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catulele83
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From: Woolwich twp. NJ, USA
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posted September 29, 2012 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for catulele83     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know what to expect, he hasn't said anything to me at all yet...what am I going to expect? And why all the sudden do I feel so much pain, when I'm the one who called it quites?

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lalalinda
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posted September 30, 2012 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
moving to Soul Unions

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hannaramaa
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posted September 30, 2012 03:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm starting to believe Sags are on the spectrum for Narcissistic Personality Disorder! Just to kick off this thread with an optimistic approach...

Anyway, when I broke up with my Sag moon boyfriend he said NOTHING about it. Nothing. He texted me like everything was normal and really, refused to acknowledge it. He appeared unphased and unaffected by it completely.

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RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
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posted September 30, 2012 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes people who seem like they aren't bothered are actually hurting deeply inside, but refuse to allow themselves to show it--out of spite, pride, or some other reason.

There really are people who just aren't as affected by things, too, but others do feel but just don't show it.

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charmainec
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posted October 01, 2012 03:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just because someone doesn't show it, does not mean that are not hurting.

We are all unique individuals and we each express pain in our own way. We can't always have the reaction we expect.

Maybe he needs time to come to terms with it.. breakups often leaves one feeling rejected as well as many other emotions.

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catulele83
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From: Woolwich twp. NJ, USA
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posted October 01, 2012 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for catulele83     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thankyou..we actually got back together...

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charmainec
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posted October 01, 2012 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cool beans.

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Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.

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ariesdragon
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posted October 01, 2012 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charmainec:
Just because someone doesn't show it, does not mean that are not hurting.

We are all unique individuals and we each express pain in our own way. We can't always have the reaction we expect.

Maybe he needs time to come to terms with it.. breakups often leaves one feeling rejected as well as many other emotions.


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