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Topic: virgo man help was for HippieChick but open for everyone i need assistance
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lentrice0908
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posted September 15, 2012 02:00 PM
  
Okay I think I need a forum for conversation between myself and you hippiechick lol you're very knowledgeable. Anyways as before I said this virguy told me he didn't like me anymore and saw me as a friend which he was telling me "prematurely"in his words but I still stayed cordial and he was supposed to help me move this past Saturday but did not. I called a lot that morning I guess he was asleep so I found someone else to help (on the 8th). Now I know him and he had not texted me to see what happened or to apologize but he told someone I've been on his mind and he's pretty sure I haven't been having him on mine (that was the 10th while he was at work I believe) and now I'm wondering what that means. Does he feel guilty or is he actually realizing he has deeper feelings than what he thought. Especially since I decided to let him see everything for himself like without me being there to help or talk to like before I figured he'd learn or see for himself how I actually played something bigger than what he logically believes. I guess let his heart see instead of his brain or for him to use both instead of analyzing and planning based of what he already thought he knew as I see Virgos do. Anyways I'm just curious because I still love him and will of course take him in of course but with guards up I've also been seeing a Capricorn and Pisces and neither really do it for me.IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted September 15, 2012 09:21 PM
I think he feels bad, men despite him being a Virgo dont usually go around telling people a lady is on his mind...In the middle of a hectic work week, (am a nurse work 12 hour shifts) let me ponder this, will be back! t~~~ IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted September 15, 2012 09:28 PM
Okay! Thanks and now evidently someone asked of me and he replied saying its like I disappeared off the face of Earth. And spoke about how he can't find me on my social networks and such. Apparently the person he answered said it seemed like he feels or felt abandoned but I mean. If he misses me so much he should contact me. His best friend is the one who asked (in his presence) to my closest friend so idk how to feel about that either.
And woooooow twelve hours! Geez I thought my 19 was long.IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted September 17, 2012 01:58 AM
I meant to say 10 -___- lol not 19IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted September 18, 2012 05:29 PM
I still think he feels bad. Virgo is the sign of service and they cant live if they cant help, especially a man and a lady situation....I have often wondered if my Virgo bfriend is not inlove with me, but inlove with the service he was providing me (before he moved back home 1200 miles away...) I really feel that they are so service and duty bound they will put this before themselves before all else, even love. The old trick with Virgo, and I am speaking only of men here, is to ask for help, be the damsel in distress and THAT alone is a huge turn on for them. It is really strange, tho, my bfriend, us both registered nurses, admires my "ingtelligence" (like I have any), revels in it, then turns around and tries to instruct me on selling my house, etc. Interesing and confounding creatures they are! t~~ IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted September 18, 2012 06:15 PM
Oh I act the princess trapped in the tower from time to time...I try to make it so I don't appear needy which I do not. But he texted yesterday wondering about my mom. And has admitted hes been thinking about me. Right now he asked how do I feel and what exactly do I want of him
I want to say I love him and would like to progress in our relationship but slowly as friends. Is that too much. Because he is still a little emotionally immature.IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted September 18, 2012 07:21 PM
Also he def didn't feel bad he said he didn't receive my calls and should have left a voicemail. So yeah now its without that component. And yes they are very interesting.IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted September 19, 2012 02:30 PM
Ya know my Virgo man states that he likes my (ridiculous) independence but not so stated he thrives on "service."Look at the thread on astrology that I posted on about Virgos falling under the rule of Mercury... complex creatures, but I do love them and as I stated there as I will here, I am on a learning curve with them. Just because my Virgo mother brought me into this world 50 years 6 months ago, doesnt mean I understand them at all, but IF I am going to work this now lond distance relationship out with my guy, I MUST learn!!! terri~ IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted September 19, 2012 02:45 PM
btw the lady, it would really help for you to look at your and his personal planets.i think a cancer and a virgo could be lovely, way more easier than a pisces and a virgo, but it all depends on the entirety of the charts energies~ IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted September 20, 2012 09:23 PM
I don't know them!!! lol I need to thought obviously huh? but we talked and answered his question.
I told him, basically, I love him, but hes busy doing whatever hes doing as am I and so I want us to grow closer as friends to progress into something deeper, that way when hes ready for a relationship well have a real chance, and if the relationship doesnt work out (which I hope it will)then at least we said we tried and have a great platonic relationship in the end. I told him I wanted us to end up like Juno ha!. He said he heard me out and agreed. IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted September 20, 2012 09:24 PM
and maaaaaaan do you sound like me! When he asked why I think we should be more than friends that was one of my many answers. "Because I took the time to thoroughly understand your complexity, not saying other women wouldnt, but I know you very well and it took observation and study". lol. IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted September 20, 2012 09:45 PM
oh and ive ready pisces are their opposites so I always assumed they were the better water sign, but sometimes I think of the patience/temper of my pisces best friend and i dont know. But my birthday is June 27 1990 and his August 28, 1991so i already know theres a problem because not only did he just turn twenty one but hes a YOUNG virgo, I heard they dont mature until like mid twenties possibly early thirties. Then based off of this website "how stuff works" it gives specifics on birthdays I just compared us through that.
heres our so you can see what I mean http://tlc.howstuffworks.com/family/june-27-birthday-astrology.htm http://tlc.howstuffworks.com/family/august-28-birthday-astrology.htm IP: Logged |
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